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When I first started out on this journey I thought it was almost borderline unfair that some people are naturally good with women and don't have to put much/any work in order to get women.
Like "wtf why can't I be killing it! I've worked so much harder than that guy! It's not fair".
Now I never was that bummed out because I realized "hey life is fucking hard and unfair so deal with that shit.
"
But nonetheless it was still on the forefront of my mind... that is until I started getting results in which my perspective changed.
You see learning seduction isn't about getting laid or getting a girlfriend, that's just the external superficial stuff that doesn't ever last anyway. What this shit is really about it the "Hero's Journey" in which you embark on the call to action and become a stronger version of yourself.
I remember reading Zphix's posts over a year ago talking about struggling to overcome A.A. and then 2 months later coming out with LR after LR after LR. I couldn't help but be a bit jealous but I was wondering what he was doing that I wasn't.
However after a while I noticed getting laid wasn't really much of a deal to him (and other fast learning members) and getting a girls number and taking her on a date was like "cool another one, what's next I'm bored".
When I got my first LR I was so fucking exuberant and had this feeling like "yes I fucking did it! It's possible!". Now I'm sure guys like Zphix felt this as well but not on as high a level. They don't value the result as much as someone that struggles more does. Not taking anything away from Zphix he's a fucking pimp and I admire him but what I'm saying is simply a fact. The more you struggle for your vision and the more obstacles you have to overcome to achieve your vision, the more you relish and rejoice in it when you fucking win.
I see guys like Gentle_Phrases and Pretty Decent (his old journal and FR's before he was getting results) hustling, struggling, and bustin the guns and not getting anywhere and I'm almost jealous of them now because I know when they get their results they'll value it and treasure it more than I will. They'll be grittier, stronger mentally, and have a higher amount of testicular fortitude than I.
I still have yet to turn a phone number into a day 2 and I still have very minimal results for doing this shit for a year and a half and you know what? I'm fucking loving every minute of the struggle. I'm loving every time I get a girl's phone number and she flakes. I've even had multiple women in the past couple months hang up on me after I called them and told them who I was. I haven't got laid in months and I've only been with one girl in 2014. I could cry and whine about how everyone else is getting results and I'm not. I could whine about how my city has only 100,000 people or less in it and how I keep approaching women I've approached in the past. I could make excuses that I'm not getting the results I want because of my situation but you know what?
FUCK IT! I love the struggle and I wish at times it was harder than it currently is because sometimes it doesn't feel hard enough! I'm happy enough being on the path to mastery and enjoying the journey, with the knowledge that I know my success in this area of my life is inevitable as long as I keep pressing on.
We haven't had to many cry babies on here lately so props to all of you getting it, but for those of you that don't think it's fair that others are getting results and you've "tried everything" (which you probably haven't) and still aren't I have ZERO sympathy. Life is fucking hard and you have two choices: DEAL WITH THAT SHIT OR GIVE UP. It's your choice....
Love the struggle gentlemen, embrace it, and live it... it'll build character
If you liked this little rant check out my inspiration for this here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Az3u-YcBndE
Keep it pimpin gentlemen!
-Rob
Like "wtf why can't I be killing it! I've worked so much harder than that guy! It's not fair".
Now I never was that bummed out because I realized "hey life is fucking hard and unfair so deal with that shit.
"
But nonetheless it was still on the forefront of my mind... that is until I started getting results in which my perspective changed.
You see learning seduction isn't about getting laid or getting a girlfriend, that's just the external superficial stuff that doesn't ever last anyway. What this shit is really about it the "Hero's Journey" in which you embark on the call to action and become a stronger version of yourself.
I remember reading Zphix's posts over a year ago talking about struggling to overcome A.A. and then 2 months later coming out with LR after LR after LR. I couldn't help but be a bit jealous but I was wondering what he was doing that I wasn't.
However after a while I noticed getting laid wasn't really much of a deal to him (and other fast learning members) and getting a girls number and taking her on a date was like "cool another one, what's next I'm bored".
When I got my first LR I was so fucking exuberant and had this feeling like "yes I fucking did it! It's possible!". Now I'm sure guys like Zphix felt this as well but not on as high a level. They don't value the result as much as someone that struggles more does. Not taking anything away from Zphix he's a fucking pimp and I admire him but what I'm saying is simply a fact. The more you struggle for your vision and the more obstacles you have to overcome to achieve your vision, the more you relish and rejoice in it when you fucking win.
I see guys like Gentle_Phrases and Pretty Decent (his old journal and FR's before he was getting results) hustling, struggling, and bustin the guns and not getting anywhere and I'm almost jealous of them now because I know when they get their results they'll value it and treasure it more than I will. They'll be grittier, stronger mentally, and have a higher amount of testicular fortitude than I.
I still have yet to turn a phone number into a day 2 and I still have very minimal results for doing this shit for a year and a half and you know what? I'm fucking loving every minute of the struggle. I'm loving every time I get a girl's phone number and she flakes. I've even had multiple women in the past couple months hang up on me after I called them and told them who I was. I haven't got laid in months and I've only been with one girl in 2014. I could cry and whine about how everyone else is getting results and I'm not. I could whine about how my city has only 100,000 people or less in it and how I keep approaching women I've approached in the past. I could make excuses that I'm not getting the results I want because of my situation but you know what?
FUCK IT! I love the struggle and I wish at times it was harder than it currently is because sometimes it doesn't feel hard enough! I'm happy enough being on the path to mastery and enjoying the journey, with the knowledge that I know my success in this area of my life is inevitable as long as I keep pressing on.
We haven't had to many cry babies on here lately so props to all of you getting it, but for those of you that don't think it's fair that others are getting results and you've "tried everything" (which you probably haven't) and still aren't I have ZERO sympathy. Life is fucking hard and you have two choices: DEAL WITH THAT SHIT OR GIVE UP. It's your choice....
Love the struggle gentlemen, embrace it, and live it... it'll build character
If you liked this little rant check out my inspiration for this here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Az3u-YcBndE
Keep it pimpin gentlemen!
-Rob
