Panty Dropper's Journal

[Panty Dropper]

The following post happened yesterday,didn't post it yet:

I had some things to take care of and so I headed for the bus stop.There was this girl sitting on a bench and I sat next to her.I didn't speak to her right away instead waited awhile.When bus none of us wanted came by I turned to her and said(the conversation sample is a bit long, should I make it shorter next time?):

Me:The bus is taking a long time to get here.

Her:Yeah I know I've been waiting here for half an hour, the bus should be here by now.

Me:Are you single?

Her:No(looks down). Are you?

Me:Well...it's complicated haha.

Her:Haha it's always complicated.

Me: Do you go to <my university>?

Her:Yeah I'm in communications.

Me:So you want to be an anchorwoman or something?

Her:No, more like web designing.How about you?

Me:I'm in biology thinking of biotech,want to play god,do some interesting things like life extension.

Her:Sounds Interesting.

Me:Where you from?

Her:I'm from <this small town>.

Me:You were born here?

Her:Yes.

Me:You lived your entire life here?

Her:Yeah.

Me:So how's it like living in a small town?

Her:It's not bad but I want to move somewhere else.

Me:Where?

Her:Somewhere with more happening, more people.

Me:Yeah,I know what you mean.I've only been here for three years and I already want to get out. I from <big city> and I really miss it.

Her:No wonder you don't like it here.

Me:Yeah lots of interesting things happen there,some kind of festival every month, lots of interesting places to visit.What's your name?

Her:I'm PD.

Me:I'm A.

(I think this is the point where I reached for her thigh with my hand, she had her purse on her lap and my hand landed there instead.Immediately she placed her hand on mine, I thought she looked kind of flustered.)

Meo you live by yourself or with roommates?

Her:No, I live with my mom.

Me:Just your mom?

Her:Yeah.How about you?

Me:Originally the plan was for me to live by myself in my own apartment, be able to bring friends over and stuff, but my dad moved closer because of his job and my mom didn't want to leave me alone.

Her:That's not so bad, it's nice living with your parents.

Me: I guess but I wanted my own place, live by myself you know?

Her:Yeah, I'd like to move out someday.

Me:Yeah.Did you do anything interesting for reading week?

Her:No, just work and school stuff.You?

Me:Mostly just school stuff.What do you do for work?

Her:Retail,mostly sell shoes.

Me:Girls and their shoes.

Her:Yeah, we like our shoes.Spent most of my money on them.

Me:At least you get a discount.

Her:Yeah but I end up spending more money.

After this we talk a little more about where we went on vacation, what we did.The conversation lulls as the bus comes and we get on.I sit by the window leaving the seat next to me free and she sits on the seat across the aisle.I tell her to "come sit over here" while patting the seat and she does stumbling a little as the bus is moving.I help steady her. We continue talking about the vacation , but the conversation lulls a little.

I ask when she's free and she said that tomorrow she's visiting a friend in x city and she has school assignments on the weekend, and to the weekend comment i say "I'll take that as a yes" and she laughs. During the conversation I touch the outside of her thigh with the back of my hand and a few incidental touches of her hand, but not a lot. As we get close to the mall I say:

Me:I guess I should get your number,would suck if we never saw each other again.

Her:Sure.

Me:So it's As(wrong, but similar name).

Her: No it's A.

Me:How do you spell that?

I type her name, then hand her the phone for her to put in her number.She gives it to me without saving.

Her:You can text me.(gets off at her stop).

Afterwards I send her a text saying"It's PD save my number."

 

[Panty Dropper]

Today as part of my ongoing commitment of doing one approach a day I opened one girl, didn't go to well:

Positioned myself near her, after 30 seconds opened:

Me:Hey there.

Hertakes off an earphone)

Me:Are you single?

Her:No(turns away puts earphone back on)

Meo you go to (my uni)

HerTurns takes earphone off)What?

Meo you go to (my uni)

Her:No(turns away puts earphone back on)

Cold reception,oh well. Gotta approach more chicks and play the numbers game.

 

[ray_zorse]

Dude this is great stuff, first girl hooked very well. I think you could maybe try to think of ways to deflect some of her questiond or just make briefer responses to help u remain more mysterious, if in doubt a good strategy is when she asks a question have her guess the answer then when she guesses don't confirm or deny... just say something like "hmm, interesting...so what about you, are you xxxx", obviously this will only take you so far but play around w it. Great to see u keepibg a journal I'm a new guy myself and found it v helpful and fum. Drop them pantiez dude
cheers, Ray

 

[Panty Dropper]

Thanks Ray! Next time I talk to a girl I'll remember to be more mysterious and make her work for it.

 

[Panty Dropper]

Today I'm ashamed to say I didn't really approach.Unlike other days I was looking forward to approaching but I ended up only doing 2 "approaches" at my uni, a weak "hey" to a girl with headphones who didn't hear me and a simple question to a girl waiting for the bus when I was leaving uni.

I'm gonna have to step it up and do some real approaches tomorrow.

Edit:Also forgot to mention yesterday I sent a text(yesterday) message to the girl I met 2 days ago at the bus-stop:

"Hey A! I just had the most delicious smoothie ever.How's work?"

Maybe I didn't word it right or something as I have no response so far.

 

[ray_zorse]

My fave opener to women with headphones is "hey, can you hear me?" invariably they can, then they take one off and you go "I just wanted/had to tell you that...". Fiddling with phones you go "I saw you sitting here and I thought you would need more company than just your phone, I'm Panty Dropper"... usually gets okay results. Props for approaching bro. 2 is better than 0
cheers, Ray

 

[Panty Dropper]

I'm definitely gonna try that earphone opener first chance I get. This is great stuff thanks Ray

 

[Panty Dropper]

Approached two girls these last two days. One was a girl at a bus stop who I tried opening by commenting on the bus being late, she dismissively snorted?

Second girl was in a buss stop...again(I commute to school by bus, might as well approach girls). This one happened at night and I opened her asking if my bus came by recently,it did. Then I asked if she was single to which she said yes.Tried to make conversation but she did not speaking English well and wasn't being that interested, as we were getting in the bus I called her over to sit beside me but she didn't.

 

[Panty Dropper]

Over Thursday and Friday I did 5 approaches.

1st: There was a girl standing in the hall looking at some (graduation?) pictures. I walk by and two feet in front I pretend I just noticed her and turn:

Me:I saw you standing there and I had to come tell you, you have beautiful hair. I'm PD.

Her:I'm x.

I start trying to deep dive her but didn't make much of a connection in large part because I was nervous and couldn't think too well. She came from the same city as me and I could've made a connection there but missed. I did advance a step forward and touch her upper arm at one point, so I'm sure she might of been interested. She excused herself because she "had to catch her bus".

2nd:A girl sat donw next to me at the computer area.

Her:Shit.

Me:Computer to slow?

Her:No, closed it by accident.

Me:That sucks.
(She turns away)

Me:Hey(she turns) are you single?

Her:Yes...why?

Me:I'm just curious.

At this point I try to deep dive her but she sais her english isn't very good(it isn't, and I can see some esl type stuff on screen) so I drop it.

3rd:There was a chubby girl in the bus stop. She started humming and I asked her where that was from so we start talking and I finf out she's a nursing student doing her phd and a few other things.She seems to enjoy talking to me, at this point her bus comes and she said she enjoyed talking to me but she has to leave.I forgot to ask for her number,oh well.

4th: Girl plays a loud game on her phone, I try to talk to her but she keeps her answers short and doesn't seem to want to talk.

5th: Another bus stop girl, I walk up to her and asks if she's single, she dismissively snorts.

And that's it for now. I'd add more detail for the two that went better, but those happened yesterday and I forgot a lot of what happened.

On the other hand I'd like to mention my change in attitude towards approaching, these past few days I've been becoming more and more bold and less afraid or embarrassed of approaching to the point of looking forward to talking to a girl though I still feel some apprehension,but it's weaker now.

I also noticed some girls smiling in the halls as I walk by. There was also this girl on the bus in front of me to the left in a window facing seat who I tried to make eye contact with but she turned away, after awhile she brought legs on the bench and sort of lounged and I could swear she wanted my attention cause her legs were open and her was pussy area was pointed towards me(but covered with her hand) or maybe she was just being comfortable?Hmmm....

 

[Panty Dropper]

I made 3 approaches today, I got 1 number and got to experiment with the nudge properer.

1rst girl: She was leaning backwards on a pole and was pretty isolated from the main group of students waiting for the bus. I come up from behind and bump her to the side,I did it a little to hard(forgot how light girls are lol). I smile at her and ask if she's single, she said no. I try to make conversation but she doesn't want to talk.

2nd girl: I was walking in the hall and spot a cute girl in front of me so I quicken my pace a little and this time much more gently nudge her to the side.

Me:Hey watch where your going.

Her:Sorry.

Me:I'm just kidding, I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi, I'm PD.

Her:Nice to meet you.

She turns back forward and keeps walking so I don't think she was interested, maybe I should of asked her for her name. She does hold the door open for me after she walks through but then again that's common practice where I live, but she waited a little longer as I was going slower,hmmm...

3rd Girl:I was sitting down on a bench waiting for the bus and this girl sat down next to me.

Me:Hey does # bus come here?

Her:I think,not sure...

Me: Just kidding I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi, I'm PD.

Her:Thank you, I'm x.

Me:Your Chinese right.

Her:Yes.

Me:Let me guess, business.

Her:Yes, but most Chinese students take business.

Me:Not really hard to guess, how's it like back home?

At this point we talk about her hometown, she turns out to be a country girl and come from a smaller town. I keep deep diving her and touch her shoulder a bunch of times and eventually let my arm rest on her upper back. I try some role play briefly when she said she wanted to go to Egypt and see the pyramids by suggesting we become grave robers, but I don't really develop it(any ideas on how to expand it?)
I get her number midway in the conversation, at the end the conversation lulls but my bus came after about 30 seconds so it was hopefully not to awkward.

Anyways that's it for today.