Party Seaside Girls are Rejecting - FAST HELP

[Xerud]

Hey All I'm at sea and there are really big parties. But problem is most of girls are like 6 years older. So I approach girls, I say hi, what's your name and I just spin her.

But allot of girls reject me, also I saw that girls don't take me serious. Like I'm some "funny" guy.

What should I change?

 

[ray_zorse]

What about some badass facial hair to make you look older?

Anyway, it's a standard seduction scenario. Apply all GC principles. If you think age difference is an issue read the article called "XXX girls only want [blank]" or similar.

Ray

 

[Xerud]

Thanks Ray, yesterday actually today I picked up 4 girls. I get kisses and everything, but I suck at escalating to sex.

So please let me know what should I do. There's a beach party with allot of toilets and everything.

Also one more problem girls cockblocking what to do on that.
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[ray_zorse]

I'm a bit dubious about the toilets, it's a bit difficult to do have sex in a standing position (in my experience) and it might be a bit icky otherwise, how about a picnic rug or sleeping bag on the beach or in the dunes behind the beach? The closer to the party it is, the easier it is to lead her there.

Well, assuming you can get a makeout, do everything the same and let her think you're going to make out with her (strong eye contact, lean in a bit, touch her body, face, hair... breathe some hot breath into her ear)... when she's excited then just say "I have an idea" and lead her dominantly to the seduction location. What do you think? I am just making this up as I go along, there are many ways to isolate / escalate.

How about posting an FR in which you tried to isolate / escalate and I will try to think how you could have planned it better. But honestly, you sound like you're doing fine, just keep in mind that public makeouts don't lead to sex unless you pull away real quick and leave her wanting more.

Ray

 

[Xerud]

Thanks, the only part I'm insecure about is that i'm really skinny becaus of my super fast metabolism. But I'm young

So you recommend me to escalete quickly? So actually I'm moving too slow...

*Agree there are many nice spot and trees around that. Some fuck at beach, but that's really close everyone can see you and there's also security

 

[Xerud]

One more thing I was kissing with girl and she had one girl FRIEND close. I danced to one, but after 20 minutes of kissing she said that she needs to go back to friend. How can stop that?

Also girls cockblocking that's quite allot, girl wanted to dance but the other girl blocked me. But she started dancing with me. What to do here?

 

[ray_zorse]

What happened was that after 20min of kissing she had enough good feelings from u and made an excuse to leave, this is normal, after a club or party makeout the tension is gone and you're not a challenge anymore. Don't kiss her until tou've got her somewhere you can escalate to sex. And yes, move fast, but do it (move her, kiss her, etc) on a high point.
Ray

 

[Xerud]

Ray today I'm so insecured about myself. I picked up girl, went to bushes, but I just couldn't fuck her. I didn't get boner, something went wrong. Now I'm really insecure about that. Please help me.

I'm so dissapointed I just couldn't stick dick to her vagina, I'm scared what happend. Really I'm so sad and angry what happened. It would be my first sex.

 

[ray_zorse]

Hey man it's okay, it happens to every guy. If you don't believe me, see this FR, just don't worry and keep doing what you're doing, the best way to be able to relax in this situation is simply to know you have the skills to bring an interaction to this point anytime, then if you don't get a boner it's no big deal, you will probably get a boner tomorrow. I don't have time to write a comprehensive post now but affirmations really help to replace negative thoughts and rehearsing failure with thoughts like "it is dawn and she islying next to me, breathless and satisfied from my hard dick and the knowledge I have put a baby inside her", and lots of visualizations of her calmly breastfeeding your baby etc. Also how you escalate makes a difference, the more of aboss you are the more you can set the pace and avoid feeling like you have to perform on demand. I could write a whole book on this topic, maybe search my posts?
Ray

 

[Xerud]

Thanks for reply, I'm so upset hehehe, I just couldn't get a damn boner.