Not texting and always being "busy"

[Anonymous]

So in the beginning of May I met this girl on Okcupid and we talked on the site quite a bit. Eventually she asked me for my number and I gave it to her. We texted back and forth and she would always reply to my texts within 10 minutes so I decided to ask her out. She said she was busy and maybe next week but she would let me know. Asked a week later and got the same thing and she was really sorry and June is super busy etc etc. I havent texted her for a week and haven't heard from her so I'm curious if I should just move on or text again. Like I said she never texts first but always responds. I did notice that she has quite a few "bad days" and eventually I just told her to knock it off, I wasn't trying to be a jerk I was just getting bummed out talking to her and she should smile etc (I told her that and she said sorry and was glad I was honest and whatnot) She did mention that she never had a bf before so I don't know if that has anything to do with it or if she just lost interest. If she lost interest I'm not sure why or what's going on? She has told me that she likes me but her actions haven't really shown it. What should I do? Also I'm new to the site so thanks for all of your responses.

 

[Light]

Just keep inviting her out every 10 days.

 

[Altimeter]

You my friend are being WAYYY too needy. Obviously this girl is your only card, you know it and what's worse is SHE knows it
So why would a girl wan't to meet up with a guy that has no other options and chooses her out of desperation?

It's not a bad thing, you're on the right route however if you want women to give you calls instead, you have to go out. Socialize have fun meet real women and not hang out in OK Cupid at all really. If clubs aren't your scene just find or create an environment where you feel comfortable talking and flirting and talking with real women.

Besides 8/10 online girls end up being a major disappointment. If you don't feel like you can go out and meet women and have fun where you are then you have to move out of town

You have to be in a place where you can joke around women if you want to and not give a fuck about it. Just relax, ask girls out casually and you'll do fine.
If you get serious about it it's just not going to work out.


Best of luck,