Recently, I meet a young beauty online and she requested my email to chat. So we chatted and kept bringing up what she wanted in a man and how her last serious relationship ended with the best friend sleeping with her boyfriend. Sounds to me like something you see on Days of Our lives.
But she asked me a million questions about why I was on the site to being with, what I was looking for in a women, etc. etc. and even requesting me to get off the site completely now that I met her. I felt I was on a job interview or something. She sounds very insecure and I understand why but how does one that is good with women handle such situations? I know these are tests to see how you will respond to her crazy demands.
So I tried to be truthful and used some light banter (not sexual) to lighten things up but she completely ignored my frame. She is foreign from another country: Ghana I believe but extremely great looking 26 year old. She even sent me some pictures of her which was nice. But in all honestly, I felt I was losing control of the conversation. I tried to deep dive to get a some kind of connection but she would always turn it right back on me asking more and more questions like about my previous marriage and why we split up or if I liked being single. No American women that I can recall has ever been this assertive up front with someone they just met on a dating site. And I thought foreign women were less dramatic and more trusting? What was I thinking??
I finally told her what I was actually looking for in detail but she never responded back. Was I fighting a up-hill battle? How does one that has experience in such matters handle this situation?
But she asked me a million questions about why I was on the site to being with, what I was looking for in a women, etc. etc. and even requesting me to get off the site completely now that I met her. I felt I was on a job interview or something. She sounds very insecure and I understand why but how does one that is good with women handle such situations? I know these are tests to see how you will respond to her crazy demands.
So I tried to be truthful and used some light banter (not sexual) to lighten things up but she completely ignored my frame. She is foreign from another country: Ghana I believe but extremely great looking 26 year old. She even sent me some pictures of her which was nice. But in all honestly, I felt I was losing control of the conversation. I tried to deep dive to get a some kind of connection but she would always turn it right back on me asking more and more questions like about my previous marriage and why we split up or if I liked being single. No American women that I can recall has ever been this assertive up front with someone they just met on a dating site. And I thought foreign women were less dramatic and more trusting? What was I thinking??
I finally told her what I was actually looking for in detail but she never responded back. Was I fighting a up-hill battle? How does one that has experience in such matters handle this situation?
