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Yo guys,
I need some advice on what's going through this girl's mind. We've met on Tinder, after a couple of words back and forth she initiated a date. We had to re-schedule 2 times, but eventually made it happen yesterday.
We ended having some food together with drinks, after that I suggested to go to a bar. We got pretty buzzed, I've made some efforts to escalate psychically a couple of times (Ex: Take her hand, when stepping out of the taxi), but she never initiated any psyhical contact back. So after a while I invited her home (with her agreement to go to my place first to pick up some stuff and go to her place after).
So we end up in my room on my bed, chatting for a couple of minutes, I wasn't really seeing any chances here to take action, since she was kind of keeping her distance on the bed. Eventually she said that we should go to her place. So since she was living with her room-mate, I was resistant at first, but ended up failing to convince her and ended up going back to her place after all.
We took a taxi to her place, the moment she arrives she rips her bong (damn nice, she really caught me off guard on that one). She said, I could sleep over if I wanted to. So, of course I took a shower and placed myself next to her.
After some random videos on Youtube and chats, I go in for the kiss. She's resistant and pulls-away, telling me stuff like "It's too soon, this is our first date" in a very shy, but playful manner. I pull back, telling her that's it's no problem (Can't show sulky behaviour), acting like it's no big deal. So, after a while I try again and I got the same resistance & explanation, with me responding in a similar way as the first time. She would tell things like "I think you're cute" & "I would kiss you, but not now" & "Thank you for being here". We ended up chatting more, ended up cuddling & falling in to sleep. No kiss, no nothing.
Next morning, we have some food together with her room-mate and I left afterwards.
My question here is, how do I proceed after this?
AsianCharm
I need some advice on what's going through this girl's mind. We've met on Tinder, after a couple of words back and forth she initiated a date. We had to re-schedule 2 times, but eventually made it happen yesterday.
We ended having some food together with drinks, after that I suggested to go to a bar. We got pretty buzzed, I've made some efforts to escalate psychically a couple of times (Ex: Take her hand, when stepping out of the taxi), but she never initiated any psyhical contact back. So after a while I invited her home (with her agreement to go to my place first to pick up some stuff and go to her place after).
So we end up in my room on my bed, chatting for a couple of minutes, I wasn't really seeing any chances here to take action, since she was kind of keeping her distance on the bed. Eventually she said that we should go to her place. So since she was living with her room-mate, I was resistant at first, but ended up failing to convince her and ended up going back to her place after all.
We took a taxi to her place, the moment she arrives she rips her bong (damn nice, she really caught me off guard on that one). She said, I could sleep over if I wanted to. So, of course I took a shower and placed myself next to her.
After some random videos on Youtube and chats, I go in for the kiss. She's resistant and pulls-away, telling me stuff like "It's too soon, this is our first date" in a very shy, but playful manner. I pull back, telling her that's it's no problem (Can't show sulky behaviour), acting like it's no big deal. So, after a while I try again and I got the same resistance & explanation, with me responding in a similar way as the first time. She would tell things like "I think you're cute" & "I would kiss you, but not now" & "Thank you for being here". We ended up chatting more, ended up cuddling & falling in to sleep. No kiss, no nothing.
Next morning, we have some food together with her room-mate and I left afterwards.
- Is she really that shy?
It's too fast for her? Since she had her last boyfriend earlier this year in March?
Playing hard to get?
I haven't build enough attraction?
...?
My question here is, how do I proceed after this?
- Should I text her, telling I had a good time with her? Or rather wait till she texts me again?
What kind of date should I invite her to, while aiming for the "best" results?
...?
AsianCharm
