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Initially, all i was taking into consideration was the length of time they looked at me for, how many times they looked at me, whether or not they hung their head...but now I am getting deeper into it, and I am observing the way their face acts. What are their mouths doing? Which way do they break eye contact? How loose is their face? I want to find patterns.
One of the first patterns I found had to do with the mouth. Some girls giving me approach invitations would pucker their lips and move them to the side (haven't gone so far yet as to observe which side) after breaking eye contact with me. This is body language people use when they are thinking about something. So they are looking at me, then thinking about me...what could they be thinking about?
One girl on the subway reading a book looked at me once, briefly. This was one of the rare times where i was unable to discern whether it was an approach invitation or not. Shortly afterwards, I saw her using this body language while reading her book. This made me think it was an approach invitation. I don't think she was thinking about me though. Girls giving you strong approach invitations will often try to get your attention using their body. For example, there's been a few times where a girl listening to music looks at me, then start dancing a little bit. So I believe the subway girl was doing this with her mouth, not because she was thinking about me, but because she was trying to attract my attention through the most socially acceptable way to express your body when reading a book.
One of the first patterns I found had to do with the mouth. Some girls giving me approach invitations would pucker their lips and move them to the side (haven't gone so far yet as to observe which side) after breaking eye contact with me. This is body language people use when they are thinking about something. So they are looking at me, then thinking about me...what could they be thinking about?
One girl on the subway reading a book looked at me once, briefly. This was one of the rare times where i was unable to discern whether it was an approach invitation or not. Shortly afterwards, I saw her using this body language while reading her book. This made me think it was an approach invitation. I don't think she was thinking about me though. Girls giving you strong approach invitations will often try to get your attention using their body. For example, there's been a few times where a girl listening to music looks at me, then start dancing a little bit. So I believe the subway girl was doing this with her mouth, not because she was thinking about me, but because she was trying to attract my attention through the most socially acceptable way to express your body when reading a book.
