LR Overly-attached Vietnamese girl

[jdoc]

Hey dudes,

I work on the streets of Melbourne as a street fundraiser. One day on the job I met a very cute Vietnamese girl. I could tell that she was very into me, so I asked if she'd like to grab coffee with me sometime. The answer was a resounding yes.

I sent her a message after work asking if she'd liked to meet up, and we met up immediately after. I met her at a central train station, and we went to grab some juice from there. I began to deep dive her a little as we were walking to grab juice, and she was telling me that she was from Vietnam and only arrived in Melbourne 4 months ago. She was studying design.

Me: So what sort of things do you like to design?
Her: Beautiful things.
Me: What sort of things do you find beautiful?
[She turns to me]
Her: You.

At this point I was extremely flattered. We walked towards the river to find somewhere nice to sit. I held onto her hand as we are walking, and massaged her palms a little as I was sitting. I deep dived her a little more, and she turned out to be what I'd expected. Studious, shy, introverted, and with not a lot of hobbies. She was also a very honest girl. Something that is part of my humour is that when I tell a joke, I kinda flash my eyes wide open, adding to the comedic value... kinda a quirky part of my humour. I was surprised when she told me upfront that I scared her when I flashed my eyes that wide open. I kept the conversation quite light, and I teased her lightly occasionally. I'd jokingly call her a liar, and gently teased her on the some of the things she said. I also told her that I was a mind reader, and I knew that when I stopped her on the street she was attracted to me. She said that it was true. Some chase-framing huh.

At one point, I decided to give her a kiss. I slowly leaned in to kiss her, but she slightly moved her head back. I still gave her a kiss anyway. At this point, she asked if I had a girlfriend. When I told her that I didn't, she was very surprised, because I seemed like the type of guy to have a lot of girlfriends. She mentioned that the side of my face was very beautiful, and that whenever I looked off into the distance, she liked to look at my face. I told her she could touch it if she wanted. She did, after some hesitation. I actually found her shyness to be very cute. At one point:

[running her fingers through my face]
Her: Right now I really want to... nevermind.
Me: What?
Her: I'm too shy to say!
Me: You can tell me.
Her: I'm so shy!
[I turn to face her]
Me: You want to do this?
[I lean in to kiss her, and we make out for 3 seconds]
Her: No! I just wanted to kiss your cheek!
Me: Oh... you can do that too if you'd like.
Her: Hmm... but I'm so shy!
Me: Sweety, we literally just kissed on the lips.

She then went in to kiss my cheek. At that point she grew really comfortable with me, and very passionately made out with me. She was a good kisser. She kept on telling me how beautiful the side of my face was, and how my lips and tongue were so soft. Eventually after making out some more, I figured it was time to pull. Previously, I'd ask if she'd played guitar before. When she said she didn't I told her I'd give her a lesson later on.

Me: You know what? It's getting a little cold here. Let's head back to somewhere warmer. I can give you your guitar lesson.
Her: Okay.

We took a tram back to my friend's apartment (thanks Nick!) and I had the keys, so we entered the apartment. Thankfully, we were home alone. I told her to make herself comfortable in the bedroom whilst I went to the bathroom. Afterwards, she went to use the bathroom. In the meantime, I lit a candle and placed it in the bedroom. She sat down on the bed, and I taught her a very simple song on guitar. After a little while, I moved the guitar away, and pulled her into me. We made out heavily for a little while, and I laid her down onto the bed. I then killed the lights - with the candle light providing a very intimate atmosphere. I then began to rub her thighs, and eventually her pussy, but she pulled back.

Her: I'm sorry... I can't.
Me: You can't what? We're not doing anything. We're just kissing.

We then got back into it, and I grinded up against her in the missionary position. She moaned really loudly. After moving my hand back down to rub her pussy again, she once again pulled back, saying should couldn't because she had her period. Fair enough. Afterwards I took off her top and bra. She complained that she was so shy since her breasts were small. I asserted that I found her very cute and liked small breasts. When her bra finally came off, I licked her nipples which turned both of us on like crazy. She then went to rub my dick through my jeans. I then took off my pants, and she jacked me off, with more making out. After a while, I told her that I wanted her to lick my body. She went from my chest, all the way down to my dick, and gave me an incredible blow job. After finishing, we cuddled for a little bit. She didn't seem to mind that my semen was all over her chest. She then went home and messaged me frequently over the weekend. She said that she missed everything about me.

I saw her again a few days ago. I invited her over, and we pretty much just escalated right into sex. No resistance. She was really tight, and moaned extremely loudly. After sex, we made out, and said that she liked me. I didn't respond back to her and just kissed her. I could tell that this girl was getting way to attached way too fast. We then went out of dinner, and told her that I wasn't really looking for a relationship, and was happy to just see her casually. She responded by saying that she wanted me all to herself. She seemed to be slightly upset when she left. Not sure whether I should see her again, for her own sake.

Overall, I think I may have figured out how I've managed to make a handful of women to be really into me. On a couple of instances, I've had women tell me that they like "everything" about me, and that I'm perfect. I think a big part of it is to be affectionate, warm, and making her feel really womanly, and desired.

Thanks for reading fellas.

- Jeff

 

[Smith]

I like this dude. This is awesome. It seems like you're not doing too much because it's all in the subcommunication.

On a couple of instances, I've had women tell me that they like "everything" about me, and that I'm perfect. I think a big part of it is to be affectionate, warm, and making her feel really womanly, and desired.

I'm curious how do you make them feel really womanly and desired? This has been a sticking point of mine!

 

[jdoc]

Yo Smith!

I think a big part of making girls feel womanly and desired is to show that you're attracted to them in a genuine and uninhibited way.

Naturally I am quite an affectionate person, and I like to demonstrate that in my actions... cutesy things like hand holding (whilst caressing their hands with my fingers), sweet talking them (i.e telling them that they're cute with light teasing). My affection is usually a reward for their investment. I also like to give them a sweet smile that's kinda sly but endearing at the same time... the kinda smile that shows that i think they're cute. Sometimes in the mix whenever they heavily invest in me I like to say things like "you're so sexy when you kiss me like that" or "you are so cute" encouraging them to chase me even harder.

As a whole, I think most of it is genuinely showing that you find them attractive for who they are, and heavily rewarding their investment. That, and solid fundamentals. I think this is what has worked well for me.

Hope this helps!