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I met her on an online dating app (Okcupid), I liked her and shot her a message "Hey Beautiful, how are you?" She replied back "I'm good, how are you?" from there, we texted back and forth briefly before I asked her if she wanted to grab a coffee sometime, to which she agreed and gave me her wattsapp. There we talked some more and set up the date. I hit a sticking point with the "where" aspect of the date, as I was not a local to her area (she's a new york woman) but I was able to resolve this thanks to this thread I made.
About two weeks later, it was the day we had planned for our date. She had asked if we were still on. I got the impression she was nervous so I reassured her that I would be there, letting her know I was on my way (I would do this anyway, even if she's not nervous. Just to let her know since it had been a week or two). I ended up running into some trouble on my way over with a hornet that had a hard-on for my car and the worst traffic I had ever seen. I made sure to let her know I was probably going to be late and let her know what was slowing me down.
She was understanding. We ended up meeting an hour late after we had originally planned. She seemed mistakable for a cross between an African-american/ Asian online but her pictures didn't do her justice. She turned out to be a simple yet stunning lightly toned African american with a suggestive sense of style. Runway caliber, with a low v-neck blue satin vest, a leopard pattern cardigan, a short skirt with stockings, a purse that felt like it was made of bricks.
We grabbed my coffee and her tea, and went on a walk for a little until we came to a nice view of a river and a sunset. It was there that we ended up stopping and taking in the view. It's not a private view, we're surrounded by people passing by but I didn't want to go any farther because I knew her place was close by and this seemed like an opportunity so I got in front of her, keeping only me and the sunset in her sight. I didn't feel a romantic vibe or anything, the whole thing felt very casual to me but her face was close to mine and neither of us was saying anything so I just went for it. Next thing I know, where lightly making out in public.
She wasn't the best at it but after about a solid two minutes or so, she stops and says we should stop, looking around and pointing out that there are kids present. Frankly, I couldn't give less of a fuck who saw what so long as we didn't get arrested but clearly she did so I agree and we move along. As we do, I suggest we find some place more private and comfortable, like her place. She doesn't seem too excited about going back to her place and I don't pressure her on it, saying I understand if she's not comfortable with that. I now believe this was a mistake on my part, I think I should've insisted more here and asked why not. Although, I was more concerned with keeping her comfortable there and then, so I didn't do that.
Thus we go on, wandering around New York City, getting lost at every turn and making out here and there when we have the slightest privacy. I always kept my eye out for some place, a dark hidden away area, an alleyway, a bush, a restroom, a place that might have one. Anything. But we never found one. Eventually the sun set and I noticed her check her phone.
It was moments later that she said we should get going. We were in a park area just off from a road. People were jogging past us in the open and there were plenty more places that could still have a restroom and some bushes that seemed might do the trick. I wanted to go look some more and made the excuse that I had to use it and so we went off in search together. Yet every bush was almost entirely transparent and no open buildings had any restrooms. I got a suggestive conversation going with her for the hundredth time that evening and she seemed to like it, getting just as suggestive every time. I'd usually end up trying to get back to her place but it'd end up the same as the first try with the same sticking point.
I suppose I could've tried getting intimate on the second date instead but I wasn't sure how to do that without fucking up. (I know of the article, I just didn't get around to reading that beforehand. Word of advice for future reference: do your homework. Have options on what you can do.)
Eventually she suggested we find a public restroom but we found the nearest one was a good walk away and neither of us where up to it. We walked back to the coffee shop we met outside of and actually found a restroom after a pedestrian who noted we were on a quest forfuckroom restroom, pointed us in the right direction just across the street (Thank you, you beautiful ease dropper! 
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Yet even here there was a catch, we had to buy something to use the restroom and even then, the shopkeep garfunkle lookalike would be watching the one person restroom door closely. No dice. There's no way he was gonna let it slide, I just said I was out of cash (I actually needed that cash for tolls home) and she offered to buy something for me. If she was shy before, I figured there was no way she was gonna play along with whatever excuse I could've made to get past the shopkeep so I just stopped her before she wasted any cash on me and walked her out to the corner we met on. We made out one last time and she stopped and turned away. I knew it was game over, I just said I'd get it if I didn't see her again and that it was fun getting lost together while we did. She said it was nice meeting me and walked away without looking back. I walked off to my car and paid for parking.
There were plenty of other attractive women walking the city streets, I thought about doing some more approaches but I had a long drive home and it was getting late. Oh well, next time. I went home and texted her it was nice hanging out with her. She replied "Yeah fun time" then "Get home safe" I was already home, I said nothing after that. Next day, I woke up and found she unliked me on the dating site but didn't block me on wattsapp. I figured that was it and messaged someone else back.
About two weeks later, it was the day we had planned for our date. She had asked if we were still on. I got the impression she was nervous so I reassured her that I would be there, letting her know I was on my way (I would do this anyway, even if she's not nervous. Just to let her know since it had been a week or two). I ended up running into some trouble on my way over with a hornet that had a hard-on for my car and the worst traffic I had ever seen. I made sure to let her know I was probably going to be late and let her know what was slowing me down.
She was understanding. We ended up meeting an hour late after we had originally planned. She seemed mistakable for a cross between an African-american/ Asian online but her pictures didn't do her justice. She turned out to be a simple yet stunning lightly toned African american with a suggestive sense of style. Runway caliber, with a low v-neck blue satin vest, a leopard pattern cardigan, a short skirt with stockings, a purse that felt like it was made of bricks.
We grabbed my coffee and her tea, and went on a walk for a little until we came to a nice view of a river and a sunset. It was there that we ended up stopping and taking in the view. It's not a private view, we're surrounded by people passing by but I didn't want to go any farther because I knew her place was close by and this seemed like an opportunity so I got in front of her, keeping only me and the sunset in her sight. I didn't feel a romantic vibe or anything, the whole thing felt very casual to me but her face was close to mine and neither of us was saying anything so I just went for it. Next thing I know, where lightly making out in public.
She wasn't the best at it but after about a solid two minutes or so, she stops and says we should stop, looking around and pointing out that there are kids present. Frankly, I couldn't give less of a fuck who saw what so long as we didn't get arrested but clearly she did so I agree and we move along. As we do, I suggest we find some place more private and comfortable, like her place. She doesn't seem too excited about going back to her place and I don't pressure her on it, saying I understand if she's not comfortable with that. I now believe this was a mistake on my part, I think I should've insisted more here and asked why not. Although, I was more concerned with keeping her comfortable there and then, so I didn't do that.
Thus we go on, wandering around New York City, getting lost at every turn and making out here and there when we have the slightest privacy. I always kept my eye out for some place, a dark hidden away area, an alleyway, a bush, a restroom, a place that might have one. Anything. But we never found one. Eventually the sun set and I noticed her check her phone.
It was moments later that she said we should get going. We were in a park area just off from a road. People were jogging past us in the open and there were plenty more places that could still have a restroom and some bushes that seemed might do the trick. I wanted to go look some more and made the excuse that I had to use it and so we went off in search together. Yet every bush was almost entirely transparent and no open buildings had any restrooms. I got a suggestive conversation going with her for the hundredth time that evening and she seemed to like it, getting just as suggestive every time. I'd usually end up trying to get back to her place but it'd end up the same as the first try with the same sticking point.
I suppose I could've tried getting intimate on the second date instead but I wasn't sure how to do that without fucking up. (I know of the article, I just didn't get around to reading that beforehand. Word of advice for future reference: do your homework. Have options on what you can do.)
Eventually she suggested we find a public restroom but we found the nearest one was a good walk away and neither of us where up to it. We walked back to the coffee shop we met outside of and actually found a restroom after a pedestrian who noted we were on a quest for
).Yet even here there was a catch, we had to buy something to use the restroom and even then, the shopkeep garfunkle lookalike would be watching the one person restroom door closely. No dice. There's no way he was gonna let it slide, I just said I was out of cash (I actually needed that cash for tolls home) and she offered to buy something for me. If she was shy before, I figured there was no way she was gonna play along with whatever excuse I could've made to get past the shopkeep so I just stopped her before she wasted any cash on me and walked her out to the corner we met on. We made out one last time and she stopped and turned away. I knew it was game over, I just said I'd get it if I didn't see her again and that it was fun getting lost together while we did. She said it was nice meeting me and walked away without looking back. I walked off to my car and paid for parking.
There were plenty of other attractive women walking the city streets, I thought about doing some more approaches but I had a long drive home and it was getting late. Oh well, next time. I went home and texted her it was nice hanging out with her. She replied "Yeah fun time" then "Get home safe" I was already home, I said nothing after that. Next day, I woke up and found she unliked me on the dating site but didn't block me on wattsapp. I figured that was it and messaged someone else back.
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