Not that Type of Girl

[bigelow]

It seems that when I meet girls on Tinder or through a mutual friend, they say something about not looking for hook ups right off the bat. All I know is, somebody's out there doing the fucking. After all, IT'S TINDER. I tend to disregard, but I can't afford to be wasting my time, money, and energy on every girl who literally thinks I want to take her for ice cream and hang out at my place. Good game works on girls who knows the drill. Some are just honestly not aware of what's happening. So how do you guys deal with disclaimers and make sure that you're on the same page?

I have had way more success with women in their mid-20's and older, but I seem to run into college girls the most. They have no problem with wasting time and are the most likely to flake. I have refined my screening technique a bit more as of late, but aside from more aggressive girls, who really comes out and says what they want? Share thoughts.

 

[Lotus]

they say something about not looking for hook ups right off the bat.

how do you typicaly respond to such statements?

Girls make these statements for two reasons
1. avoid slut shaming- tinder is known for hook ups so to a avoid feeling sluty they make these statements regardless of whether its true.
2. framing- she want set a frame that she is not just DTF.... if you ignore her frame or create a more powerful frame then it doesnt matter what she "said"

girls say and do very different things.... but you have to make them comfortable which is why we learn game.

Good game works on girls who knows the drill.

Good game works period. Being able to adjust your game to the field is what makes your game good. Less calibrated girls are just as susceptible to game.

How do you approach tinder? the general consensus is to open with sexual context, which rarely works because everyone does it.

They have no problem with wasting time and are the most likely to flake.

Agreed.. college girls have many more distractions and shorter attention spans. They have a large amount of men to choose from and there is so much other shit going on in college life. On top of that they aren't reliable and many of them don't have cars. So you really have to move fast before they find another shiny object to fixate on. Did i say move fasttt?