Non reactive to issues on ex bf and speed dating - was it the right way?

[Elusive]

So...

I meet this girl abroad - bedded her there a couple of times and now we're both back in London

Problem 1
Before going abroad her bf just broke up with her
At some point while she was abroad apparently before me and her slept with each other - she agreed to talk with him when she gets back after he said he wants to restart the relationship

Problem 2
In the same night she mentions a speed dating event which shell go to with one of her friends on the weekend


HOW I HANDLED IT

Speed dating: Unreactive; As soon as she told me im asking if shes ever been to one - what she would say in a speed date - did a speed dating role play between me and her and then changed the topic

Ex bf - I let her say what she wanted to say - didnt say anything about me and her or if she still wants him - just listened to her and told her i was sure she would make a decision that was right for her


Was this the right way to handle these situations? If not how should it have been? And theyll probably come up again next week should I handle it any differently then?

Obviously with the ex bf issue I expect she'll have a clearer idea of where she stands then.

 

[Dude909]

You did alright by being unreactive, however what you did would have been the right strategy if you had been seeing this girl for a long time.

A better thing to do with a girl you just started seeing, is to simply change the subject.

Don't get into deep personal relationship discussions with girls you just hooked up with. It invites more discussions.