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Context
For those following my journal, you may have seen my mood drop from a height of zen on Friday. But perseverance is funny, and by cross-gaming, I was able to enjoy a wonderful experience.
I woke up Sunday morning after a fairly unsuccessful Saturday night. While it took me a while, I made it out of bed and onto the beach. I was dressed in flip flops, a swim trunk, a bracelet, and sunglasses. I’m quite happy to say that my physique is at the point where muscles are starting to show on my body as I walk. It’s quite a change from all previous moments of my life.
I head to the beach, and I grab a spot and meditate for 20 minutes. Focusing on a mantram and letting my thoughts go as best as I can. Once complete, I scan the beach for the right opportunity.
Setting Up the Approach
I spot her curves before I see her, then I watch her sit down in the sand, relatively close to the surf. She's wearing a red bikini, with one of those camisoles as a top. I get up from my spot, and walk in a L shape, so that from her perspective, it will appear as if I were walking directly to the water. I use my usual beach opener, and ask her to watch my stuff.
I head into the water for a bit, enjoying the narrative I'm crafting in order to make a charming approach. Then I head back to my stuff, and I open very indirectly. In fact, it doesn’t even matter what I say, because it turns out this girl doesn’t speak any english. But luckily, one of the languages she does speak is a language I also speak (badly).
Open and Hook
So I start by telling her that it’s great she doesn’t speak english, because it will give me a chance to practice this other language. She hooks pretty well, and asks me some questions, which I try to respond to as best as possible.
To be honest, most of the conversation is fairly simple. I do my usual SOTs, talk about traveling, talk about making connections.
While talking about connections, I’ve started using listing in order to emphasize the last option. Speed Seduction has additional useful materials on listing.
By assigning the “chemistry” to the end, I give it the most impact. Since it’s not a controversial topic, it makes sense to place at the end, as opposed to burying it in the middle of the list.
Amazingly (and I find this very funny), in my broken language skills, I somehow pull off the good sex gambit. It’s not incoherent, and I get her help to figure out how to say what I’m trying to say, but she basically says that bad sex and men focusing only on themselves is something that happens in her country as well.
While talking with her, I made the suggestion that we should meet up later in the evening after a shower and grab a drink nearby. I suggest grabbing a shower because I don’t want to deal with my bed sheets smelling like the ocean.
Another funny thing-because my ability to speak her language is so terrible, I am able to sub in some dirty words for the words that someone who wouldn’t know the language would assume meant something different. Not a very big thing, but something that can be fun to use under the right circumstances.
While talking, she asks my age, and I tell her to guess. She guesses correctly, then tells me she’s 9 years older than me. I could kind of tell she was much older than me, but at the same time, she definitely had curves. Her butt was massive, without necessarily implying a giant stomach. The fact she guessed my age as is made me think the social frame was likely okay, because of the likelihood a woman would guess an age that would make her feel allowed to hook up with me (for more advanced posters, let me know if this assumption is wrong-I'm personally not sure about it, though I've definitely heard others suggest this is the case).
A Quick Venue Change, followed by another
After a while on the beach, she actually suggests that it’s cold, and suggests moving more inland. So we grab a spot at a park in the grass, and continue talking. After a bit, I realize that she is actually ripe for pulling. So I quickly seed a pull, and then in a few minutes suggest we do the activity that I’ve seeded. She agrees, and we head to my place.
It turns out she’s staying next door to me (building-wise, not apartment-wise). So we quickly stop by hers and lounge in the pool to wash off some sand. Sadly that means my bed sheets will now smell both like a chlorinated pool, as well as the ocean.
Escalation
Anyway, after this we stop and buy some beers before heading up to mine. From here, she asks me to play some music. I go to the bathroom for a few minutes and let her get settled. Then I come back, and let the tension build up again. Then I go in for the kiss and we start making out. I pull back first, and then we go back to it. She’s heavily in it, but the first time I pull down her bikini to lick her nipples, she stops after she realizes what’s happened and pulls it back up, saying she doesn’t do this on her first time. I basically say that I respect whatever she wants. Then I go back to making out, moving my hands over her body, and feeling for the moment when she’s more ready to go back to what I was doing.
When I feel that moment, I grab her and push her down to where we're essentially in missionary, but with both our shorts (and her bikini bottom) still on. Then I start sucking her neck, licking her, kissing her chest, dry humping, and she’s in heaven. So I keep her bikini on but start sucking/massaging her nipples. Eventually, her legs open up, and I take it as a sign to go down on her. I do this for a bit, until she asks if I have a condom.
Post-Sex
We cuddle and hang out for a bit, before she heads out. She left this location today to continue on her vacation, but I’m glad I was able to give her a good experience before she left. She calls me beautiful, tells me I have a big dick, and also calls me her baby. Mildly not okay with the last one, but I'll allow it because she was leaving soon.
Other fun aspects were doing a seduction in a language that isn’t my native tongue. That threw some interesting curveballs that I had to get around. Coming up with ways to communicate what I wanted, coming up with hand gestures to communicate what I was trying to say, in a way that didn’t come off as dancing monkey. I wonder where knowing a language, but badly, falls between not knowing a language at all, and being conversational in it.
Also the oldest girl I’ve been with, but it felt fairly similar to any other seduction I’ve had, and in a way, easier. Undoubtedly, this will be a seduction I’ll remember for a long, long time.
The rest of the day is spent doing laundry.
For those following my journal, you may have seen my mood drop from a height of zen on Friday. But perseverance is funny, and by cross-gaming, I was able to enjoy a wonderful experience.
I woke up Sunday morning after a fairly unsuccessful Saturday night. While it took me a while, I made it out of bed and onto the beach. I was dressed in flip flops, a swim trunk, a bracelet, and sunglasses. I’m quite happy to say that my physique is at the point where muscles are starting to show on my body as I walk. It’s quite a change from all previous moments of my life.
I head to the beach, and I grab a spot and meditate for 20 minutes. Focusing on a mantram and letting my thoughts go as best as I can. Once complete, I scan the beach for the right opportunity.
Setting Up the Approach
I spot her curves before I see her, then I watch her sit down in the sand, relatively close to the surf. She's wearing a red bikini, with one of those camisoles as a top. I get up from my spot, and walk in a L shape, so that from her perspective, it will appear as if I were walking directly to the water. I use my usual beach opener, and ask her to watch my stuff.
I head into the water for a bit, enjoying the narrative I'm crafting in order to make a charming approach. Then I head back to my stuff, and I open very indirectly. In fact, it doesn’t even matter what I say, because it turns out this girl doesn’t speak any english. But luckily, one of the languages she does speak is a language I also speak (badly).
Open and Hook
So I start by telling her that it’s great she doesn’t speak english, because it will give me a chance to practice this other language. She hooks pretty well, and asks me some questions, which I try to respond to as best as possible.
To be honest, most of the conversation is fairly simple. I do my usual SOTs, talk about traveling, talk about making connections.
While talking about connections, I’ve started using listing in order to emphasize the last option. Speed Seduction has additional useful materials on listing.
By assigning the “chemistry” to the end, I give it the most impact. Since it’s not a controversial topic, it makes sense to place at the end, as opposed to burying it in the middle of the list.
Amazingly (and I find this very funny), in my broken language skills, I somehow pull off the good sex gambit. It’s not incoherent, and I get her help to figure out how to say what I’m trying to say, but she basically says that bad sex and men focusing only on themselves is something that happens in her country as well.
While talking with her, I made the suggestion that we should meet up later in the evening after a shower and grab a drink nearby. I suggest grabbing a shower because I don’t want to deal with my bed sheets smelling like the ocean.
Another funny thing-because my ability to speak her language is so terrible, I am able to sub in some dirty words for the words that someone who wouldn’t know the language would assume meant something different. Not a very big thing, but something that can be fun to use under the right circumstances.
While talking, she asks my age, and I tell her to guess. She guesses correctly, then tells me she’s 9 years older than me. I could kind of tell she was much older than me, but at the same time, she definitely had curves. Her butt was massive, without necessarily implying a giant stomach. The fact she guessed my age as is made me think the social frame was likely okay, because of the likelihood a woman would guess an age that would make her feel allowed to hook up with me (for more advanced posters, let me know if this assumption is wrong-I'm personally not sure about it, though I've definitely heard others suggest this is the case).
A Quick Venue Change, followed by another
After a while on the beach, she actually suggests that it’s cold, and suggests moving more inland. So we grab a spot at a park in the grass, and continue talking. After a bit, I realize that she is actually ripe for pulling. So I quickly seed a pull, and then in a few minutes suggest we do the activity that I’ve seeded. She agrees, and we head to my place.
It turns out she’s staying next door to me (building-wise, not apartment-wise). So we quickly stop by hers and lounge in the pool to wash off some sand. Sadly that means my bed sheets will now smell both like a chlorinated pool, as well as the ocean.
Escalation
Anyway, after this we stop and buy some beers before heading up to mine. From here, she asks me to play some music. I go to the bathroom for a few minutes and let her get settled. Then I come back, and let the tension build up again. Then I go in for the kiss and we start making out. I pull back first, and then we go back to it. She’s heavily in it, but the first time I pull down her bikini to lick her nipples, she stops after she realizes what’s happened and pulls it back up, saying she doesn’t do this on her first time. I basically say that I respect whatever she wants. Then I go back to making out, moving my hands over her body, and feeling for the moment when she’s more ready to go back to what I was doing.
When I feel that moment, I grab her and push her down to where we're essentially in missionary, but with both our shorts (and her bikini bottom) still on. Then I start sucking her neck, licking her, kissing her chest, dry humping, and she’s in heaven. So I keep her bikini on but start sucking/massaging her nipples. Eventually, her legs open up, and I take it as a sign to go down on her. I do this for a bit, until she asks if I have a condom.
Post-Sex
We cuddle and hang out for a bit, before she heads out. She left this location today to continue on her vacation, but I’m glad I was able to give her a good experience before she left. She calls me beautiful, tells me I have a big dick, and also calls me her baby. Mildly not okay with the last one, but I'll allow it because she was leaving soon.
Other fun aspects were doing a seduction in a language that isn’t my native tongue. That threw some interesting curveballs that I had to get around. Coming up with ways to communicate what I wanted, coming up with hand gestures to communicate what I was trying to say, in a way that didn’t come off as dancing monkey. I wonder where knowing a language, but badly, falls between not knowing a language at all, and being conversational in it.
Also the oldest girl I’ve been with, but it felt fairly similar to any other seduction I’ve had, and in a way, easier. Undoubtedly, this will be a seduction I’ll remember for a long, long time.
The rest of the day is spent doing laundry.
