Overlapping Dates and Flaking on Girls

[NewBeeWinner]

Hey guys,

With how busy I am (I work part time and am a full time premed student) and how busy other college girls are, I've been considering overlapping date plans.

For example, say I get two girls numbers and they both say they are free Friday night. I know it will be a while before I am able to reschedule a date with one of those girls because of how busy she is if I don't go out with her that Friday. So, one solution would be to plan one date for Friday at 6 and one at 6:30.

I go to the date at 6 (I would plan the girl I have the greatest chances of taking home) and flake on the one at 6:30.

I have yet to flake on a girl that has made plans with me (of course, like most guys I have been flaked on). So I am curious what kind of experience you guys have had with flaking on girls? How does it usually go? I assume it makes them desire you more because they don't get flaked on. But I also assume there's a risk of auto-rejection (and so its important the girl you decide to flake on)?

Thanks for the advice!

NBW

 

[Fuck This]

Give yourself more time between the dates, like 2 hours. Make the dates at places you are going to be at anyway, and far enough apart that girl from date #1 doesn't see you with Girl #2.

If girl 1 flakes, you have a good hour or 2 to study your school notes before you need to go meet girl 2.

If girl 1 is massively into you and you are going to pull her home, you can cancel and reschedule girl #2 with a little more lead time. But Girl 1 needs to know beforehand you have a time constraint. Hell it could be "a study session with your lab partner" or something plausible. If she is really turned on, she will do everything in her power to get you to cancel your commitment. Plan on the first date being 1 hour.

Stacking dates only works for first meetups. The expectation on a second or third date is something of a little longer duration, and you should be setting that up for a pull.

 

[NewBeeWinner]

Fuck this,

Thanks for the advice. I'll give it a shot next time this situation comes up

Till the next one,

NBW