Not sure what to do

[OxidoNitroso]

Hello to all of you my name is Robert and I reside in México
I really need some sort of advices, tips and moral raise
There was this girl who I met online (facebook)
And we started chatting like almost everyday, through whatsapp and facebook
Then at some point I realized she was into me, she even draw one of my pictures and she still keeps it.. anyways
By the time I wasn't precisely interested in her by those means so I told her we could be friends (silly me)
She took it well, but she then someday told me that it kinda hurt her a bit since she had hope that we could be something
All of that was before we met in real life, also, we noticed at some point that we were in high school together and that we lived near
like 200 meters away (2-3 minutes walking from my home to hers) All of that liking she had to me was on December from 2012 until apparently April of the current year, somehow she managed to enter deep in my heart, all of a sudden and without noticing I was thinking about her and smiling without her being present nor even knowing her in real life, we started chatting like a couple, calling us nicknames, and very charming to each other, we even talked on the phone and she got nervous and she even told me.. Well all of that kinda went good, but then a day I let her know how I was feeling about her and she some sort of friendzoned me, she friendzoned me in may 13th I believe, then in June 3rd she told me that she liked someone else from her school
It really hurt a bit since I was already into her
Then on her birthday June 24th we spoke over the phone and it was kinda epic, and we were totally nervous, it was a special moment I even told her some nice things and after that day she started waiting for me to come online, asking me to talk over the phone again, asking to meet in real life.
We met in real life in July 10th, we went to a ''fast food'' restaurant Carl's Jr
we talked about our lives, we first saw each other faces and we had a good 3 hours of chat, I bought her a chocolate cookie with ice cream, and then we left the building, we were seeing some mountains and then a rainbow and we stopped talking and we were just staring, directly to the eyes
then we started walking to our houses when it came this division of roads, she had to go up the street and I was going down
we hugged, but then a car honked and we split .. I thought it was a goodbye so I started walking down the street, when I got home she called me to my phone and told me why did I leave and stuff, and left me a message on facebook saying that she had such a good time and that she loved the cookie + that she wanted to see me again... unfortunately that didn't happen we only saw once, and she even called that a date
She constantly asked me to go out, to a park, to catch a movie but I couldn't since I didn't have time (med school issues)
Anyways, I noticed that she wanted to see me again really bad, she went to my school 2 days after that but I wasn't near so we couldn't see again
Now it's October 14th and I am heart broken because I found out that she was some sort of hanging out with a new guy that is in her school
I knew they were by her tweets, on October 7th the guy made a story with a dedication to her, then it was on October 9th when they decided to make it official and they now have a relationship which really hurts me
The thing is that she and I were so close until August 18th, we chatted every day, every hour, until 3am, and quickly responded to me and everything
but after those days by September I noticed some sort of change in her way to communicate to me, she took time to respond, she didn't have ''time'' to see me, now that I could..
and well then I noticed that, they now have 5 days as a couple
and I sincerely don't know what to do.. I really care about this girl and I want her, I decided to fight for her, but I don't know what to do since she seems very excited about him, I can tell by her tweets saying
''I miss him...''
reblogs love posts in tumblr and she looks very excited, a friend of mine who is in her school told me that they were hugging and that they kissed on their lips it was a ''hi'' kiss but also told me that she looked very happy

Thank you for reading guys, I really need advices, I am going to fight for her but don't know how so I need a plan

 

[metomeya]

Sorry too long. Sum it up if you want some advice. You are probably have a ton of unnecessary details.

I've written LONG posts before to get things out of my head and on to paper, but knowing no one would response.

 

[OxidoNitroso]

anyways she was into me from december of 2012 and until april of this current year
we were somehow trying to establish something well at least I was,
We met in real life on July 10th, we went on a date, we hugged at the end and she called me over the phone
all indicated she liked me, from there to august 18th (not sure whether it was that particular day) she still liked me, but after that probably one week later she wouldn't come online often, she went to sleep early and we didn't chat as we used to...
then on september I still noticed that behavior it was october of this current year when I saw some tweets a friend of her had made, something like flattering her eyes in twitter, and he even wrote a story dedicated to her (probably how he gained her heart, or at least it's what I think)
They made it official this wednesday october 10th they are in a relationship, and my doubt is on what to do..
I know she cares about me, but I also know she has that fresh relationship behavior with him, like tweeting about him and those sort of things,
She now takes some more time to respond, and sometimes she doesn't (usually unimportant stuff I say)
Resume: I care about her, I like her and I want her with me
his boyfriend is ugly which means she noticed his feelings and well I don't have any other plan than wait for something bad to happen between them
Please help me guys, I read the post about girls with boyfriends but I don't know what I could actually do :/

 

[metomeya]

Going off how long your first post was and how long this relationship (by which I mean how long you have tried make this girl yours) has lasted you are really hung up with this girl.

I hate to say it but you waited way too long. Best way to seduce women and make them fall in love with you is to act fast. I would suggest you move on and forget about her.

However...if you really do you want her...there is a way but you probably won't like it.

I discovered this from chatting with girls online. Treat her like a little sister. But with this you have to be completely okay with her sleeping with others guys. You should tease her about things including her sex life. Make it innocent at first and make sure she knows you don't care...she'll open up about it cause you are only friends. It is important to be persistent through online interaction. The only way you can screw up is if you get too sexual too fast (cause you are only friends). Remember just tease her you would a guy about being a horn ball. Be alpha cocky. It works cause girls love attention and all these feel good feeling will translate into love over time. It can a lot of time, even years, but it is only a matter of time before she is yours.

I've had several women proclaim their love for me and go into explicit detail of what sexual acts they were willing to do (pretty much anything I could imagine) even when they still had their boyfriend/husbands. I didn't sleep with them until they wouldn't stop pestering me about it. I finally caved (this was never a planned on any of this...I really saw them just as friends).

Anyways, I bring this up cause I feel in love with a girl and realized if I had used the same tactic she would have been wrapped around my fingers.

Like I said, I would move on and find another girl like a real alpha.

Another option would be checking out the article about stealing girls from boyfriends: https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-steal-girl-under-her-boyfriend’s-nose but it is more about sex and not relationships.

 

[OxidoNitroso]

Thank you for replying and for being completely honest
I do realize I waited too long to make a move but I also have promised myself that I will eventually have something with her (relationship)
I know I can do it, but as of now I can't do anything but to stick around and perhaps hope she ends this relationship, once the second thing happens I am gonna try to do a something which I'm not sure what
Probably now I will only be his friend and try to chat like we used to,
I am not sure if she will have this "sex life' thing with him, I can tell she is interested in him but the guy is really ugly, probably not getting too much physical talking about sex (they've kissed and hugged ) unless she falls for him otherwise I'm not entirely ducked .. Thank you for the advice if it comes to be that kind of story I'll use it, meanwhile any other advices? I'm not gonna let her go...