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- May 12, 2016
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Online Game Field Report #1 College Student
PURPOSE:
What I've attempted here is to establish DEEP connection after the initial introduction stage and gain commitment/investment. However, as you can see there were some hiccups I believe. If there's anyone who can read over this conversation and give me pointers it would be great.
(Indirect Opener)
Hey! U don't know me, but I ran across your page while going through XYZ cause I'm visiting there soon.
And you seem trendy. do you know where locals go to enjoy hip hop/current pop music?
Her:
Thank you for viewing my page.
I think locals usually go to XYZ, a night club. But I am sure about that. Hope this can help you Have a good time in London.
Me:
Hey, thanks. Thats very thoughtful of you even if youre not familiar. I appreciate it. (Reward)
I'm gussing you were just visiting XYZ?
Her: I'm studying here currently.
Me: Oh cool, what do you study?
I would die to study in XYZ
Her: Fashion Marketing
Me: Fashion Marketing? What made you study in ABC versus NY? (Deep Dive)
And it makes more sense. I can tell youre more of a classy type than to be hitting up night clubs. haha (Cold reading)
Her: I don't really go clubbing. Just few times. haha
I can't speak French, and I trust the quality of education in Uk is higher than Paris. So this is the reason why I came to London.
Me: Ah cool. I like that.
Most of the girls that I know went to Place A to study fashion for cliche stereotypical reasons. Nice to know someone thinking on their own. (Positive Reward)
Btw I'm guessing your name is Jane
Her: My name is Janisha. You can call me Jen if you like
Me: haha that's a unique name. (it actually was, Jane is a made up name)
Nice to meet you Jen
Her: Nice to meet you too
Me: Where you from originally?
Btw do you use a messenger? For some reason I don't get notifications when you msg. Lets move the chat.
Her: Yes I have messenger.
But I don't know how to add you to the chat.
Me: tell me the messenger you use and your id. I'll add you (Investment, Commanding Her)
Her: Its XYZ:
You can add my FB then we can talk in messenger.
Me: Unfortunately, I don't use facebook.
Is XYZ for whatsapp? Cause I don't see you
Her: My whats app is XXXX.
Me: Great. I'll message you on there
To Whats App
It's Andersen
Her: Hi
Me: Where you from? Just cause your names unique.
Her: Place A
Me: cool. I'm from AB+. But I reside in AB as of now.
Her: Wow I have never been to AB before
Her: Really wanna go
Me: hahah great! I haven't visited A yet but now I know someone there
Me: And vice versa
Me: What made you want to visit LA?
Her: Cause I have never been there before
Her: Look forwarding to Californian
Me: Yes, but I'm sure theres alot of other places you havent been to as well right?
Me: Like for me, I do a bit of blogging and one of the reasons is XX has the perfect type of aesthetics. Ive done all the urban background shots I can do for my blogs haha
(Now that I think of it, it sounds like I'm trying to impress)
Her: (hour later) cool (Losing Interest?)
Me: Haha yep (Trying to play it off)
Me: So what's your plan for today? I'm guessing its sometime in the PM there.
(What I think is my attainability is too high for her)
(She's a student? And the "impressing portion" intimidated her a bit because she couldn't relate?)
Any pointers are welcome.
PURPOSE:
What I've attempted here is to establish DEEP connection after the initial introduction stage and gain commitment/investment. However, as you can see there were some hiccups I believe. If there's anyone who can read over this conversation and give me pointers it would be great.
(Indirect Opener)
Hey! U don't know me, but I ran across your page while going through XYZ cause I'm visiting there soon.
And you seem trendy. do you know where locals go to enjoy hip hop/current pop music?
Her:
Thank you for viewing my page.
I think locals usually go to XYZ, a night club. But I am sure about that. Hope this can help you Have a good time in London.
Me:
Hey, thanks. Thats very thoughtful of you even if youre not familiar. I appreciate it. (Reward)
I'm gussing you were just visiting XYZ?
Her: I'm studying here currently.
Me: Oh cool, what do you study?
I would die to study in XYZ
Her: Fashion Marketing
Me: Fashion Marketing? What made you study in ABC versus NY? (Deep Dive)
And it makes more sense. I can tell youre more of a classy type than to be hitting up night clubs.
haha (Cold reading)Her: I don't really go clubbing. Just few times. haha
I can't speak French, and I trust the quality of education in Uk is higher than Paris. So this is the reason why I came to London.
Me: Ah cool.
I like that.Most of the girls that I know went to Place A to study fashion for cliche stereotypical reasons. Nice to know someone thinking on their own. (Positive Reward)
Btw I'm guessing your name is Jane
Her: My name is Janisha. You can call me Jen if you like
Me: haha that's a unique name. (it actually was, Jane is a made up name)
Nice to meet you Jen
Her: Nice to meet you too
Me: Where you from originally?
Btw do you use a messenger? For some reason I don't get notifications when you msg. Lets move the chat.
Her: Yes I have messenger.
But I don't know how to add you to the chat.
Me: tell me the messenger you use and your id. I'll add you
(Investment, Commanding Her)Her: Its XYZ:
You can add my FB then we can talk in messenger.
Me: Unfortunately, I don't use facebook.
Is XYZ for whatsapp? Cause I don't see you
Her: My whats app is XXXX.
Me: Great. I'll message you on there
To Whats App
It's Andersen
Her: Hi
Me: Where you from? Just cause your names unique.
Her: Place A
Me: cool. I'm from AB+. But I reside in AB as of now.
Her: Wow I have never been to AB before
Her: Really wanna go
Me: hahah great! I haven't visited A yet but now I know someone there
Me: And vice versa
Me: What made you want to visit LA?
Her: Cause I have never been there before
Her: Look forwarding to Californian
Me: Yes, but I'm sure theres alot of other places you havent been to as well right?
Me: Like for me, I do a bit of blogging and one of the reasons is XX has the perfect type of aesthetics. Ive done all the urban background shots I can do for my blogs haha
(Now that I think of it, it sounds like I'm trying to impress)
Her: (hour later) cool (Losing Interest?)
Me: Haha yep (Trying to play it off)
Me: So what's your plan for today? I'm guessing its sometime in the PM there.
(What I think is my attainability is too high for her)
(She's a student? And the "impressing portion" intimidated her a bit because she couldn't relate?)
Any pointers are welcome.
