Not Sure If I should re-engage?

[Marcellus]

Yo what up boys!

Last month I met this pretty cute girl at the gym before I moved to a different one across town.

After chatting for a couple of minutes I tell her we should hang out/play mini-golf sometime and she's like yeah that sounds fun.
Texted her a couple of later the standard it was really nice to meet you, save my number text. She replied and it's all good!
I hit her up again the next day to ask when she's free to play mini golf and she ghosts me. I'm like ehh whatever and move on.

One month later I get a text from her that just says "Hey". Very low effort shit. So I texted her back "?". I just wanted an explanation for why she's hitting me up a month later and only saying hey but didn't wanna send a big text.

She never replied so I called her phone the next day. I just don't like to fuck around and waste time with shit like this, she doesn't pick up twice and once the line is busy. I called within a 3 hour period at different times.

2 days later I'm wondering if I should re-engage? Or just keep it moving. I don't think about this girl at all, I actually forgot about her so it's all good on the mental front.

-M

 

[LoneWolf14]

She texted you a month after ghosting you and you acted bitter. You should have simply asked her out again. 'Hey, stranger, what's up?' A couple of chit-chat texts and you ahould've asked her out.

What made it worse was that you started calling her after getting no answer tocyour own bitter text. Made yourself look like a maniac at which point it was done.

Don't do anything. If you happen to see her again at the gym, be nice, flirty and don't mention anything about what happened. Ask her out again but I think she's too scared because of your actions. Why did you care why she ghosted you? Women even do this to guys they have crushes on. What mattered the most was that a girl you barely knew texted you a month after ghosting you to see if you're still interested. That's a huge IOI.

You honestly seem very needy and it sounds like you could use an anger management program

 

[Marcellus]

I ain't even tryna be rude but bro you actually can't read!

If you happen to see her again at the gym

I literally said in my OP that I moved to a different gym across town. Not only that but you ask why I cared that she ghosted me, where did I say that I cared?

Other than that I appreciated everything else. I'm already on to the next girl.

And the part about me seeming needy and anger issues = cool story bro

 

[LoneWolf14]

I ain't even tryna be rude but bro you actually can't read!

If you happen to see her again at the gym

I literally said in my OP that I moved to a different gym across town. Not only that but you ask why I cared that she ghosted me, where did I say that I cared?

Other than that I appreciated everything else. I'm already on to the next girl.

And the part about me seeming needy and anger issues = cool story bro

Missed that one part, about moving to a different gym. Doesn't change anything.

'She never replied so I called her phone the next day. I just don't like to fuck around and waste time with shit like this, she doesn't pick up twice and once the line is busy. I called within a 3 hour period at different times.' - needy behavior. You're blowing up her phone. You're doing this because you don't care? If you didn't care you wouldn't check back to see why she didn't reply to that already stupid question mark message.

This and also starting your comment with 'bro, you can't read' and you're trying to tell me that you're not tilted? Whatever you say...

I mean it's obvious af that you were angry and needy since you started blowing up her phone. Acting like an ass towards me because I criticized your behavior, won't change the fact that you're sending a needy and angry vibe. You can accept it and work on it or keep telling yourself that you're fine. If you can't take criticism, I dunno why you're here though.

What were you expecting? People telling you 'yeah bro, go get her, no big deal, blow up her phone some more'' after that total mess of a behavior that you displayed? Lol...

 

[Marcellus]

I'm cool with taking criticism. But when you say I got angry when that's not the case. that's just like yeah cool story bro. Maybe I came of like I was angry from my text but in real life I'm just chilling. Guess that's why I was hostile.

Anyways I looked back at your first post and my response. Not cool! I apologize for how I responded and insulting you.

Like I said already I appreciated your advice and I'm already on to the next girl.