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Yesterday I did a bit of bar game with a wingman.
A couple of hours after meeting we walk into this cool bar and we immediately spot these two girls sitting are the bar.
We approach them and start to gaming them separately. More or less 5-10 minutes into the conversation things look very good for me and very bad for my wingman. The girl I am gaming is actually investing in the conversation with me, while the girl my wingman is gaming looks very bored.
After a while my wingman disappears (I don't blame him, I know it can be a pain in the ass to game a very unreceptive girl just to support another guy who's doing good with her friend).
Even though my wingman goes away (probably to some other bar) I am seeing more and more investment from the girl I am gaming, who's basically leaving her friend alone just to be with me.
I get close physically and at one point in the conversation I also starting caressing her back from time to time. I make the decision not to kiss/make out, which probably I could have done easily. I continue to give her sexual eye contact and kino while deep diving with conversational skills.
During the conversation I also managed to get important logistical information. They're tourists, their hotel is not that far (you can walk in around 15/20 minutes from the place we where). When I was asking about the hotel she also says something that I interpret as some sort of pulling invitation. She says "it's a super cool hotel with a very nice space downstairs and balcony".
A couple of times the friend leaves the two of us alone. Those moments were perfect for making out but, as I said, I decided not to.
I start to think what I can do to pull while minimising the chances the friend will create obstacle. So at one point I engage the friend a bit.
I have the impression this was the first mistake. When I try to engage the friend, the other girl opens her cellphone and starts looking at chats with guys, as if she started to go into auto-rejection.
I manage to bring the two girls out, without clearly saying that we are going to the hotel I start walking in that direction.
Here's the second mistake. On the way to the hotel they spot a rock bar. They happen to be rock fanatics and wanna go in. I can't find a way to have them continue to walk instead of going in.
In the second bar I probably make the third mistake, the nail in the coffin. As we're there I receive the call from another wing of mine who happened to be in the area. So I tell him to come over and game the other girl. I did that even if some voice inside of me was telling this was not the right thing to do. Somehow I let my insecurities prevail, thinking I couldn't handle the situation alone even though I had until that moment.
After my friend come it's over. Suddenly the girl I am gaming starts constantly mentioning a boyfriend she had never mentioned in the hour I had gamed her before. The friend clearly is in no mood to let my wing engage them.
Probably the crucial mistake happened in front of the rock bar, I should have found a way to kept walking towards the hotel, but I am also wondering whether to kiss her, at least lightly could have somehow have helped because at some times during the interaction I had this impression she felt I liked her but not enough.
Is that something you can do there which is not kissing to avoid auto-rejection?
A couple of hours after meeting we walk into this cool bar and we immediately spot these two girls sitting are the bar.
We approach them and start to gaming them separately. More or less 5-10 minutes into the conversation things look very good for me and very bad for my wingman. The girl I am gaming is actually investing in the conversation with me, while the girl my wingman is gaming looks very bored.
After a while my wingman disappears (I don't blame him, I know it can be a pain in the ass to game a very unreceptive girl just to support another guy who's doing good with her friend).
Even though my wingman goes away (probably to some other bar) I am seeing more and more investment from the girl I am gaming, who's basically leaving her friend alone just to be with me.
I get close physically and at one point in the conversation I also starting caressing her back from time to time. I make the decision not to kiss/make out, which probably I could have done easily. I continue to give her sexual eye contact and kino while deep diving with conversational skills.
During the conversation I also managed to get important logistical information. They're tourists, their hotel is not that far (you can walk in around 15/20 minutes from the place we where). When I was asking about the hotel she also says something that I interpret as some sort of pulling invitation. She says "it's a super cool hotel with a very nice space downstairs and balcony".
A couple of times the friend leaves the two of us alone. Those moments were perfect for making out but, as I said, I decided not to.
I start to think what I can do to pull while minimising the chances the friend will create obstacle. So at one point I engage the friend a bit.
I have the impression this was the first mistake. When I try to engage the friend, the other girl opens her cellphone and starts looking at chats with guys, as if she started to go into auto-rejection.
I manage to bring the two girls out, without clearly saying that we are going to the hotel I start walking in that direction.
Here's the second mistake. On the way to the hotel they spot a rock bar. They happen to be rock fanatics and wanna go in. I can't find a way to have them continue to walk instead of going in.
In the second bar I probably make the third mistake, the nail in the coffin. As we're there I receive the call from another wing of mine who happened to be in the area. So I tell him to come over and game the other girl. I did that even if some voice inside of me was telling this was not the right thing to do. Somehow I let my insecurities prevail, thinking I couldn't handle the situation alone even though I had until that moment.
After my friend come it's over. Suddenly the girl I am gaming starts constantly mentioning a boyfriend she had never mentioned in the hour I had gamed her before. The friend clearly is in no mood to let my wing engage them.
Probably the crucial mistake happened in front of the rock bar, I should have found a way to kept walking towards the hotel, but I am also wondering whether to kiss her, at least lightly could have somehow have helped because at some times during the interaction I had this impression she felt I liked her but not enough.
Is that something you can do there which is not kissing to avoid auto-rejection?
