ok i need help with those situation...

[Lex]

Ok ive fucked this girl a few week ago.met her online.Before we fucked she was warm we wrer sending each other pic.But since we fucked shes cold and distant. Eventhought sex wasnt that good...she had her orgasm but i dindt cum.after sex we cuddle and the next morning we kissed and cuddled but i had to leave early cuz i had school.But now she icy hot...sonetime she redpond right away sometime she reponds 8h later...ive asked her 2 time to meet again but one time she already have plan and the other time she was sick...so do i confront her and I ask her direclty if she truly want to see me again so we could stop waste time?

Then there is this girl who i had one date.the date was hot but nothing truly sexual...we french kissed plenty of time she touched my dick i touch her boob but i didnt know how to escalate cuz we were in a mall...but now she flaked on me 2 time...i call her on the phone we laughed sceduled a date the next day but she flaked saying that she didnt had her phone and that she is sorry blablabla should i confront but of them and do anyone has a better solution or gameplan i do liked the first one but i just one to fucked the second one

Lex

 

[NarrowJ]

Hey Lex,

As a rule of thumb, I generally try three times. If I can't get anything set at that point, I put the ball in her court. But you've got to be graceful about this. Don't call her out on anything or question her reasons for not being able to meet up. People are legitimately busy, and in the case that she's not feeling well... that'd be really shitty to get salty with her over that.

If I try to schedule something three times and she's got nothing for me, I'll respond something like:

"Well hey, you seem unusually busy this week. So if you can find time to grab drinks/coffee/whatever, just shoot me a text and I'll try and make myself available! "

So you put it on her, but you're not being a dick about it either. If she is really just busy or something, but interested in meeting up, she'll let you know when she gets some free time. Also, if she's playing hard to get games, this is just the kick in the rear that she needs. She'll realize you're not going to chase her around, and she'll probably change her tune and make things easier for you. Thirdly, if she's just not interested at all, this gets her to stop wasting your time and allows you to spend your time on more promising targets.

So yeah, don't call her out. Women hate bitter, frustrated guys. But you also can't let her be a time sink. Handle these situations in a socially graceful way, and situations like these just tend to work themselves out.

PS- On the first girl, sometimes it's just buyer's remorse. You're either not giving her what she thought she was getting, or it could be something that's out of your control like another guy coming back into the picture or something. It seems weird the first few times you encounter this, but after a while you'll see it happen enough that you'll just shrug it off and move on to the next one(s).

Hope that helps ya, my man. Good luck on these!

J.J.

 

[Lex]

Thx you Narrow J ive save this phrases and use it on the girl i want to fuck but i dont understand what does you mean by I didnt give her what she wanted Im really confused...?

And what about girl who when you text them respond right away but coldly is it a hint she is sending me that shes not interessed or should i juste take the fact she respond to me and that I should escalate and propose a date?
Lex