There is a freshman girl I talked to a while back and we ended up exchanging numbers and chatting a bit. She ends up buying booze off me and I can sense the vibe is there but she does not stay long enough for things to escalate.
Fast forward a bit we end up hanging out before break. This is how I got her to come over. She hits me up first.
So she comes over and we drink and talk but she is pretty closed off and so we just talk and i display my nonjudgmental attitude and she talks about some dude I give no fucks about, honestly I prolly coulda put it in her butt (She mentioned a threesome) or whipped it out but whipping it out just feels weird and i did not think of the butt stuff till a later date. We talk for a bit and i try to kiss her but no, not much is happening and I get bored since we are not gonna fuck i start getting dressed to go to the clubs. I end up kicking her out and we walk and go our separate ways. I go to the club she goes to her dorm.
She hits me up a week later for alcohol. Pretty sure that's just what she is using me for, doesn't bother me. I don't end up doing it because i don't feel like it. Then a week or two passes and she hits me up again for booze and she comes over to get it and i feel the tension but because she was having dinner with her dad later i decided not to kiss her which i could have but would involved me getting off my bed and going over to her. Either way i can tell there is sexual tension we just have to hangout again and pretty sure it will happen, if not cool. I threw the ball in her court after trying to get her to hangout with me i think twice both times before she bought the alcohol the last time i described. So we will see, if she hits me up to hang it is a wrap.
How would you guys escalate without kissing? I feel like if I can't kiss a girl I can't escalate, what do you guys do if you can't kiss a girl to escalate. She made up an excuse that her lips were just for x guy.
Fast forward a bit we end up hanging out before break. This is how I got her to come over. She hits me up first.
Her: Hey
Me: Hey?
Her: What's up
Me: Doing some laundry and stuff, you?
Her: At this bartending class
Me: Ah nice, up to anything after?
Her: Headed to xhall
Me:I meant as in tonight as in lets hangout
Her: Ohhh hahah my bad, and do what?
Me: Drink, fuck, talk, in that order
Her: I'm on my period
Me: Hahaha a period does not bother me, I think it's sexy
Her: It hurts way too much for sex rn
Me: Hahaha rhen just come drink and talk
Her: I gotta find some warm clothes bx xhall is a hike
Me: Lol throw on some leggings you'll be fine
Her: I'm super layered rn
Me: Cool text me when your on your way
Her: On my way rn
Her: Like two mins away
Me: Text me when your downstairs
Her: Here
Me: Ok omw
So she comes over and we drink and talk but she is pretty closed off and so we just talk and i display my nonjudgmental attitude and she talks about some dude I give no fucks about, honestly I prolly coulda put it in her butt (She mentioned a threesome) or whipped it out but whipping it out just feels weird and i did not think of the butt stuff till a later date. We talk for a bit and i try to kiss her but no, not much is happening and I get bored since we are not gonna fuck i start getting dressed to go to the clubs. I end up kicking her out and we walk and go our separate ways. I go to the club she goes to her dorm.
She hits me up a week later for alcohol. Pretty sure that's just what she is using me for, doesn't bother me. I don't end up doing it because i don't feel like it. Then a week or two passes and she hits me up again for booze and she comes over to get it and i feel the tension but because she was having dinner with her dad later i decided not to kiss her which i could have but would involved me getting off my bed and going over to her. Either way i can tell there is sexual tension we just have to hangout again and pretty sure it will happen, if not cool. I threw the ball in her court after trying to get her to hangout with me i think twice both times before she bought the alcohol the last time i described. So we will see, if she hits me up to hang it is a wrap.
How would you guys escalate without kissing? I feel like if I can't kiss a girl I can't escalate, what do you guys do if you can't kiss a girl to escalate. She made up an excuse that her lips were just for x guy.
