Paktor web series - Evaluate this guy for fun/learning

[PinotNoir]

So, I've started using Paktor as an added arsenal to meet women. It's pretty much Tinder with more Asians and allows for bigger distance.

Anyway, while stumbling around YouTube, I found that they have a small dating series. This dude goes on 3 dates from Paktor and picks one.

Date #1
Date #2
Date #3

What are you guys' thoughts, opinions, evaluations, etc.?

If I didn't care about public reputation, I'd definitely record myself on 3 dates and post it on the boards here for people to evaluate haha.

My Thoughts on Him

I think his profile picture is killer (see Date #1). Shirt off with nice muscles, looking to the side, and wearing shades to add a bit of a mystery. Can you get more perfect?

His eye contact is not too good. He seems kind of nervous and unsteady, but this could be due to the cameras. He looks down and away too much. Eye contact is definitely his weak point I think. EDIT: Actually his eye contact with Date #2 is fine for the most part, but could work on voice. I might have to go back and re-evaluate when I have some time. Also, I only skimmed through Date #3 because the girl isn't as hot haha.

Handshake for every girl? At least give the hug. At the very least, I strive to do hug+cheek-kiss when first meet for the date, but I change it up depending on how shy/open/nervous the girl seems. And if she is shy, the kiss on the cheek can even make her feel warmer and more comfortable, so maybe I should just always do cheek-kiss haha.

His conversation seems fine (they don't record a lot of it). For the 1st date, he focuses on himself a bit too much, but in the 2nd and 3rd he does a better job I think. You can tell he's witty, but he always says it kind of soft and looks down when he says a witty remark. Speak up and be confident that she'll laugh (I have problems with this too).

In date #1, as the commentators said, that "secret handshake" task is a perfect way to touch a girl's hands. He definitely could have used that more to his advantage.

Other Thoughts

I kind of like how they added in "tasks" and certain questions or conversational topics. I definitely need to try some of those tasks in a date, but how to present it correctly (so not staged)? Seems like a great idea though -- to make the date a bit more interesting and open her up more (especially to touch).

He got grossed out when the 2nd girl asked what an "ugly vagina looks like." I have no problem with that; I don't know why he freaked out. I would definitely date girl #2 in a heartbeat -- no problem at all.

 

[Mr.Rob]

This is sort of interesting find.

Obviously a guy who isn't very versed in dating but he seems to be confident and decent enough despite. I think he could have a sexier/edgier haircut as well, his Asian face is really niceguyish. Like he doesn't pose much of a sexual threat.

I just watched the first date and I like how the dating company that hosted the show gave them little "tasks" or whatever to do. It'd be kind of fun I think, however I would've tried to take it to the limit and be obnoxious as possible. Like dry hump her as the secret handshake or something lol.

Lol @5:25 the look on his face is priceless when she's about to show him something sexy about her. He's cheesing like a little kid that's about to see something he's not supposed to. And then he answers back in the platonic way "yes that is a very sexy picture" Lol.

He's a cool cat though and he did a good job of improvising conversation.

What this video sort of did was hammer in the total "nice guy" media lameness that is around us alllll the time. Like regular dudes watch this and it hammers in the reality that you be a nice guy weenie and you get subsequent dates. He even mentions "yeah I hope we can be friends" (which perhaps he didn't like her sexually).

Not judging it as bad or good but it definitely reinforces that all too omnipresent frame of "conform into the niceguy".

I definitely need to try some of those tasks in a date, but how to present it correctly (so not staged)?

Fucking easy mate! Just talk about the video you put here. Ask her what she thinks about it and then say "they did this lets try it". You could even make up your own tasks and just lie and say the video had them in there.
I could see myself telling the girl "yeah girl and then for the 3rd task they asked each other to squeeze each others asses to compare who had the best one" ... "And the tenth task they actually asked them to perform oral sex to each other on camera... the girl has to go first though"
Lol.

Cool find dude

-Rob

 

[PinotNoir]

Not judging it as bad or good but it definitely reinforces that all too omnipresent frame of "conform into the niceguy".

Yeah, I definitely felt this vibe the entire time while watching it too.

I assume the company tries to make it that way so no negativity towards their product. With the guy, I can't tell if he was just doing that for the cameras or is actually this way. I think he is actually this way.

I call BS on him saying "yeah, I'm just looking for a friend." I think he's looking for dates and just said that to the cameras so he wouldn't look like a loser or something haha. I wouldn't care and would just say, "Yeah, I'm hoping to date these girls." Like who cares.

Fucking easy mate! Just talk about the video you put here. Ask her what she thinks about it and then say "they did this lets try it". You could even make up your own tasks and just lie and say the video had them in there.
I could see myself telling the girl "yeah girl and then for the 3rd task they asked each other to squeeze each others asses to compare who had the best one" ... "And the tenth task they actually asked them to perform oral sex to each other on camera... the girl has to go first though"
Lol.

Hahaha, sounds like my next date challenge!