No reply to text after long, deep, high-attraction first interactions

[Prehistoric]

Two nights in a row I had very deep interactions with two girls I met in different bars.

There was a lot of kino and some minor kissing (I purposefully avoided long make outs, which I could've done very easily).

In both cases the pull was made difficult by the presence of cockblocking friends.

In both cases I texted the day after with two very similar messages:

"hey Lara, hope you had a good rest of the evening. we ended up going to Club X. We should go for a coffee this week. Prehistoric"
"hey Jessica, how's is it going? nice of you to share your beer with me yesterday =p. What about sharing a glass of wine this week? Prehistoric"

In both cases I received no reply at all.

I gave my self two different possible explanations:

1) there's something wrong with the structure of my texts. for example asking out on the first message rather than sending a couple of connection and intrigue building texts before

2) after long, deep, high-attraction interactions you reach a point of no return, where you either pull her the same night or you might as well forget her. asking for the number becomes even pointless, unless you want to do it just for the training.

of course there's always the possibility that I didn't do anything particularly wrong and a third girl might have replied, although the fact that these two situations were basically identical makes me doubt that.

what do you guys think?

 

[Prehistoric]

Thanks for your answer, radeng.

My experience is starting to point in that same direction, so it's good to have confirmation from more experienced gamers.

It's very counter-intuitive because we men automatically assume "wow, she had a great time with me, she literally loved me. The deal is already closed, I just need to text her and we'll be sleeping together in no time" but as with many things in female psychology what we spontaneously assume is simply wrong.

I'll try some nights to just hit bars with the intention of having 5-minute conversations and collect a lot of numbers instead of having such long interactions, which simply end up feeding your ego and nothing more.

 

[Paulie Walnuts]

I dunno I just think night game is a little different, in my experience of pulling 20+ numbers in a weekend, there's still MAYBE 2-3 responses out of that. I mean I'm still a beginner so I could be wrong but... I'm trying to focus on closing the deal as far as night game is concerned from now on because this has happened 3 weekends in a row.

In the last instance, where I upped my kino and interaction time none of the girls responded but are always viewing my snapchat stories (5-6 of them all from the same night), weird.