Not cumming even after an hour of sex

[The Byronic Man]

I read somewhere that not always cumming (but always making her cum) could be a good thing. I was having sex for an hour...made her orgasm multiple times...but I couldn't cum (but remained rock hard the whole time). I tried different positions...adapted missionary, doggy style, etc with condom on. Her giving me a blow job (no condom). I was happy enough to give her so many orgasms, but I think she was disappointed that I didn't cum. How would you handle her feelings and how to gracefully end sex?

 

[metomeya]

How much sexual experience do you have?

My first time, I couldn't cum until I jerked myself off while she was blowing me (I don't think her ego liked that, haha)

I think it is something psychological. Never had that problem again (now pre-cumming is my main concern). I also noticed I had the sensation where I had to pee, but couldn't in the morning (like when you have an inflamed prostate). Again, never had that problem again.

But it was a few years before I had sex again.

If you are in the same boat, I would explain to her that it is psychological. You are going from masturbation to actual sex. And other guys experience it.

 

[D3.]

I have never came from a bj, I think mostly because the girls Ive been with werent that good in the first place. But with penetration, sometimes I came just minutes after a new position, sometimes I didnt at all. So to me I think it has something to do with positions too. But then again Im not completely sure

 

[The Byronic Man]

I have a fair amount of sexual experience with multiple women. I wonder if it's because I'm wearing a condom. And the fact that I'm doing the modified missionary. I think it also depends on how attracted I am. There is one girl I'm really attracted to and I could cum after an hour (or earlier if I'd like).

She needs to be skilled with the BJ for me to cum.

 

[metomeya]

Sounds odd to me. As long as the woman is attractive and gives enough stimulation i'll cum.

Maybe your wiener gets more selective on your once you have a good amount of sex. Science has proved you produce more sperm when you sleep with someone knew verses someone you already bed with. So I think there is a lot going on in your subconscious.

 

[LucidityComeBackToMe]

Ah I wish I had this problem.

 

[adi13]

I have this too on my second round, I don't need more because I can go all night long with number two. There were a few girls that could finish me and start round three but I can count those on one hand. I don't take this as a problem; I like it this way because I can bang the sh.. out of her, and when I'm getting tired I just let her jerk me off or I will do it while she lick my balls or plays with them.

 

[killerman]

Been having the exact same problem for years! Have you tried completely cutting off all porn and wanking? The longest i've gone is 3 weeks and i'm now at 2 weeks and 4 days, and have no intention or urge to wank anytime soon so that next time I have sex it is absolutely unbelievable as a result of not wanking or watching porn for weeks. try it out and see it works. will keep you guys posted how things turn out next 2 weeks!