Opinions on my routine

[Mark E]

I have a routine I want like to try out, and would like your opinions on it. I have only made a few approaches, and want to have a routine to roughly follow to avoid getting stuck.
Open
I won't stick by any method of opening, because my feelings on which opener to use are too dependent on the situation. Whatever I choose, I will make her aware of my intentions.
Banter/Rapport
I want to stick mainly with banter to get her more comfortable, because i want to move fast. I also want to keep this step as short as possible, so I can proceed to the next step and see if she is open to more.
Move
Say something like "walk with me for a minute" or "hey let's go (wherever)"
While saying this, I'm unsure if I should offer my hand, or just grab hers. Either way I want to try to hold hands with her to get physical early on, and also bring up any objections she may have early on. Also, if she is holding my hand it will be pretty hard for her to miss where I'm taking the interaction.
Transition
While we are walking together, I will continue the talking in a manner dependent on how she responded to my initial banter. If she responded well when I first bantered with her, I will continue a little more, then transition to rapport. If she just gave a blank stare or didn't respond well, I will go straight to rapport building.
Kiss
Once we stop, I don't want to leave give any opportunity for the interaction to slow down. I will kiss her almost immediately, pull back for a second and if she responds "well" I will proceed to makeout with her. I plan on getting a large spectrum of reactions from this step, but as long as it falls somewhere between "what the hell just happened?" and liking it, I will proceed. Obviously if she says something like, "get away from me" I will stop. Most objection i will address by bringing up that she already held my hand. If she responds something like, "what did you just do?" I will just kiss her again and be like, "that's what I did."
Number & Close
After kissing her I might include a small amount of rapport or some kind of conversation to pad the interaction, but I will exchange numbers as soon as possible and propose that we meet up again.
I may or may not end the interaction after this. I would want to, but if I remember correctly, Chase has said that leaving directly after exchanging numbers makes girls more likely to flake.
If the scenario makes it convenient, I may not do the number swap and just converse a while longer, then invite her back to my place.

I would love to have other opinions on this routine, but just remember that this is a guideline, and not something I will follow to the letter.
-Mark

 

[Tyme2k]

Have you tried this yet and how far did you get?

Is this day or night game?

Day game, this is not going to work. It should look more like

Open
screen
qualify
set meet/instant date
number close
end

Night game what I do is

Open
screen for logistics
get investment
move
physically escalate
try to pull or number close if not possible
move on

 

[Mark E]

Okay thanks for the input. This is day game. I think i will still try it out just to see what happens, but it's good to know what you think about it.

 

[diegoC]

Regardless of your intentions with that girl (sex the same day or number close), you should try to get her number before you kiss her. There are moments during an interaction when asking for a number is very natural:

Pick a moment you are both enjoying (high note: she's laughing for example) and just swap numbers:

• "You are way cool! Let's trade number before I forgot and we'll get together again"
• "I may have to leave soon. I enjoy talking to you! Want to get together maybe later this week for a coffe or a drink?" When she says yes just trade numbers.

Is good to make her know you are asking her number for a date. Now, if she gives it to you, she is actually saying yes to see you ("Yes, I really think I would like to spent some time with him").

I recommend you do this.

Is better to kiss girls in the place where you can escalate towards sex, so, you should be just doing that. Kiss her for the first time, stop, kiss again, stop, more of this, stop, more of that, stop… baby steps. Make her feel comfortable. You don't want to be the horny guy. You are in control of your sex drive. Of course, the pace of the escalation depend a lot on the girls. With some you will escalate very quickly, with others, you'll get some resistance and you'll have to take your time and be patience.

That's why I think you should get her number before. Then you should continue your interaction and leave eventually or keep on going.

Usually, I won't kiss her until we are at the place I can escalate. Especially if it's a place where there are to many people that can see her do it (you know, girls need to protect themselves from social judgement)

Cheers!