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We, man, almost a lot of us tell other people how hot our girls are.
IT happens with our soccer team, our girlfriends, our jobs. IT seems we are good with our own "Public Relations" than women.
The thing that daunt on me is that some of guy friends i know who are casual, relax and cool, I found a common trait.
Their girlfriends are the coolest, beautiful and socially graceful.
I think rather than curbing this ego that we having, i feel i need to understand where it comes from, and how to utilize that energy and be more of a "show" rather than "talk". Because to all guys, my girlfriends is hot, or i own this place. Guys who doesn't have a reality outside his social circle, or his pub. Once you bring him out of his bubble, he's literally like a fish. Chase mention this, everyone thinks their girlfriend is special.
IT's one thing to over-value a girl. It's another to not notice you doing it. I think the best thing that i ever did was actually never be satisfied with what i have, and which i did, and the girl i had that time, was the best i thought prior, but then i realize, she did fulfill most of my requirement of what i want, and that i wanted more, and i look at her, and my feelings tried to say she is this or that. Actually she fulfill what i wanted, at least mostly. Just that i needed to progress now.
Finding ways to take yourself out of the bubble without bursting the bubble could be a good practice. YOu don't want to always shake your reality, because that's where your sanity lies.
Ego is an Identity. It's to tell who you are. IT's Bragging, but Bragging itself is just Bragging, IT's meant to be positive. It's meant to create humour and telling other people this is who i am, while smiling, and earning the respect and friendships of friends, people. This is what Ego and it's objective.
Zac
IT happens with our soccer team, our girlfriends, our jobs. IT seems we are good with our own "Public Relations" than women.
The thing that daunt on me is that some of guy friends i know who are casual, relax and cool, I found a common trait.Their girlfriends are the coolest, beautiful and socially graceful.
I think rather than curbing this ego that we having, i feel i need to understand where it comes from, and how to utilize that energy and be more of a "show" rather than "talk". Because to all guys, my girlfriends is hot, or i own this place. Guys who doesn't have a reality outside his social circle, or his pub. Once you bring him out of his bubble, he's literally like a fish. Chase mention this, everyone thinks their girlfriend is special.
IT's one thing to over-value a girl. It's another to not notice you doing it. I think the best thing that i ever did was actually never be satisfied with what i have, and which i did, and the girl i had that time, was the best i thought prior, but then i realize, she did fulfill most of my requirement of what i want, and that i wanted more, and i look at her, and my feelings tried to say she is this or that. Actually she fulfill what i wanted, at least mostly. Just that i needed to progress now.
Finding ways to take yourself out of the bubble without bursting the bubble could be a good practice. YOu don't want to always shake your reality, because that's where your sanity lies.
Ego is an Identity. It's to tell who you are. IT's Bragging, but Bragging itself is just Bragging, IT's meant to be positive. It's meant to create humour and telling other people this is who i am, while smiling, and earning the respect and friendships of friends, people. This is what Ego and it's objective.
Zac
