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Semester break is almost over and its just a week more in my hometown, thank god for that. Im out shopping for groceries and I see a familiar face, one that I haven't seen for 4 years.
We see each other and before I can say anything
We then catch up for a bit and then cross the road. her college is pretty near my home. She says we should meet up and catch up on stuff. I agree and we exchange contact info.
Shoot her an ice breaker 2 hours later
I then send a text to set up the meet 2 days later
She says she's free day after tomorrow and she can meet me directly after her college gets over. and that she couldn't respond to the initial text as she was out of balance.
Since her college is really nearby, and there's no worthy places to go out in this town other than expensive restaurants I decide to invite her directly to my place. We talk a bit on the phone, then sort out time and shit. She agrees. Cool.
THE MEET
She can't find my apartment and calls me. I go down and bring her up to my place. In the lift,
I take her directly to my room. I should and would have given her a tour of my home. but my granny and brother are in the house.
I tell her to get comfortable while I bring some juice.
My granny asks me in the kitchen about her. I tell her its an old friend. She wants to go 'see the girl'. Typical indian people bs. I tell her that's not happening. What should have I done here? I mean indian people in india are conservative as fuck and i didn't want my granny to mess this up. I mean while bringing this girl up, the people nearby were giving me the stares. Damn 3 more years and imma outta this country. >.<
I go to my room and lock the door and start talking to cute girl i have in my room. As this happened 3 days back, the details are blurry and I don't remember everything we talked about.
I ask her how she's been. We talk about our colleges, our friends and school life in 8th grade. She remarks that I've become very thin. I tell her i fell sick and lost a lot of weight. I then order pizza for us. She laughs while im ordering.
We then joke and talk about a whole lot of shit, what I do the whole day, what she does. I mostly focus on eye contact and smiling. There's moments in between where we just look at each other and smile.
I am sitting on the bed really close to her. I escalate physically. First high fives then comparing hand sizes. Then sitting in a manner that our legs are touching.
We then talk some more shit. I deep dive a bit should have done more i think. her mom then calls her and says she needs to get back home soon. she tells me how her mom still thinks she's a little child. instead of expanding and cold reading here, i just deflected the topic, oh well.
all throughout
ec, smile and physically escalating. im doing these 3 things.
I touch her nose and
She makes a comical expression and covers her nose with the pillow when i tease her about this. Then she starts hitting me with the pillow when I call her doggy once more. I hit her back with a pillow and we play 'fight' for a while. She tells me about a friends' party she went to yesterday. I asked her if she danced. She said yes. I told her she must teach me how to dance
I stand up holding her hand to dance. My plan was to escalate even more, kiss her and take it from there. But then i realized i had a massive boner. I quickly sit down and pull a pillow over my pants before she sees it.
My friend thinks this is the result of not fapping for a long time. I haven't fapped in a while.
She says she'll teach some other time.
We talk some more. She shows me a picture of her where she's posing in a really funny way. I make her pose like that.
She laughs at this and we talk and joke some more. We're again silent and staring at each other and smiling
We're having ice cream and talking some more. At this point, I don't even realize but my hand is on her thigh. I am sitting opposite to her on chair while she is sitting on my bed but we're very close.
I go in to kiss her, but she turns away.
she doesn't say this in a negative way/annoyed kind of way so i act unfazed and talk some more. I go in to kiss her the 2nd time but she turns away her lips when they are just centimeters apart. I say something which i shouldn't have most probably.
We talk some more.
We are now resting our heads against each others looking at the ground.
I deflect the topic and after a few seconds i lean in.
She does and our lips meet, for a few seconds. Then her phone starts ringing. Its her mom and shes pissed and wants A back at home asap.
I say nothing and make the same comical expression she was making. She laughs. We talk some more and i drop her off at the bus stand and she tells me we'll meet again before i leave.
text her 4 hours later
This leaves me in a positive mood. So when I go one of the few cool, chill places in India for a roadtrip with my buddy, and approach girls, they giggle,flirt laugh, i get a couple of numbers and go on a 15 min insta date with one. too bad i was there for one day. After getting back, i call A, and we are meeting tomorrow.
If anyone had told me all this was possible, a couple of years back, that too in india i'd have laughed, but my eyes are beginning to open. Thank you GC.
This is the first time I've posted a report so please forgive me if it wasn't as proper and too long. I'll try to make the future ones (hopefully FR's and maybbeee LR's if i can figure out my logistics in my college town) brief and better.
I have a few questions,
1. How long should I wait before I try to kiss her this time (if she doesn't end up flaking) ? I waited 1.5 hrs the last time coz i invited her directly to my room after meeting her for 5 mins after 4 years.
2. Why the LMR here? I made sure to escalate properly and to make her comfortable. I am not sure whether this was something on my part or her being from a typical conservative indian family. (she's never even had a bf)
3. Did the pizza juice and ice cream put me in the provider category? except the pizza which is prized okayish the other two items were already in my home.
Please feel free to leave any comments, feedback etc. Also its hard af to do anything when you're trying to hide a boner haha.
Thanks for reading.
We see each other and before I can say anything
We then catch up for a bit and then cross the road. her college is pretty near my home. She says we should meet up and catch up on stuff. I agree and we exchange contact info.
Shoot her an ice breaker 2 hours later
Me : Hey A, go10 here, nice meeting you after so long. Talk to you soon.
I then send a text to set up the meet 2 days later
Me : Hey I am leaving in a week. We should meet up soon. When are you free?
She says she's free day after tomorrow and she can meet me directly after her college gets over. and that she couldn't respond to the initial text as she was out of balance.
Since her college is really nearby, and there's no worthy places to go out in this town other than expensive restaurants I decide to invite her directly to my place. We talk a bit on the phone, then sort out time and shit. She agrees. Cool.
THE MEET
She can't find my apartment and calls me. I go down and bring her up to my place. In the lift,
I take her directly to my room. I should and would have given her a tour of my home. but my granny and brother are in the house.
I tell her to get comfortable while I bring some juice.
My granny asks me in the kitchen about her. I tell her its an old friend. She wants to go 'see the girl'. Typical indian people bs. I tell her that's not happening. What should have I done here? I mean indian people in india are conservative as fuck and i didn't want my granny to mess this up. I mean while bringing this girl up, the people nearby were giving me the stares. Damn 3 more years and imma outta this country. >.<
I go to my room and lock the door and start talking to cute girl i have in my room. As this happened 3 days back, the details are blurry and I don't remember everything we talked about.
I ask her how she's been. We talk about our colleges, our friends and school life in 8th grade. She remarks that I've become very thin. I tell her i fell sick and lost a lot of weight. I then order pizza for us. She laughs while im ordering.
We then joke and talk about a whole lot of shit, what I do the whole day, what she does. I mostly focus on eye contact and smiling. There's moments in between where we just look at each other and smile.
I am sitting on the bed really close to her. I escalate physically. First high fives then comparing hand sizes. Then sitting in a manner that our legs are touching.
We then talk some more shit. I deep dive a bit should have done more i think. her mom then calls her and says she needs to get back home soon. she tells me how her mom still thinks she's a little child. instead of expanding and cold reading here, i just deflected the topic, oh well.
all throughout
ec, smile and physically escalating. im doing these 3 things.
I touch her nose and
She makes a comical expression and covers her nose with the pillow when i tease her about this. Then she starts hitting me with the pillow when I call her doggy once more. I hit her back with a pillow and we play 'fight' for a while. She tells me about a friends' party she went to yesterday. I asked her if she danced. She said yes. I told her she must teach me how to dance
I stand up holding her hand to dance. My plan was to escalate even more, kiss her and take it from there. But then i realized i had a massive boner. I quickly sit down and pull a pillow over my pants before she sees it.
My friend thinks this is the result of not fapping for a long time. I haven't fapped in a while.
She says she'll teach some other time.
We talk some more. She shows me a picture of her where she's posing in a really funny way. I make her pose like that.
She laughs at this and we talk and joke some more. We're again silent and staring at each other and smiling
We're having ice cream and talking some more. At this point, I don't even realize but my hand is on her thigh. I am sitting opposite to her on chair while she is sitting on my bed but we're very close.
I go in to kiss her, but she turns away.
she doesn't say this in a negative way/annoyed kind of way so i act unfazed and talk some more. I go in to kiss her the 2nd time but she turns away her lips when they are just centimeters apart. I say something which i shouldn't have most probably.
We talk some more.
We are now resting our heads against each others looking at the ground.
I deflect the topic and after a few seconds i lean in.
She does and our lips meet, for a few seconds. Then her phone starts ringing. Its her mom and shes pissed and wants A back at home asap.
I say nothing and make the same comical expression she was making. She laughs. We talk some more and i drop her off at the bus stand and she tells me we'll meet again before i leave.
text her 4 hours later
This leaves me in a positive mood. So when I go one of the few cool, chill places in India for a roadtrip with my buddy, and approach girls, they giggle,flirt laugh, i get a couple of numbers and go on a 15 min insta date with one. too bad i was there for one day. After getting back, i call A, and we are meeting tomorrow.
If anyone had told me all this was possible, a couple of years back, that too in india i'd have laughed, but my eyes are beginning to open. Thank you GC.
This is the first time I've posted a report so please forgive me if it wasn't as proper and too long. I'll try to make the future ones (hopefully FR's and maybbeee LR's if i can figure out my logistics in my college town) brief and better.
I have a few questions,
1. How long should I wait before I try to kiss her this time (if she doesn't end up flaking) ? I waited 1.5 hrs the last time coz i invited her directly to my room after meeting her for 5 mins after 4 years.
2. Why the LMR here? I made sure to escalate properly and to make her comfortable. I am not sure whether this was something on my part or her being from a typical conservative indian family. (she's never even had a bf)
3. Did the pizza juice and ice cream put me in the provider category? except the pizza which is prized okayish the other two items were already in my home.
Please feel free to leave any comments, feedback etc. Also its hard af to do anything when you're trying to hide a boner haha.
Thanks for reading.
