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First of all, "almost" is in quotes because in reality, I didn't even come close.
Yet I realized this is the first time I really felt like I was in the ballpark, like I could seduce a girl on this level. I literally never got laid between the ages of 1 and 20. And it wasn't until 25 or so that I started pulling 7s consistently. Frankly, I was pretty fucking thrilled with these results. Going from being a complete loser virgin to someone who regularly fucks 7s is a significant upgrade in quality of life, and on some level, I was satisfied.
Still there were times when I got lucky and managed to bed an 8. But never higher.
I realize I simply have not been talking to super hot girls. It's almost like I don't see them. I admire them. But on a deep level I just don't feel like I have the value to enrich their lives.
Fast forward to New Year's Eve 2019.
I decided to take some molly and go to a small underground rave. Pretty good recipe for talking to chicks (although I think it's not ideal for pulling as molly makes me more loving than sexual personally).
Well, it didn't take long for the molly to help me utterly dominate the place. The door guys loved me. Everywhere I went I was getting high fives and hugs from people. Every set I talked to hooked and after an hour I could just walk around and either meet up with girls or guys I had already talked to.
I saw this girl from a distance. About 5'3. Bleached blonde hair. Either huge natural tits or fake. Wearing a black tank top with seemingly no bra, giving some glorious side boob. Tight black jeans. Just super hot. You guys know the type. No question she was the hottest girl in this place. Yet I observed a few things guys from this board talk about with super hot chicks. First of all, not many guys were actively pursuing her. Compare this to the 7.5 in the middle of the room who had a literal PACK of guys surrounding her all trying to get a piece. Clearly, I'm not the only dude intimidated by beauty.
I didn't talk to her for quite a while. Until I was on the dance floor with my friends. I looked up and she was there helping her friend, who was an artist painting there, paint. I was still rolling balls so we made deep eye contact that lasted a little, I smiled really big and waved. Her whole face lit up and she smiled extremely warmly back. I felt like this was basically a signal to go and talk to her.
I chilled a little then went to the bathroom. On the way back I noticed her on her phone. I knew this was my moment so I went up to her with 0 hesitation and just randomly said hi. It wasn't smooth by any means. But she lit the fuck up. I could tell she was really excited to talk to me. She was physical immediately, grabbing my arm confidently. She started playing with a crystal necklace I have. She talked about how she loves stones because of the vibration they create together, but part of me felt like she was talking about humans, me and her, instead.
This was when I really noticed her incredible confidence. There was not a fraction of this girl who, in that environment, didn't just impulsively act and do whatever the fuck she wanted. It's weird, but I felt like she touched me a lot more than a girl who was into me normally would. She just was not holding back from expressing her femininity in whatever way it came up.
I remember I introduced her to my friend who is a really cool chick that girls always like. Well, this SHB just basically grabber her shoulders and started telling her all these things she will probably like if she also likes tarot. She was just like showering value on this girl in a hugely confident way as if she knew for a fact everything she was saying this girl KNEW she needed to hear.
She also knew for a damn fact that I wanted to touch her. Again, this was pretty subtle but I noticed it in particular. She really opened her body up to me very quickly. I was touching her on the small of her back, through the holes in the fabric and touching skin. This reminds me of the only other time I've really been close to getting a SHB. In that case, I'd again been able to talk to the girl when she was alone and bored. And within 2 fucking seconds we were grabbing eachothers asses. In both cases, the girls were surprisingly warm and open to being touched very very quickly.
Lastly, there was basically no margin for error.
Towards the end of our interaction, she wanted to go on the dance floor with this light-up hula hoop she'd found. So I went with her. It was going good but for a moment she handed me the hula. I didn't know what to do with it and felt self-conscious. I remember in my mind I remember thinking it wasn't a big deal and I don't need to act like I need to be super impressive with this hula hoop. But my mere HAVING this thought seemed to instantly repel her, and she literally vanished a second later!
As I was leaving the venue, I spotted her. I went over with my friend. We went over and the vibe was that she should hang out with us all some time. She was super warm and friendly and again starts telling my friend all this stuff she should check out. My friend suggested we all hang. The girl said to get her number. My friend pretended to forget her phone. Not exactly the most original move but I appreciated the wing woman support. I got her number. Texted her shortly after with an inside joke so she would have me in her phone. No text back, which didn't surprise me. I feel at that point, it would've actually been better for my friend to get her number and have a chance to hang out with her in my friend's circle, where I could demonstrate a lot more value.
Now, why am I writing this all up? Well there are a few things at play here. First of all, I feel the mistake I made with her I would NOT have made with a 7. In other words, my game is good enough to get her. I just was thrown off by her hotness.
Second, when interacting with her like this, I really felt like there was a noticeable DIFFERENCE between her and a 7 or 8. A level of confidence and carrying herself that I simply haven't encountered while seducing other girls. Obviously I was really fascinated and drawn to this, and would love to hear the more experienced guys on this board maybe dive deeper on some of these concepts, or share your own observations. Happy new year!
Yet I realized this is the first time I really felt like I was in the ballpark, like I could seduce a girl on this level. I literally never got laid between the ages of 1 and 20. And it wasn't until 25 or so that I started pulling 7s consistently. Frankly, I was pretty fucking thrilled with these results. Going from being a complete loser virgin to someone who regularly fucks 7s is a significant upgrade in quality of life, and on some level, I was satisfied.
Still there were times when I got lucky and managed to bed an 8. But never higher.
I realize I simply have not been talking to super hot girls. It's almost like I don't see them. I admire them. But on a deep level I just don't feel like I have the value to enrich their lives.
Fast forward to New Year's Eve 2019.
I decided to take some molly and go to a small underground rave. Pretty good recipe for talking to chicks (although I think it's not ideal for pulling as molly makes me more loving than sexual personally).
Well, it didn't take long for the molly to help me utterly dominate the place. The door guys loved me. Everywhere I went I was getting high fives and hugs from people. Every set I talked to hooked and after an hour I could just walk around and either meet up with girls or guys I had already talked to.
I saw this girl from a distance. About 5'3. Bleached blonde hair. Either huge natural tits or fake. Wearing a black tank top with seemingly no bra, giving some glorious side boob. Tight black jeans. Just super hot. You guys know the type. No question she was the hottest girl in this place. Yet I observed a few things guys from this board talk about with super hot chicks. First of all, not many guys were actively pursuing her. Compare this to the 7.5 in the middle of the room who had a literal PACK of guys surrounding her all trying to get a piece. Clearly, I'm not the only dude intimidated by beauty.
I didn't talk to her for quite a while. Until I was on the dance floor with my friends. I looked up and she was there helping her friend, who was an artist painting there, paint. I was still rolling balls so we made deep eye contact that lasted a little, I smiled really big and waved. Her whole face lit up and she smiled extremely warmly back. I felt like this was basically a signal to go and talk to her.
I chilled a little then went to the bathroom. On the way back I noticed her on her phone. I knew this was my moment so I went up to her with 0 hesitation and just randomly said hi. It wasn't smooth by any means. But she lit the fuck up. I could tell she was really excited to talk to me. She was physical immediately, grabbing my arm confidently. She started playing with a crystal necklace I have. She talked about how she loves stones because of the vibration they create together, but part of me felt like she was talking about humans, me and her, instead.
This was when I really noticed her incredible confidence. There was not a fraction of this girl who, in that environment, didn't just impulsively act and do whatever the fuck she wanted. It's weird, but I felt like she touched me a lot more than a girl who was into me normally would. She just was not holding back from expressing her femininity in whatever way it came up.
I remember I introduced her to my friend who is a really cool chick that girls always like. Well, this SHB just basically grabber her shoulders and started telling her all these things she will probably like if she also likes tarot. She was just like showering value on this girl in a hugely confident way as if she knew for a fact everything she was saying this girl KNEW she needed to hear.
She also knew for a damn fact that I wanted to touch her. Again, this was pretty subtle but I noticed it in particular. She really opened her body up to me very quickly. I was touching her on the small of her back, through the holes in the fabric and touching skin. This reminds me of the only other time I've really been close to getting a SHB. In that case, I'd again been able to talk to the girl when she was alone and bored. And within 2 fucking seconds we were grabbing eachothers asses. In both cases, the girls were surprisingly warm and open to being touched very very quickly.
Lastly, there was basically no margin for error.
Towards the end of our interaction, she wanted to go on the dance floor with this light-up hula hoop she'd found. So I went with her. It was going good but for a moment she handed me the hula. I didn't know what to do with it and felt self-conscious. I remember in my mind I remember thinking it wasn't a big deal and I don't need to act like I need to be super impressive with this hula hoop. But my mere HAVING this thought seemed to instantly repel her, and she literally vanished a second later!
As I was leaving the venue, I spotted her. I went over with my friend. We went over and the vibe was that she should hang out with us all some time. She was super warm and friendly and again starts telling my friend all this stuff she should check out. My friend suggested we all hang. The girl said to get her number. My friend pretended to forget her phone. Not exactly the most original move but I appreciated the wing woman support. I got her number. Texted her shortly after with an inside joke so she would have me in her phone. No text back, which didn't surprise me. I feel at that point, it would've actually been better for my friend to get her number and have a chance to hang out with her in my friend's circle, where I could demonstrate a lot more value.
Now, why am I writing this all up? Well there are a few things at play here. First of all, I feel the mistake I made with her I would NOT have made with a 7. In other words, my game is good enough to get her. I just was thrown off by her hotness.
Second, when interacting with her like this, I really felt like there was a noticeable DIFFERENCE between her and a 7 or 8. A level of confidence and carrying herself that I simply haven't encountered while seducing other girls. Obviously I was really fascinated and drawn to this, and would love to hear the more experienced guys on this board maybe dive deeper on some of these concepts, or share your own observations. Happy new year!
