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The Marksman

Space Monkey
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This is LR is a couple weeks old, however, it was the base for a casual relationship with this girl whom I will be posting updates in the relationship section on, so a base report seemed appropriate, which is what follows:

Enter College Bar 1: The Marksman and Anatman take on the town.

We were at first bar for the evening, got bored and left, enter bar two where we see them.

I spot her at the bar with her friends.
I've seen her around at a couple of our rush functions, and had spoken with her very briefly at one of her sorority rush functions with other people involved in the conversation, but it had always ben very focused talk about our organizations and never anything more, or in the vein of anything else past very small talk. Her tattoos, are showing, her ass is looking great (one of the nicest to this day that I have seen, but that is for the relationship report), and she is surrounded by her friends, and looking slightly disinterested in her current situation, I plan on changing the later of the two however.

I walked up behind her and put my hand on the small of her back and lean over and say audibly enough for her to hear

Me: You look invested in your evening so far.

She turns and smiles and laughs, I leave my hand on her side through the whole turn around and through the next bit of convo.

Maggie: Haha yeahhhh, my ex is here and is driving me nuts.

Me: (smiling) Well let's get a drink and see what we can do about that.

We both get a drink and lean against the bar shoulder to shoulder.

Me: So there than being pestered tonight, how's your evening been going?

Maggie: Oh it's been all right, it's been a kind of girls night so far haha.

Me: Sounds fascinating haha.

At this point I turn towards her slightly and lean more on my left arm, and put my right hand in my pocket. She also turns off both of her elbows to face me continuing the conversation. Her friend also joins the conversation, and I begin moderately flirting with both of them and playing them against each other light heartedly to build tension and make them qualify against each other. Anatman shows up from whatever other social interactions have been maintaining his attention. we run the two together. Jokes about a threesome between Maggie him and I are tossed out and lightheartedly left hanging between the three of us, but it's clear as she allows me to continue making touches here and there on her arm and side and with how much she is playing with her hair that she has her mind made up on how many guys will be involved this evening.

Maggie: Well I think we are going to Another bar to dance, but you should come.

Me: We might join in a bit, I think we're gonna finish our drinks here first, but take my number and shoot me a text with your name and I'll text you when we get ready to leave and see if you're still up for dancing.

She takes my number and departs with one backward glance and a smile.

The game is afoot gentleman.

Anatman and I both agree after they have departed to finish our drinks, make one more round at the bar quickly saying bye to those we know and to make a quick bathroom break before heading over.

We walk one rot the bar that they are at and find them ordering drinks. At this point it is just Maggie and one of her friends. They buy us a round of shots and I waste no time beginning the ploy for the evening. Anatman is already aware of the situation and makes conversation with the very attractive friend of hers, aiding the cause. Maggie and I are turned to each other after the round of shots. I touch her hip and begin with

Me: So you mentioned dancing, do you dance well or do you do the half hearted grind floor fucking thing? hahaha

Maggie: Hahahaha Oh no! I dance very well thank you!

Me: What's your style of dancing?

Maggie: What do you mean? haha

Me: I mean are you a polished flamenco dancer, hip hop dancer, grinding? What Can I expect in a bit when we go out there?

Maggie: hahahaha I don't know about the professional stuff but if I'm dancing with guys it's typically grinding I suppose.

Me: You're building up expectations now, you better grind like you actually mean it and sell it or I'll leave you on the floor. haha

Maggie: Well let's find out!

They pull us to the dance floor, which is neither empty nor packed. We dance a couple songs, I twirl her once in between very passionate matched hip swaying, hand sliding. and her reaching back occasionally and sliding her hand from the back of my head, down my neck, and over our shoulders. We hit a break in songs and grab our drinks for a quick sip.

We then pull them up on the dance stage in the bar in front of the main floor and dance up there with our drinks. At some point, one of them comments on how no one else is dancing anymore (It's close to closing time), Anatman and I both look at each other, and laugh following the observation with a who the fuck cares comment as we finish the last song of the evening.

As we are getting kicked out of the bar, we tell the girls that they should come back and hang out with me at my house, as we still had a party going on there. They agreed and we all headed back. Little did I know what was in store for me when I got back.

What was in store, was two of my exs, one very recent, and both very drunk in my basement playing beer drinking games. You guessed it, time to play jealousy plot lines. We call next on the beer pong table and challenge the two girls against us. Enter the older of the two ex girlfriends, who by the way is VERY VERY drunk and hanging ALLL over me. This automatically takes care of the recent of the two exs, as she does not want to stick around and watch how I can so casually do this in front of her. She quickly assembles her things and departs.

Obstacle now overcome.

During the course of the game I frequently move away or shove the other two of the exs off of me, commenting on how drunk she is and how she should probably drink some water and sit down. meanwhile Anatman and I set up a bet that the loser of the current game in progress has to go down on the winning team. More public jealousy plot lines. We win the game as luck has it and maggie and her friend talk of departing. I say that's fine, take my hug with well placed hands and whisper in her ear I expect her to make payment on what she owes with a light tap to the behind. They leave. Now it's time to get the second ex the fuck out of the house. I play 15 minutes of obvious ignoring and commenting on how drunk she is. She pouts in the room. Anatman walks up and asks her if she wants to go home. Perfect. She does. More perfect. See ya beeya. professionalwingman.com/that'sthatshit

After she leaves I shoot a quick text to Maggie. She lives two blocks away from my house, which is the only reason I let her leave in the first place.

Me: So. About that bet.

Maggie: Haha what about it?

Me: You still have to pay it lol

Maggie: I told you we weren't doing it! haha

Me: I'll make you a deal, we can trade… lol

Maggie: What? lol really?

Me: Yes really, I'll walk over and you can walk back with me

Maggie: hahaha

Me: I'll be there in 5. Meet me outside.

Maggie: haha fine

We walked back to my place and she went to town paying her debt. This girl was probably some of the kinkiest sex I've had to date. As she went to leave the next morning (I told her that night after sex that she would have to leave in the a.m. because I had to go to a fraternity philanthropy event) I gave her a pat on the ass and a kiss and told her I'd see her soon. She smiled and we've been in a very casual relationship since then. I'll move the updates and such to the relationship portion of the forums, but that's the original LR. Hope you all enjoyed!

- The Marksman
 

NarrowJ

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Marksman,

First of all... welcome to GC, man!

Second of all... this report (and, shit, the other one too) is nuttin' but game-tight.


Maggie: Haha yeahhhh, my ex is here and is driving me nuts.

Me: (smiling) Well let's get a drink and see what we can do about that.

Nice frame your setting here. You two are a team already ;)


Me: So there than being pestered tonight, how's your evening been going?

Maggie: Oh it's been all right, it's been a kind of girls night so far haha.

Me: Sounds fascinating haha.

Way to lean back. You're not impressed. She's going to have to put in some work to keep your attention.


Maggie: hahahaha I don't know about the professional stuff but if I'm dancing with guys it's typically grinding I suppose.

Me: You're building up expectations now, you better grind like you actually mean it and sell it or I'll leave you on the floor. haha

Maggie: Well let's find out!

Clear dominance on your part. Clear that she's still the one doing most of the work here.


What was in store, was two of my exs, one very recent, and both very drunk in my basement playing beer drinking games. You guessed it, time to play jealousy plot lines. We call next on the beer pong table and challenge the two girls against us. Enter the older of the two ex girlfriends, who by the way is VERY VERY drunk and hanging ALLL over me. This automatically takes care of the recent of the two exs, as she does not want to stick around and watch how I can so casually do this in front of her. She quickly assembles her things and departs.

Huge attraction booster here (pre-selection). If she didn't know before, she's knows now...

You stacked quite a bit of technique on this girl. Great job, man! The reward you get at the end of the night is making it this easy (below):

Me: So. About that bet.

Maggie: Haha what about it?

Me: You still have to pay it lol

Maggie: I told you we weren't doing it! haha

Me: I'll make you a deal, we can trade… lol

Maggie: What? lol really?

Me: Yes really, I'll walk over and you can walk back with me

Maggie: hahaha

Me: I'll be there in 5. Meet me outside.

Maggie: haha fine

This whole sequence of texts is great. I LOL'd at the "What? lol really?"

Overall, pretty much flawless. Even if you didn't do enough to get her to come back the same night, I'm sure it would've been a done deal the next time you guys hooked up to hang out.

Really good stuff! Looking forward to more reports,
NJ
 

The Marksman

Space Monkey
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I appreciate the input NarrowJ! I'm definitely looking forward to having many more reports to relay.

I've also posted the RR if anyone is interested in where things went and where things are now since this night: viewtopic.php?f=7&t=6099
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Marty

Cro-Magnon Man
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Marksman,

This is a cool LR!

As you can imagine I'm not really in a position to critique anything, however I am eager to learn and so I want to ask you a question just like I did on your last LR... thanks for the answer BTW which clarified everything.

I've noticed the following from you a lot:

The Marksman said:
Me: Sounds fascinating haha.
The Marksman said:
Me: You're building up expectations now, you better grind like you actually mean it and sell it or I'll leave you on the floor. haha
...and from your previous LR, even more...
Me: (interrupting) No no I asked her haha she's clearly the leader.
Me: Well I'm sure that's super exciting, but 1/2 an hour won't make a huge difference and I was less asking and more stating haha.
Me: The struggle is real haha. We could have finished the movie by now.
Me: Next to your obvious strong humble nature? haha
If you're that brand of casual relationship female we can just call it a night here haha.
Me: Well I wasn't completely sure, but since you said so NOW I believe it…hahaha
Obviously I'm referring to all the "hahas". On this site we're taught, again and again and again, not to be the "entertainer guy". (Just search the word "entertainer" on the main site and you'll see what I mean.) Clearly, that advice is intended for folks who haven't a clue what they're doing, unlike you, and I realize that (a) once you're secure in your ability you can bend the rules and (b) you're not actually entertaining as such here, just poking light fun in a playful manner. However, I'd be interested to hear your perspective on it... in his introduction Anatman alluded to your being quite low-key, classy and "smooth", as he put it.

So I'm wondering what the "hahas" actually look like. Is it a conspiratorial chuckle, accompanied by a tilt of the head, a wink, a well-placed hand on her body or something like that? I'd love to get a view on how this plays out since you obviously use it a lot.

Thanks!

-Marty
 

The Marksman

Space Monkey
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Hey Marty!

I do love the use of anything "Sounds (insert term here)" . Sounds interesting, sounds exciting, sounds exhausting. It's so multi-functional and can play so many different hats, sarcastic yet witty, probing yet reserved etc. I recommend employing it to anyone.

As for the haha's I guess I am using them as vocalized laughter in the literal sense (almost as an onomatopoeia). I suppose I could try and figure out a way to be clearer in my writing that there's laughter or maybe just say (laughter or light giggles) however I tried to use it to set the frame of emotion. I'll try and be better about using more descriptive phrasing a less strict haha, it's a great suggestion for writing on here and I appreciate the observation.

As for how it is employed in my style, I would say that I play the witty, confident, slightly teasing game. Enough of an asshole to point out minor flaws, insecurities, or to tell a girl to shut up and that I'm trying to listen to her friend whom she is interrupting while laughing or coyly smiling to let her know that it's teasing. When in friend groups, I try to pit friends against each other somewhat (make them argue over who the alpha female is in the group, ask questions and stop girls from answering for each other, sometimes literally telling them to shut up, which has worked numerous times before believe it or not.) I'm a firm believer that it's a lot of not what you say but how you say it. My game is nonchalant " Hey, I'm attracted to you, let's talk for a bit, I can't stay long, but I just wanted to have a quick convo, if you're interested cool, if not cool" but with all the fundamentals and underlying tones of trying to pick her up like subtle body language and physical interaction, and technique. I'm slowly building up my very direct, expedited pick up approach however. Classy and smooth are also good descriptors. it's definitely never the entertainer or the "jester" role as I have heard it referred to before.

I hope that clears things up and answers your questions appropriately! As always thanks for the input and good luck with your own endeavors!

- The Marksman
 
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