FR nightgame in home country

[stratvm]

SCENE: popular "hard but possible to get laid" venue, after getting laid 2 days ago (GFE by a beginner, i can recommend to give self esteem, confidence & reassurance while dealing with massive waves of rejections, flakes, disinterest, LMR & stuff)

1.
- cold approached a girl standing upset for about 15 mins
- deep dive: check
- moved her: check
- made her happy but not laugh: check
- said she had boyfriend, i asked her if everything was okay, she said no
- tried to invite her with me to a quiet bar, didnt want to
- didnt go for the number but i should have, next girl i went for it with success

2. few cold approaches with direct opener (i like you and you seem to be a nice girl) , no luck but no rude responses but happy faces and thank yous

3. on the dance floor i had hot dance with a pretty girl, moved her a lot, pulled her in and stuff, tried to isolate her but she wanted to be with her friends (despite insisting so i just let it go). i should have stayed with her maybe as she liked me, this is a point i need to improve. im really sensitive and give up easily.

4. cold approached a girl whose friend was busy with another guy (for no reason btw)
- told her to move, have a chat: no
- asked why, got into conversation
- she said had boyfriend, i asked her if everything was okay, she said not at all (this is very typical to this country, most girls are taken but are in bad relationships)
- told her so we need to discuss it, i can bring freshness to her life
- replied she goes home to her home town
- told her to exchange numbers and if she is free lets meet her on if she happens to go to the country i work, there

5. met with girl acquaintance of mine and her girl friends.
- one of them was receptive, had some chat and lots of touch but decided not to push (and i run out of willpower anyway)
- exchanged numbers with the acquaintance, i want to friendzone a few girls and pay for their nights (its very cheap here and it is free for me) - as they know i have the $$$ it doesnt seem to be try hard. and i really need girls around me. to get used to their company and to get to know more girls through them.

all in all though no lays or kisses or stuff but
- i now feel getting numbers is no big deal at all
- can deep dive routinely (and get surprised how much women can talk)
- realized that asking if everythings allright with boyfriend is an efficient boyfriend destroyer
- realized that approaching groups is easy provided you dont break the circle
- can routinely move them at least a bit
- persistence becomes more and more natural
- friendzoning is in progress
- looks are very important in nightgame but even if you dont look good like me you can still have lots of things going on with the right game & other fundamentals

where i need massive improvement:
- isolating girls, pulling out of the nightgame scene
- pushing girls more who like me, dont give up easily
- i darent approach really beautiful girls but i more and more feel they are either the same as average (even better natured) ones, even have the same preferences (all of them are extremely picky) - it is that their shields look impenetrable.
- still feel the puppy dog nice guy style on me but at least im aware of it

 

[stratvm]

DAY 2 going out

SCENE - very snob bar, hookup maybe possible but saw only a very few new couples maybe 2-3

1. was in a terrible mood, i just didnt approach anyone, touched briefly only 2 (btw very beautiful) girls as pre open - one of them was unresponsive one when i was leaving. should have gone back to her when she turned back. im STILL on autopilot and unable to engange in these situations. didnt bother much as im going to get laid tomorrow by a 3hour girlfriend.

2. somehow started making out with a hot girl (older than me though), she kind of approached me but interaction was very natural
- started making out within minutes
- building compliance: check (i was drinking her drink, i made her sit on me, etc.)
- though she moved me 2x by dragging her to her friends then to another place - she knew the game. group was respectful of us, didnt engage into any conversation except saing hi
- spent the whole night with her, agreed in date, exchanged numbers
- tried to get her home but she firmly said no and also told she could go home with many guys tonight but she is not interested in it
- the place was full of gorgeous single women but their faces were like serial killers, didnt even try to penetrate the shields

TEXT GAME:
- save number: check
- some small talk but cutting the thread to minimize interaction via text
- date date confirmed


conclusions:
- the shield of very beautiful women here is just brutal while they dress like sluts so obviously want to meet men
- even mixed groups are easy provided you dont break the cycle
- same night lay seems very hard for me mainly because i just dont find the girls who are open to it (usually keep tracking a few to see how their night goes on so later i can identify who could be taken home)
- 1 number per night (useless or useful) is the bare minimum from now on but yes, 4-5 would be needed to keep a steady flow of women.

 

[laura43]

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