Online openers

[Eternity]

Sup Casanovas, yo boy Eternity has been getting more matches on the Hot or Not app than fucking Tinder (smh) but these hoes don't be responding... Put yo best online openers on this thread and help out a budding online seducer ( or others too shy to speak up). Much appreciated bros.

 

[ProblemSolving]

Never used Hot or Not, but is it even a dating app?

In the online game, the problem is never your opener. The problem is your pics. Talk to the girl like you would talk to her in person.

"Hey (name), what's up!"

"Hey (name) how's your monday going?"

The guys that consistently get laid online use "boring" and generic openers because they know it doesn't matter. A girl that wants to meet you, doesn't give a shit that you weren't funny or creative.

Guys that love wasting time and chatting without getting laid worry about using "creative" and elaborate openers.

 

[Sandman]

Yes, I always open with "hi! how are you " or a variant thereof. If a girl wants to talk to you she will, if not she won't.

 

[NealIRC]

Yes, I always open with "hi! how are you " or a variant thereof. If a girl wants to talk to you she will, if not she won't.

Eh, you're not supposed to use "how are you" to a person you don't know. This applies to men on men and women on women.

 

[HereNthere]

Heh, and yet every other girl's profile will say, "Please message me with something more creative than 'how are you?' or don't bother."

First rule of being what women want: don't listen to women about what they want.

 

[Eternity]

Never used Hot or Not, but is it even a dating app?

In the online game, the problem is never your opener. The problem is your pics. Talk to the girl like you would talk to her in person.

"Hey (name), what's up!"

"Hey (name) how's your monday going?"

The guys that consistently get laid online use "boring" and generic openers because they know it doesn't matter. A girl that wants to meet you, doesn't give a shit that you weren't funny or creative.

Guys that love wasting time and chatting without getting laid worry about using "creative" and elaborate openers.

Yea, its a dating app. Better quality in the city I assume. Just the whole interface is profit focused, hence the low appeal to users...