LR NYE craziness and a great wing man

[Intimidator]

Won't go into too much detail about the pickup conversation because I honestly don't remember all of the finer points, but last night was a pretty good story. For some reason, I just had a lot of momentum and confidence to be bold from the start of the night. Could be because I was in the middle of a 4-night slay streak.

I was out with one friend who's getting much better with girls, especially after I showed him this site. We started off at a small, pretty quiet bar and I immediately decide to sit down next to a cute older looking girl who was talking to her friend. I just sat down and asked if it was rude of me to interrupt to their conversation (my facial expression showed I wasn't sincerely concerned about being rude - I didn't give a fuck). She seemed really interested but told me a friend was coming in a minute. I could tell by the way she brought it up that it was probably a guy she was seeing.

Me: Are you guys fucking?
Her: Well kind of
Me: Does he fuck you right? Does he get you off?
Her: (pause)...well we've only really hooked up once I don't know
Me: (looking at her like she doesn't realize what a real man can do to her and chuckling) Well you have fun tonight, I'm sure he'll rock your world (sarcastically)

Then I pulled her in by putting my hand behind her head and made out with her. She seemed pretty stunned but really turned on.

Me: It's too bad you're already spoken for tonight. Have fun, though (started to get up to walk away)
Her: Wait, he's not here yet

I ended up getting her number. Not sure I'll try to meet up with her (she obviously seemed DTF but didn't excite me that much) but it was a good way to start the night.

The good shit

We switched to the bar where we planned to spend the rest of the night (around 10pm). I approached a couple girls and had friendly conversations but nothing really clicked. About 20 minutes before midnight, I walked up to a really hot half Asian girl. I approached from behind as she was facing the bar and just grabbed her arm gently until she turned around. She was tall and thin with a really tight body. I stared right at her with a slight smile for a second and then opened very simply.

Me: Hey - I'm Dave (extending my hand)
Her: Hi Dave, I'm Hotasfuckhalfasiangirl

My friend ended up talking to her chubby friend for a while too. It seemed like things were definitely on with Hotasfuckhalfasiangirl, but I don't remember that much of what we talked about. We ended up making out a bit at midnight and she was a great kisser. I forget what happened but I let her out of my sight for a couple minutes and next thing I know she's talking to this guy who's got his hands all over her pulling her into him. I wasn't overly concerned about him because he looked kind of drunk and lame, so I just went to the bar to get a drink about 20 feet from where they were. I don't know what got into me, but I looked at a cute, young-looking brunette next to me. This was literally our only interaction,.

Me: So did you have a New Years kiss?
Her: No
Me: Want one?
Her: um....okay

We made out for like 20 seconds and at the end I look over and I see Hotasfuckhalfasiangirl looking at me and appearing somewhat upset. I finish the kiss and tell the girl I'm talking to that I like the way she tastes and grabbed her number. I kept my phone pretty low so Hotasfuckhalfasiangirl couldn't see this part. I told her I was going to go find my my friend and walked back to where he was. He was talking to both Hotasfuckhalfasiangirl and her friend - apparently she'd manage to ditch the lame dude. I acted like nothing happened but she seemed unwilling to gloss over the fact that I just made out with someone else right in front of her.

Her: So you're just gonna ditch me and go kiss some some ugly girl? (love the jealousy)
Me: Sorry, didn't realize you wanted me all to yourself (grin) Besides, she just kind of started making out with me. I can't help it if a girl wants me.
Her: That's so gross, she's not even cute
Me: (laughing) Someone sounds jealous

Long story short, I end up leaving the bar with her at closing time but her friend turns out to be a pretty big cock block. Hotasfuckhalfasiangirl mentioned she lived about a block away and the two of us walked out of the bar without telling anyone. Luckily my friend is a fucking baller and intercepted Cockblock before she could leave the bar with us, so we never even realized she tried to follow us (he relayed the story to me later). She did call like 20 minutes later trying to find out where we were - we ended up going for a walk and ultimately ended up at my place so Cockblock didn't know where we were. It turns out Cockblock is from out of town and staying at her place, so she was kind of upset. Hotasfuckhalfasiangirl tells her we'll meet her in a little while, but luckily my badass friend texts me a couple minutes later that he brought her to his place. Apparently she was prude and annoying, but at least he got her out of the way.

I fucked Hotasfuckhalfasiangirl twice last night at about 4am and then twice this morning. She fucks like a champ and has one of the hottest bodies ever to ride my dick.

The kicker - she gets a call (that I can hear) from Cockblock. My friend kicked her out of his place early this morning and she was just sitting on Hotasfuckhalfasiangirl's front porch pissed off for 2 hours. I guess she'd called a bunch of times but we'd been too busy fucking to notice. Fuck her.

Happy New Year!

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

Re: LR - NYE craziness and a great wing man

Fuck yessss, great to see some solid BMOC play. One girl, boom, another girl, number snag, boom, next girl, make out, number grab, boom, next girl, she ain't down?, boom, next girl.

Love how you handled the jealousy, too. Best two ways I've seen to deal with it are

1. Ignore it

2. Call it out in a playful, "I know you want me even more now," tone

Number 1 is the safest route, but route 2 can spike attraction more, at the risk of some good 'ol autorejekshionnnn.

Good shit,

Hector

p.s. meet up with the older gal. An easy lay is never really worth passing up, in my opinion. Just be upfront that it's a one night thing if she really doesn't get your jimmies hot enough for multiple meetups

- Hector

 

[Intimidator]

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Thanks Anatman. Good call on handling jealousy - I think I went with #2 but hadn't even thought about #1. I think #2 is just natural for me given my overall don't give a fuck attitude.

We'll see about the older chick - I've got about 6-8 girls in the rotation right now and I'm working on raising my standards and getting to absolute abundance. She's actually been cagey via text message, but I'm still pretty sure if I got her in person I'd end up nailing her.

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

Re: LR - NYE craziness and a great wing man

Thanks Anatman. Good call on handling jealousy - I think I went with #2 but hadn't even thought about #1. I think #2 is just natural for me given my overall don't give a fuck attitude.

We'll see about the older chick - I've got about 6-8 girls in the rotation right now and I'm working on raising my standards and getting to absolute abundance. She's actually been cagey via text message, but I'm still pretty sure if I got her in person I'd end up nailing her.

Ignoring a honey is a very tricky skill. If done right, you make it seem like her social faux paus (getting jealous, thus lowering her value) is forgivable but cute and silly. If done wrong, you seem like you missed it and are just an unaware retard.

6-8 girls, mang? You're killing it! Yeah, once you're doing that, it's time to get to absolute abundance. Like I said, it's probably not smart to miss on easy lays, but once you're training for quality...you know, I'm not sure what the right call is. One camp might say getting laid, even with a less-than-stellar girl, still keeps your dick wet and happy and doesn't really make a difference in your overall quality quotient (think Chase mentioned this in his article on lowering standards). Another camp, however, will say you're wasting time that you could have spent trying for higher quality girls. Another camp, the one I'm more inclined towards, is that you need to balance both, because you should be treating those girlfriend qualities girls just like EVERY OTHER GIRL, even if your brain logically is telling you she's awesome and emotionally you have a hard time controlling yourself around her. But considering my most recent LR with a girlfriend quality girl, I did my best when I was just chill and treated her like just another girl.

Experiment around and see if dropping a few of the lower quality girls motivates you more to go find better girls.

As for grandma, I'll be on the lookout for an LR

- Hector

 

[Intimidator]

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6-8 girls, mang? You're killing it! Yeah, once you're doing that, it's time to get to absolute abundance.

I don't post much, but this site has helped me really start to kill it. I finished 2014 with 63 new lays. Of course it helps that I'm 28 and established and living in a city with an endless supply of girls. Definitely wouldn't be able to pull that off in college (I only slept with 1 girl total until I was 25).

Another camp, the one I'm more inclined towards, is that you need to balance both, because you should be treating those girlfriend qualities girls just like EVERY OTHER GIRL, even if your brain logically is telling you she's awesome and emotionally you have a hard time controlling yourself around her. But considering my most recent LR with a girlfriend quality girl, I did my best when I was just chill and treated her like just another girl.

At this point, I don't believe there is such a thing as a girlfriend quality girl. A relationship sounds like prison to me.

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

Re: LR - NYE craziness and a great wing man

Yo, dawg, 63 is fucking nuts man, almost twice my total lay count! Really good stuff!

I haven't really been in a big city for any extended period of time, so I guess I have no fucking idea what kind of abundance that gives in experience (most I've done is 3 weeks traveling Europe on two separate occasions). If what you say is true, then hopefully my lays in college will translate five-fold in big cities! Also, less reputational worries (maybe none? Ever run into any yourself?)

I'm gearing up to finish college this semester and move to a city, where my expertise is a bit...dicey (I cut my day-game teeth in Northern Europe, but was initially terrible at it and was dealing with depression from a breakup).

Send me a PM sometime; I'd love to learn more about established city game and the intricacies of it.

- Hector

 

[ray_zorse]

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Intimidator: You dawg, keeping a low profile huh? Could you please post more lays

Anatman: You will fuckin love daygame once you hit your stride, I just moved to the bright lights 2 weeks ago and it's sickarse, as long as u keep that approach anxiety in check you're golden. I did about 3 or 4 approaches this morning on the way to/from the gym without even really trying... there are just hot girls everywhere, which makes it very easy to maintain some momentum. And of course... reputational issues zero as you pointed out... if u move to a college city like mine u'll get best of both worlds too.

cheers, Ray

 

[Rhaegar]

Re: LR - NYE craziness and a great wing man

Me: Are you guys fucking?
Her: Well kind of
Me: Does he fuck you right? Does he get you off?
Her: (pause)...well we've only really hooked up once I don't know
Me: (looking at her like she doesn't realize what a real man can do to her and chuckling) Well you have fun tonight, I'm sure he'll rock your world (sarcastically)

Then I pulled her in by putting my hand behind her head and made out with her. She seemed pretty stunned but really turned on.

Me: It's too bad you're already spoken for tonight. Have fun, though (started to get up to walk away)
Her: Wait, he's not here yet

I ended up getting her number. Not sure I'll try to meet up with her (she obviously seemed DTF but didn't excite me that much) but it was a good way to start the night.

Holy shit, you're insane and have crazy amount of balls for doing this, that's beyond epic.

 

[tvktvk]

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The amount of ballers on these boards are beyond ridiculous...

Sounds like an epic night Intimidator! Like Ray said, would be awesome if you put some time off to do a couple more LR's.

Keep slaying bro.

tvktvk

 

[thedude]

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This is some cool stuff.

Definitely buy your wingman a drink sometime

 

[Explosive Results]

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That's one phenomenal wing man you have Intimidator!

Your story demonstrates how inhibiting your target's friend(s) can be and why it's vital to keep them in check. Also, something I haven't seen mentioned anywhere, is even if a woman is really into you, she may have friends which you aware of, sabotaging your success from afar.

 

[Motiv]

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Congratulations on an awesome NYE, Intimidator—highly inspirational!

My take away from this is that when your fundamentals are tight enough and you are familiar with the environment and situation (through having enough experience), you can literally say next to nothing and then be making out with a girl/woman you just met... then pulling mere minutes later. I remember Drexel and Alek detailing this sort of blitz game in some of his reports, too. I'm still struggling with my own prudishness and end up getting into lengthy conversation too often with girls I meet out... too much work for just a little grinding and a make-out session.

Please keep writing!

-M

P.S. For one who has just ended a one-year relationship himself (from which I gained a great deal of needed sexual experience), I can tell you that I am not one for that prison either. I've got my issues, but I think I can actually use them to my advantage in furthering my seduction skill: I just don't fall in love, and I never have. All I've wanted to do is fuck the girls I find hot or hot enough and fulfill their own lust in a way few men ever could. It's ambition. When I screw up an interaction, I walk away dispassionately, do my best to note what I did wrong, and straight away move on to another target. I may unwittingly make myself look like a retard, but I think my disciplined, mission-oriented mentality can overcome my lack of social acumen...more experience will of course help too ;-)