Pre-Story:
So she contacted me through Skype because she heard about me on youtube how I had a relationship with another girl,
and well long story short, we got together, stayed together for one month, and I didn't text her for a week and I broke up since she was not texting me because she was waiting for me to text her (maybe she was trying some psychology trick).
Anyways that's 1.5 years ago and every 3-4 months we still talked and she always was pretty sexual, well... until recently.
She found out that I'm pretty rich and that I will be living in her town soon, and was telling me stuff like "omg I wanna live with you" etc.
Well, she started to see me more as a "prospect boyfriend" than a "lover to have sex with".
She also has lots of mood shifts and sometimes she is boring as fuck, other times she gets super happy / exciting / flirty.
Sometimes we talk with multiple people online (group talk) and sometimes she says I'm her friend, sometimes I'm her boyfriend.
She still likes me and thinks she's fat and ugly and that I don't want her.
Also: I'm gonna be straight up honest here. I have no time to pursue girls and hang out with them. She is always the one that contacts me first.
In fact, I would be okay with finding girls that only like me because of my money.
So my problem is:
- She thinks I'm unattainable and I don't like her and now sees me only as a friend because "I'm hot and rich" because she went into self-rejection
- She started to become boring. We talked today and she was pretty silent, only a conversation with things she hated etc.
I really only see this going downhill. We are talking regularly and it's becoming more and more boring talking to her.
There's not much to do online, and recently she is playing computer games and I'm just there and like "Hmm..." and then I leave.
Should I join her playing computer games? I'm a busy guy with many other things to do.
So she contacted me through Skype because she heard about me on youtube how I had a relationship with another girl,
and well long story short, we got together, stayed together for one month, and I didn't text her for a week and I broke up since she was not texting me because she was waiting for me to text her (maybe she was trying some psychology trick).
Anyways that's 1.5 years ago and every 3-4 months we still talked and she always was pretty sexual, well... until recently.
She found out that I'm pretty rich and that I will be living in her town soon, and was telling me stuff like "omg I wanna live with you" etc.
Well, she started to see me more as a "prospect boyfriend" than a "lover to have sex with".
She also has lots of mood shifts and sometimes she is boring as fuck, other times she gets super happy / exciting / flirty.
Sometimes we talk with multiple people online (group talk) and sometimes she says I'm her friend, sometimes I'm her boyfriend.
She still likes me and thinks she's fat and ugly and that I don't want her.
Also: I'm gonna be straight up honest here. I have no time to pursue girls and hang out with them. She is always the one that contacts me first.
In fact, I would be okay with finding girls that only like me because of my money.
So my problem is:
- She thinks I'm unattainable and I don't like her and now sees me only as a friend because "I'm hot and rich" because she went into self-rejection
- She started to become boring. We talked today and she was pretty silent, only a conversation with things she hated etc.
I really only see this going downhill. We are talking regularly and it's becoming more and more boring talking to her.
There's not much to do online, and recently she is playing computer games and I'm just there and like "Hmm..." and then I leave.
Should I join her playing computer games? I'm a busy guy with many other things to do.
