Hey guys,
I've recently been having some trouble with a girl I've been in a casual relationship for 1.5 years.
Over the past few months, I've noticed that she's been increasingly offhanded in her comments and has been testing me a lot more.
When she comes to my place, she always stays for the night. And pretty much all of the time, we have sex before going to sleep and after the movie. We also have sex earlier during the evening before having dinner.
After the movie, I recently noticed that her saying things like, "We should go to sleep now." She seems to play hard to get with having sex. Each time, I feel like I'm chasing and handling objections to get her horny enough to have sex. I know that she's just playing games, because during sex earlier in the evening, we talk about the sex we're going to have later that night. Each time, she seems very excited by it.
The question is: how can I address her when she gets me to chase very hard to initiate sex? This seems to annoy me and I don't like having to put up with this game that she's playing.
I've been thinking about calling her out on it, but I'm not sure if this is an over-reaction. Would appreciate your opinions.
J
I've recently been having some trouble with a girl I've been in a casual relationship for 1.5 years.
Over the past few months, I've noticed that she's been increasingly offhanded in her comments and has been testing me a lot more.
When she comes to my place, she always stays for the night. And pretty much all of the time, we have sex before going to sleep and after the movie. We also have sex earlier during the evening before having dinner.
After the movie, I recently noticed that her saying things like, "We should go to sleep now." She seems to play hard to get with having sex. Each time, I feel like I'm chasing and handling objections to get her horny enough to have sex. I know that she's just playing games, because during sex earlier in the evening, we talk about the sex we're going to have later that night. Each time, she seems very excited by it.
The question is: how can I address her when she gets me to chase very hard to initiate sex? This seems to annoy me and I don't like having to put up with this game that she's playing.
I've been thinking about calling her out on it, but I'm not sure if this is an over-reaction. Would appreciate your opinions.
J