FR online phone number thread

[naturalmikey]

the key to dates online is getting numbers. the more numbers the more dates. not complex. so i'm gonna start posting some of my conversations that lead to numbers in case anyone is having trouble with the texting part of online.

12/29/1981

Me: oh god l*** you look so innocent and reserved
Me: what are you doing on tinder
Her: i just made this yesterday actually lol
Her: I'm relatively new to LA - just looking to meet people and stuff
Her: what brings you here?
Me: like to meet someone i connect with not looking for just a hookup but not really looking for a girlfriend either
Me: how about you?
Her: i'm open to a relationship right now, but not really actively looking
Her: never really been one for a hookup thing
Me: well it sounds like we're pretty much on the same page! maybe we can meet up at some point and see if there's any type of connection
Her: tell me something about yourself. your profile is very secretive

@JacobPalmer i actually paid attention here lol

Me: well i'm 6'1 and live in venice (the only thing my bio says)
Me: jk i grew up in west virginia... where are you from
Her: shitty california inland town.
Her: not a far move
Her: i'm in venice as well
Me: ive actaully never been to your shitty town.. i have a strange feeling i'm not missing much
Her: you're not it's the absolute worst
Me: it can't be worse than where i'm from
Me: how long have you been in la
Her: the IE should just evaporate
Her: since summer. i was in european town before that, and hippie town before that
Me: i mean with the melting ice caps your shit hole town may be the beach before too long
Me: are you of the decent of the europeean town you lived in
Her: by heritage, not by nationality
Me: i'm definitely a mutt just a mix of a bunch of different western european ancestry as far as i know
me: my family mostly lives in austin now, which i went to for christmas... not a fan
her: yeah i have some family in a different texas city
her: texas is awful
me: i'm glad we're on teh same page... i'm about to go to bed but i'd love if you'd message me your number so we can communicate off tinder... i hate texting on this app
her: phone number
her: how old are you btw?
me: 33 (lies) my birthday is actually today lol
her: happy birthday!
her: a fellow sagittarius - love that
me: i'm a capricorn lol
her: oh well i guess we're over then
me: by
Me: nice knowing you
her: haha good night

i hearted the goodnight

 

[Sub-Zero]

Good stuff. What do you think it means when some girls say they’re looking for friends?

I usually ignore it and try to move on, but I don’t know if that’s the right move.

And also what does it mean when you get the number have the girl into you and then just go ghost?

shits weird. I’m thinking maybe I’m not moving fast enough, but I’m going by the days they give me.

 

[naturalmikey]

@Sub-Zero girls fuck their friends so who cares. they just don't fuck guys they friendzone. there's a difference. i totally ignore it. but i ignore most things girls say at surface value. girl truth is very moment to moment and means nothing in the long run when it comes to small talk. talk is cheap. clearly it's different when you sit down for a serious conversation. it's not like chicks are retarded. but in the moment they just say what they feel and that changes all the time. but girls also make hard line decisions too. i'm just looking for friends is not one of them. but deciding she will not fuck a guy and will only use him for validation (what we call the friendzone) that's a pretty hardline decision. i've got out of the friendzone several times. but it's after months of invoking jealousy.

 

[Sub-Zero]

@Sub-Zero girls fuck their friends so who cares. they just don't fuck guys they friendzone. there's a difference. i totally ignore it. but i ignore most things girls say at surface value. girl truth is very moment to moment and means nothing in the long run when it comes to small talk. talk is cheap. clearly it's different when you sit down for a serious conversation. it's not like chicks are retarded. but in the moment they just say what they feel and that changes all the time. but girls also make hard line decisions too. i'm just looking for friends is not one of them. but deciding she will not fuck a guy and will only use him for validation (what we call the friendzone) that's a pretty hardline decision. i've got out of the friendzone several times. but it's after months of invoking jealousy.

Ok good, I was wondering were they saying that because I look friendly in my pics. I’ll just keep ignoring them when they say that.

 

[naturalmikey]

here's a short one

me: guess what
her: what
me: i like your eyes
me: hi i'm field
her: haha thanks, how are you?
me: good! hows the whole tinder thing going for you
her: ehhh!
her: lol still using it so
me: you're 21 youre supposed to be single lol
me: anyway i think you're cute and would love you to to message me your number so we can communicate off tinder i hate texting on here
her: lol i'm actually 20
her: phone number

 

[naturalmikey]

Ok good, I was wondering were they saying that because I look friendly in my pics. I’ll just keep ignoring them when they say that.

are you asking them what they're looking for or are they volunteering that information. if tney're volunteering it often, that might be something you wanna look at. but she's not swiping on guys she thinks look like friends.

 

[Sub-Zero]

are you asking them what they're looking for or are they volunteering that information. if tney're volunteering it often, that might be something you wanna look at. but she's not swiping on guys she thinks look like friends.

I ask them what they’re looking for. I’m guessing they don’t wanna come out and say they wanna fuck, but if that’s the reason, why they playing games and ghosting? I still think it has to deal with moving fast, but I try to make the date the earliest day that they give me.

 

[naturalmikey]

I ask them what they’re looking for. I’m guessing they don’t wanna come out and say they wanna fuck, but if that’s the reason, why they playing games and ghosting? I still think it has to deal with moving fast, but I try to make the date the earliest day that they give me.

well if you're asking them what they're looking for i'd say friends is a better answer than a boyfriend.

 

[Mr.Rob]

Nice thread here. Hopefully others will contribute as well and share different perspectives. Text game has always been a weak suit of mine.

 

[naturalmikey]

i wish i could post the screenshot, because the chick is a model and i know that seems believable. but whatever

me: i’ll wear my matching headband on out date
her: haha no turning back. now you have to wear it lol
me: first i have to buy it lol
me: how's the tinder life treating you
her: haha
her: yeah that would be a start
her: it's alright i guess, i haven't on here long so don't know what to expect
her: how about you? how is tinder treating you?
her: not to seem silly for asking but is your name actually field?
me: yes my name is short for...
me: and my parents were kind of hippies
me: and they wanted to call me field
me: tinders okay don't use it oo much
me: what are you lookig for? casual dating, a boyfriend, friends...
her: haha cool name honestly
her: vibin w someone, seeing where it goes
her: you?
me: thank you i like it too
me: it sounds like we're on the same page
me: maybe we can meet up sometime
her: well that's good that we are lol
her: maybe we can meet up
her: what do you do for work?
me: what i do for work, hbu
her: what she does for work... model a bit on the side (she's 5'11 and really good looking)
me: cool... well i think yo're cute and would love for you to message me your number so we can communicate off tinder. i hate texting on this app
her: well, that wouldn't be the worst idea
her: number

 

[naturalmikey]

@Sub-Zero here's the competition
him: good morning ariana and happy new year! how are you, did you go out last night. have a beautiful day. what are your plans for the rest of the week? you better be funny, i am hilarious. hope you can hang!
her: hi trevor
her: i'll laugh at your jokes if they're funny
him: you'll be laughin with me the whole time. i am always smiling, always laughin, always geing goofy. i try to make people laugh all the time, life is too serious people need to laugh more
her: okay sounds good
him: any plans for the weekend? you want to get some dinner or drinks?
her: sure
her: but i like ice cream
hi: i love ice crem too! what our favorite flavor?

that's the competition