FR Night Time Cold Approach With Crystal Clear Audio (limited time only)

[Gentle_Phrases]

Another Street Approach Audio

Check this out and throw me some feedback: https://soundcloud.com/gentle_phrases/n ... ch/s-xHG6U

I'll leave it a surprise as to whether or not we exchanged contact info at the end. This set was a good example of playful persistence, given the circumstances. It also represents how I interact with the girl in the vast majority of my sets. Be sure to read the description I attached underneath; audio is great, except for the first three seconds. Limited time only, in the interests of privacy.

 

[Gentle_Phrases]

That's weird. Looks like the first link was broken

https://soundcloud.com/gentle_phrases/n ... ch/s-xHG6U

 

[Mr.Rob]

haha This shit is lame... you hit on me better than this girl. Lol.

You went into pure logical operandus when you started telling her to get Vans shoes "because they have qualities xyz that will accentuate your giraffe walk girl"

Her mind was clearly on getting wherever she wanted to go and perhaps you did a bad job of acknowledging that and going on about random bullshit rather than getting to the point. I think direct would've been a good option here or perhaps saying "look I see your in a rush, (insert direct statement with solid eye contact)"

Remember this?

Any story you tell after the opener must be short and CLEARLY about her or something she could be interested in

Though I will say your not scared to put your ego on the line to try out whatever comes to mind. I think a million dollar mouthpiece in the making... in the making.

Putting those puzzle pieces together baby.

P.S.
LOL'ed here
Her: IHAB
You: "Oooohhhh nooooooo" said in a sympathetic way like you actually care.

 

[Gentle_Phrases]

Hey Rob, thanks for the feedback brotha

You went into pure logical operandus when you started telling her to get Vans shoes "because they have qualities xyz that will accentuate your giraffe walk girl"

Truth. No idea why I said that -just grabbing for straws.

Her mind was clearly on getting wherever she wanted to go and perhaps you did a bad job of acknowledging that and going on about random bullshit rather than getting to the point. I think direct would've been a good option here or perhaps saying "look I see your in a rush, (insert direct statement with solid eye contact)"

Yes - good point. I'm of two minds here. My eyes were opened on Wednesday after I number closed a girl in 30 seconds and she responded to my texts the next day. When she gives you a signal that she REALLY has to go, then you can just go for the number close and force her to decide. I used to think the idea of a 30 second number close was a load of baloney...now...

However, if she's not very comfortable or you didn't make a killer first impression...then ask too quickly and the answer will be no. Here, I tried rambling to bring up her comfort level with me and raise the odds of exchanging contact info. Didn't work. I did that because I got the feeling that although she was in a rush, it wasn't that much of a hurry.

Though I will say your not scared to put your ego on the line to try out whatever comes to mind. I think a million dollar mouthpiece in the making... in the making.

Thanks babe

P.S.
LOL'ed here
Her: IHAB
You: "Oooohhhh nooooooo" said in a sympathetic way like you actually care.

Lol, that was because I had a sneaking suspicion that she had a boyfriend. I'm not about going after chicks with boyfriends. I've just wanted to use that line "tell him I'm gay," because someone suggested it for giggles...so I did .

 

[PrettyDecent]

Howdy GP,

This audio was a fresh idea; I can pinpoint much better what's happening in your interactions. Whenever I recorded myself, I'd seemed to stuff up, so kudos!

Quick notes:

- The opener was a bit too long - and then when you finally get to the part to compliment her on, you made fun of her. To people on this website that makes sense - "instead of using a direct opener, he poked fun of her at the end to lower his attainabillity so she'd chase him. Interesting!". But to her, she doesn't understand there was supposed to be a compliment there, or why you really ran up to her. At the very least, you can compliment her THEN banter. But I'd switch it to the standard opener ("Hey, I just saw you walk past me, and you had the most captivating walk I've seen all day. I just had to come say hello. I'm GP")

- You didn't make her invest - either through talking or moving her somewhere. After the compliment, you want to get her talking about herself. You want to get out of the habit of carrying the conversation completely on your own, into having her invest by thoughtfully answering your questions and asking you questions back.

I noticed other things, but I need to catch some shut-eye now. If you want me to, I can post some other tid-bits later.

Really respecting your dedication, bro.

~Nick

 

[Gentle_Phrases]

At the very least, you can compliment her THEN banter. But I'd switch it to the standard opener ("Hey, I just saw you walk past me, and you had the most captivating walk I've seen all day. I just had to come say hello. I'm GP")

Interesting - I didn't realize that the initial compliment was so unclear. I wonder if this has alienated me from a few women without me knowing it. I lightly tease all women, yet keep the compliments to a minimum, usually. I focus more on testing via touch.

You didn't make her invest - either through talking or moving her somewhere. After the compliment, you want to get her talking about herself. You want to get out of the habit of carrying the conversation completely on your own, into having her invest by thoughtfully answering your questions and asking you questions back.

Yup - I agree with you. Couldn't seem to get over that hump with her. Looking back I would have calibrated by telling her I thought her walk was sexy and asking if she was some sort of dancer or something.

I noticed other things, but I need to catch some shut-eye now. If you want me to, I can post some other tid-bits later.

Sure. Tear it up, PrettyDecent! Thanks for the feedback man.

Really respecting your dedication, bro.

Thanks man, same to you.

 

[Gentle_Phrases]

Link down. PrettyD, stay tuned.

I'll be posting an audio from today sometime later.