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Had a date lined up for Sunday afternoon at her place — prime setup. Last minute, I bailed. Classic self-sabotage.
She hit me up later in the week, offering another time. I accepted straight-up, like a rational adult using male logic. She ghosted. Auto-rejection. Probably killed the mood or broke whatever fantasy she had in mind.
Turns out, she was down bad — until I fumbled it with logic and poor timing.
Lessons learned:
She hit me up later in the week, offering another time. I accepted straight-up, like a rational adult using male logic. She ghosted. Auto-rejection. Probably killed the mood or broke whatever fantasy she had in mind.
Turns out, she was down bad — until I fumbled it with logic and poor timing.
Lessons learned:
- Don’t be too rational. Women feel first, process later.
- Never take “sure, another day” at face value — it's often a soft goodbye.
- Declining a date at her place? Rookie move. She basically handed you the invite to the endgame.
- Watch for self-sabotage. That stuff hides in plain sight.
