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OK, So I've been reading Chase's ebook and articles on this site for some time now and have finally started making more effort to put these techniques into practice..
Yesterday I succeeded with my first opener, a situational opener in a coffee shop. ("Hey, could you pass the sugar please?") a little lame I know, but it worked, from there I managed to move to her table, get some small talk going to learn more about her, deep dived a few topics, throwing in the occasional chase frame, got some touch going with the "that ring looks kind of cool, can I see it?" and taking her hand without waiting for a response..
Unfortunately I was with a friend, so I had to bring him in on the conversation but after 20 mins of talking, I moved all three of us to Regents Park, which conveniently was just down the road, where we walked around, sat chatting for a while and had quite a laugh.
Me and her exchanged numbers and we all arranged to meet up today (her, my friend, my friends girl and myself) this evening.
she text me only minutes after I left and later in the evening I sent a reply saying my friend had things to do and wouldn't be around till later, but I was free all day and the 2 of us should meet up for a few hours before the others get there, which she seemed to agree to quite readily, so that's the plan, I'll be going to see her in a few hours.
My question is twofold, 1) How can I tell if shes interested in me physically(sexually) or if shes only interested in the group socially? and 2) how can I hone the procedure to make it more efficient next time? (obviously omit the friend whenever possible, accidental cock block on his part... )
Yesterday I succeeded with my first opener, a situational opener in a coffee shop. ("Hey, could you pass the sugar please?") a little lame I know, but it worked, from there I managed to move to her table, get some small talk going to learn more about her, deep dived a few topics, throwing in the occasional chase frame, got some touch going with the "that ring looks kind of cool, can I see it?" and taking her hand without waiting for a response..
Unfortunately I was with a friend, so I had to bring him in on the conversation but after 20 mins of talking, I moved all three of us to Regents Park, which conveniently was just down the road, where we walked around, sat chatting for a while and had quite a laugh.
Me and her exchanged numbers and we all arranged to meet up today (her, my friend, my friends girl and myself) this evening.
she text me only minutes after I left and later in the evening I sent a reply saying my friend had things to do and wouldn't be around till later, but I was free all day and the 2 of us should meet up for a few hours before the others get there, which she seemed to agree to quite readily, so that's the plan, I'll be going to see her in a few hours.
My question is twofold, 1) How can I tell if shes interested in me physically(sexually) or if shes only interested in the group socially? and 2) how can I hone the procedure to make it more efficient next time? (obviously omit the friend whenever possible, accidental cock block on his part... )
