FR++ oooh...look at me...i have a boyfreind

[Ree]

Met up with a gal that I Cold approached on a bus stop
She was boarding a bus so we cudnt talk,i just grabbed name and number
So we met today....practically strangers...we Went to a bar...she said she just wants a soda...I ordered soda too...they asked for cash upfront...she just sat there...so i paid(never figured out how to get girls to pay for their stuff)....
Asked her why she quit drinking..(mistake?)...she told me she was a wild party girl who reformed
She told her party stories like she enjoyed it,than she wud catchherself and say..."now,allthat is in the past"
I Deep dived...the usual(,what do u do,how long will u do it for,what wud u be doing if it wasnt this...e.t.c)
She asked me what i do...drew it out...to get more compliance...instead of just saying animator...i said..

Me :i make stuff...
her :What stuff?
Me :Stuff that appears on tv
her :Like what?
Me: Adz..e.t.c

Went back to her
We laughing...kino on her back...so i Decided to transition from social to sexual...used a transition i found from the field report by chase
me:Lets see...ur smart,sexy and fun....i bet men fall for u,huh?
Her:they admire me ,but are too scared to approach
Me:wud u rather they approached?
Her:nuh...i already have a man
(At this point she insisted i stop touching her because she has a man)
Me:women just want me for one thing
Her:what

I .then started that ricardus philosopy kind of sextalk....(,women pretend they dont like sex so as not to bejudged by a society withdouble standards...etc)
She said she only like sex with her boyfreind...from this point onwards,every step i made forward..kino..or sex talk(verbal escalation or physicalescalation),she brought up her boyfreind
Transitioned back to social topics just to get a high point.....Pulled ..
Me:Hey this music sucks,lets go to my place
her:.im not going homewith u...i have a boyfreind,...dont mind the musiclets just talk

Ended date...walked her home...went back to safe social topics...(whats your favorite animal...lol..)...every time i tried kino,always got a...what r u doing i have a man.....reached her gate

Me:enjoyed hanging out with u
Her:same,
Me:what r u going to do?
her:cooking
Me:what are u cooking...im i invited?
Her:do u like beanz
Me:sure

When we entered her house...she became ridiculous with her..i have a boyfreind statements....

Me:so what r u plans for tmrw
Her:meeting up with my boyfreind
Me:hey,so the first time u ever drunk was at age ?
Her: thats the sort of thing i only tell my boyfreind
Me:which movies do u like
Her:the ones i watch with my boyfreind


These werent said with a smile and wink either,she was cold,looking away,uncomfortable...fiddling with her phone,texting her boyfreind...lol



Isthis a seduction location ?when i cant even sit on the same couch as her...without eliciting a "what r u doing,i have a boyfreind!"
I Excused myself then i ghosted....why did she even let me in ?

 

[Troy]

Ree,

Good idea to always let women ask about you instead of telling them stuff randomly. You give them a little and structured it in a way that made her want to ask more.

At the end of the night while you accompanied her back to her house the conversation was too much of a question and answer scenario.

What works for me is to ask no more than 2 questions, wait till she answers then make a statement, this relating to what she said, or using a flirty line or short story. When you have recently met a woman remember to keep the conversation flirty.

In between deep diving you want to come up for air. Crack a joke etc. It's not about being a clown for girls, it's about preventing too much tension from building. Keep a balance.

Troy

 

[Ree]

hey...good idea thanks for the insight....
how wud u have handled her constantly bringing up her boyfreind any time u attempt to physically escalate

 

[Ree]

woah....nice breakdown...radeng

how would u reccomend transitioning from the socialising to seducing
i dont wanna get stuck talking about work but at the same time i dont wanna trip up any wires and make the vibe come off as off

 

[Ree]

damn....cant wait to try this out with the next one.....thanx