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I am not sure what skills I have, as in how good. I would have to sit down more and really think how good my job skills are and how I can monetize that on the internet. Luckily I have a Windows PC I bought back in 2016, I saved up my money and got a laptop for $400 USD. The battery has gone bad, but its plugged in like a regular desktop computer and it works really good still.. I am typing this on it now.

You don't have to be good...just fast and reliable. Browse through those remote jobs and write down what you think suits you now. In time people that interact with you are gonna point out your strengths and weakness (ask for feedback, always).

I never thought about asking people for money. Thats a great idea. Ok I will sign up for those pages and ask people to help me. I promise to give a personal thanks to everyone who helps me. I have been betrayed and hurt in the past so I would never do this to anyone.

People help people all the time...just explain the whole situation like you did here. Even people that don't put money in you give you good advice - or at least some encouragement.
 

Jack Swave

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Five years in a call center, you must be super human.

Lol this made me laugh hard. I wish I were super human! DWL

My wife did that one summer when she was young, and still says it was the worst job she ever had. If nothing else, you must have an armor plated psyche by now. Any other job is going to seem easy. At least people won't be yelling at you and calling you names all day.

The job is very stressful. I think that lifting weights regularly is why I survived this dumb call center job the past 5 years. Yeah people call me names all the time "faggot", "bitch", "cunt", "you talk like the words are coming out your butt", "motherfucker".

That's the kind of stuff I hear on a weekly basis sad to say. It's caused me to go through times of deep depression.

I looked it up. Trinidad is one of the richest island nations in the Caribbean. There has to better jobs available than a call center. If nothing else, five years of that has given you a lot of experience interacting with people and a thick skin. But you need to find something better to work at. I see two possible courses.

Yes Trinidad we are the wealthiest in the Caribbean, mainly due to Tourism, oil, and natural gas. We have one of the lowest unemployment rates in the entire Caribbean as well. I learned this stuff back in high school so I dont know if any other Caribbean country has passed us in the last 5-7 years.

Unfortunately the wealth is not properly distributed. The rich here are getting super wealthy and then everyone ele on the bottom end either gets average salary or below and disturbing low salary. I happen to fall in that low income bracket unfortunately. When I left high school, I wanted to attend college. My parents were so poor we could barely afford all our bills and food so I immediately ended up working at this call center.

Here, in the US, we have what are called community colleges, but they may be called trade schools elsewhere. They offer job training and certification and degrees in anywhere from 6 months to 2 years depending on the field of work, and cost a lot less than any regular college. I went to one a long time ago, learned computer programming, and had a well paid career because of it. I had been working crap jobs before that. There may be government programs to help you go to school, you won't know until you look. The school has people paid to help students get financial aid. The school I went to also had a "Work Study" program that allowed students to have part time jobs at the school that ranged from janitor and cafeteria jobs to tutoring students if you were skilled in some subject. The school I went to trained skilled tradesmen, white collar workers with degrees in accounting, management, and computers, and medical and dental technicians.

If that is not a viable option, get a job where rich people spend money. I highly recommend a car dealership. I worked at four as a young man. The entry level job is washing cars, which they need a lot of. The dealer I take my car to washes it free every time I take it there, even if I just get an oil change or need a light bulb replaced. They have two guys who just do that all day long. it pays better than a call center and there is a strong possibility of advancement. Good hard workers are hard to find and if you can reliably wash cars and show up on time ready to work each and every day, you will get promoted. A car dealership is a river of money, needs a lot of different skills, and will train you if you are reliable and smart. Restaurants for rich people are another place to make money. Again, you will likely wash dishes at first, but it is lower stress than what you are doing, and again, good workers are hard to find, and they can and will train you to do higher paid work if you are reliable.

The government programs are technical to get into. I would require someone who is financially capable to sign documents on my behalf or I would have to be good at sports or some other skill to get a scholarship. Which I was not when I left high school. I look back at high school and I say it was one big waste of time if I leave school and no one will hire me for a decent job.

I never thought about car dealerships or washing cars. Ok I will put together my resume and go job hunting. Restaurants I walked around my city in late 2019 and did 2 interviews at restaurants. The pay was basically the same as the call center for washing dishes. Still you recommend I could go for advancement so I will try again with my resume.

What you are doing is not working for you. You are in a rut and depressed, and I don't blame you. Most people would have given up on life a few years back. You need to look for a new path in life. You have no idea what is possible until you take a look.

Thanks for understanding. I have gone through deeply dangerous depression in the past, even recently. I am grateful that Girls Chase is around and that all of you were willing to help me make the next step.

You don't have to be good...just fast and reliable. Browse through those remote jobs and write down what you think suits you now. In time people that interact with you are gonna point out your strengths and weakness (ask for feedback, always).

People help people all the time...just explain the whole situation like you did here. Even people that don't put money in you give you good advice - or at least some encouragement.

I will browse through the remote job sites you recommend. Thanks :)
 

Mike Silvertree

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I was just telling you what worked for me.

At a point where I was down and out, and sleeping on a friend's couch, I got a job at a family owned restaurant. I washed dishes at first, and because I was reliable, they began to have me help the cooks when it was busy and I had a driver's license and knew the downtown, I got promoted to delivering food in their 4x4 and helping the cooks, got a raise, and someone else was hired to wash dishes. Later that year, I moved to day shift, and was doing a lot of delivering food on foot with a huge insulated bag to keep the food warm. A lot of businesses ordered food around lunch time. One was a sporting goods store, and I got on with the guys who worked there quite well. One day they had a help wanted sign in the window, and told them to hire me. Two years later I was a manager, and ran the evening shift. I was making good money and living well until the place went out of business. You never know where things will lead.

I worked at four dealerships; the first two I washed cars and got put to work on various crap jobs, like cleaning the bathrooms, or cleaning up the customer waiting room. I didn't stay long enough to do anything better. The third place was a small used car dealer that had a four bay garage, and they specialized in sprts cars and muscle cars. I was reliable, so I got do drive cars to places that did specialty work we weren't equipped to do, like installing new tires, or paint and body repairs and interior repairs. I didn't like the boss, so I looked around and got a job at a large Chrysler & Nissan dealer near where I lived and could walk to work. They put me in the parts room, and I was delivering parts to small garages, and doing inventory , shelf stocking, and working the counter dealing with customers and mechanics. I got paid better than previous jobs, and did that until I went back to school.

If all the jobs available to you pay about the same, look for one you won't hate as much and has more opportunity.

Realize, you have some skills. You write well, which is a useful skill, and indicates intelligence. And all those days on the phone have given you good conversational and people skills. That is marketable. It would be much better answering the phone and dealing with customers in a business than the call center, and you won't want to kill yourself half way through each day. The highest paid jobs for people without a professional education are selling stuff. Successful car salesmen make a lot of money. There is lots more money selling houses. But, you need to work your way into those businesses.

And, referring to the original post, you mentioned cars. Cars are expensive to own, and if they are old, at any moment, something expensive can fail. (I'm old, the wife and I have owned 10.) Do not be too critical of small Hondas and Toyotas, they are the cheapest cars to operate, and until they get to 80,000 - 90,000 miles (125,000 - 150,000 KM) they usually need few repairs. We have a small Honda we bought new 8 years ago, and other than a battery and set of tires, we haven't had to spend any money other than for fuel, insurance, and routine maintenance. A friend who bought a much cooler used Mercedes has had a bunch of very expensive garage visits.
 
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