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On Trying Too Hard To Be The Winner

Chad Tyrone

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Was typing this out as a profile post but it ended up being a little long...never intended it as a post lol


Anyways,
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Powerful people bow out of situations they've lost in graciously while remaining calm, cool, and unfazed

There is this constant need in people to always win

To let the world know that they are victorious even when they lost

Take it from me ...there is nothing as jester-y as trying to come across as a winner when you lost


I'd have people I have turned down go ahead and act as if I took them up on their requests .

It’s so laughable.

At it’s best , this is high effort on their part for low returns


The powerful person while still losing will walk away and shrug it off his shoulders …confident that sooner or later someone else will take him up on his offer

Take notice , he isn’t going around saying thank you sarcastically as some do …

Their tone of voice giving them away that it hurts them deep down to be turned down.

He just remains unreactive

While he may not say something , it’s easy to pick it off of him that he’s still in control.

His balls haven’t shrunk.

It’s clear to the world that he isn’t any bitter .

Do you think people will find a guy able to keep calm and his cool , uncool?

Hardly ,right ?


He is in essence adhering to the Law of Least Effort .

Most importantly , he doesn’t react

Most people don’t realize it but these little silly reactions give them away .

For goodness sake, why try so hard ?

You lost …so what

Get over it but as graciously as you can .

Take that chip off your shoulder and let anyone looking know that this too couldn’t get to you.

Chad Tyrone.
 
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