Fashion  other guys style

theodous

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guys do you think that men can game with other men's skills or fashion?
 

ulrich

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It depends.

Fashion is one of those things where you have a mix of objective and subjective parameters.

Objective: Your size, your weight, your skin and hair color, the colors that fit you...

Subjective: The people you meet, the place you are in, what is acceptable, what is deemed cool and uncool...

On the objective side, if you have a very fair skin and use saturated colors, you’re gonna look like crap. There’s no way around it.
If you copy an outfit from someone with a different complexion, skin color, size, etc... you’ll need to adapt to these variables.

On the subjective side, everything that you wear has a context... you have to be aware of how some colors, clothes, accessories are perceived by the people that you want to notice you.
You may think that a bow tie makes you look fashionable and you may have seen guys using it but then you go to a wedding in a small town and everybody thinks you’re gay.
The bottom line is:
Does this makes me look in-group or out-group? and how much in-group or out-group I want to look like?

So in summary, yes you can use other guys styles.
But you need to adapt it to your body, your colors AND your context.
 

ulrich

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One important caveat: some clothes strongly communicate belonging to a certain group: bling bling (rappers), cowboy boots, sport jerseys, combat boots, cowboy hats...

Prepare to be challenged in your proficiency when using them.

Youre wearing cowboy boots and never been to a ranch?... people can tell and will give you a hard time for it
 

Mike Silvertree

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You need to find a style that is congruent with who you are and is not too far outside the envelope of your social set. You need an identity and then to build a wardrobe that fits that identity. You have to build a brand for yourself and then chose clothes, furnishings, and a car that reinforces your brand. But, it is so dependent on who you are and what your social circle is like that it is nearly impossible to give specific advice.
 
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