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FR - Outing - older than usual.. too much fun.. too little sexuality.. enjoyed it.. perceived limitations and subconscious unawareness to move through.. HMU for winging
22:30 - one two set walking, warmup.. I surprisingly were at ease and girls attentive

22:45 - enter nice cocktail club, +25yo entrance.. bouncer rejects two young girls in front me.. let's me in easily.. people thought I was older/more mature today than usual..

Stops girl on way to dancefloor.. she walks a little but I persist and she stops.. Russian.. 23yo petite cutie who got in second time bc. early arrival.. I wasn't very sexual tonight.. good and ok strong energy though.. and girls respond well at first.. Russian girl keeps looking over to dancefloor so I let her go to her friends and she thanked me..



00:00 - talk to girl waiting in line for toilet just more warmups getting more social.. my mistake I found later is I spent too much energy talking to many different girls and it made it more difficult to adjust my focus on sexuality...



00:15 - outside fresh air.. crowded.. 1 guy, 2 girls.. I go in and wing.. girls are ok pretty 7-7.5.. find out they are colleagues from work.. blonde asks me questions.. brunette bites her lips time to time.. good initial dominance.. guy should focus on girl beside him but instead all are focused on me.. so it's different and I didn't see possibility for being sexual..

I entertain them a few minutes.. girls don't want to look like too into me and goes to guy every now and then.. maybe to assure him bc. they also like him a bit.. a ok cool, good looking and friendly guy..

suddenly a player comes in asking for cigarettes.. big guy with a blonde.. he had a strong positive reaction from the group.. he moved into the space.. friendly guy got outted so he had to move around blonde.. he moves into my space a bit.. noticed him earlier of the night.. I had a very short talk with his blonde.. for a moment I paused.. kept my focus on brunette beside me.. strong energy and ignoring big guy..

shortly after he nudge me and said something in the middle of me talking with brunette.. I kept focused and soon after they left.. not sure what he was trying to do when he had this blonde with him and he didn't use more power when trying to interrupt us.. winging with him would be interesting..

no one was making any suggestions and the vibe had died out a bit so girls decided to do it.. I gotta get much better in suggesting.. they went inside without invitation.. I'm ok.. didn't feel sexual.. old habit of not doing anything further if I don't feel a girl is ok into me.. and also it's a decision to make.. because the vibe was low and it's bad point to change spots..



00:40 - downstairs.. open 2-3 set.. petite French, Swedish.. French extremely strong opinions.. talked my mother language and was funny and attractive in a really weird way.. pretty but her attitude threw me off.. I stayed bc. Why not.. the 3 girls wanna smoke.. French girl asks if I smoke.. no thx going bathroom.. i say continue on insta.. no thx sorry we meet later ok.. lot to do with not being very interested in her and being more confident when suggesting insta



01:00 - about to leave to other place.. go outside for mb last set.. one girl.. 34yo guessed my age which people never do.. you carry yourself different from 25 year olds.. more confident and at ease with yourself.. she works with 23-25yo.. really interesting cold read on me lol.. boyfriend bartender.. 3 months relationship.. vibing a bit.. voice turned me off few times.. like military officer yelling.. excused myself..



01:15 - other place.. not big.. room for 30-40 people.. short queue outside.. two girls in front.. shooting the shit.. they like it.. asks for my opinion about place.. 5 girls behind me.. interrupts and gives girl her purse she had dropped.. didn't say anything during the whole situation.. got ousted by the two girls.. stepped on foot of girl behind me.. turn around and said sorry and all five girls is looking and smiles.. I actually liked one of them a lot based on looks.. didn't open them.. mistake.. thought I would meet her inside bar..



01:30 - walk to bar.. two set.. get my soda.. turn to two set.. they were very interested.. asked me lots of questions.. realized they locals.. I kept the fun too long.. interest fades.. liked blonde more although brunette was still on.. blonde suggest dancefloor.. we all go.. use David's dance technique.. dance with blonde, close.. a bit sexual.. she's slowly moving out.. I let her.. maybe bc. Friend is 3 meters away and also fun for too long before.. so less trust..
Brunette saw it.. shortly after she calls blonde.. and she move to her..



01:50 - still at dancefloor.. talk to girl beside me just bc. no damns given.. with big group in front of us.. cute petite brunette.. turned out she wasn't my type.. also bad breath.. max turn off..



02:00 - about to move outside and head home.. missed gym a few days now and reeeally want to workout tmr bc. Workload have been extra lately and my circadian rhythm is upside down..

at entrance two petite girls.. put hand out to blonde.. she doesn't see it.. brunette takes it and I play I don't like you blonde and I love brunette.. brunette even says blonde is bad and plays along..

At first brunette is into it.. then after short talk and I kiss her on the cheek she moves to blonde.. during interaction, blonde was making out with other guy... brunette situation wasn't very sexual but more of our bodies are so close to each other in this crowded place so why not...
Maybe brunette had hoped I would make out with her instead of cheek.. or maybe smt in conversation..

Thx!! Enjoy life bro!!! Hmu to wing
 
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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Seems like you need to:
1) stay in set longer
2) isolate your girl asap once u see signs of attraction
 
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