Partying

[Tramp]

I'm not much of a party guy, as I don't drink or smoke weed. I love crowds of girls going wild, don't get me wrong, but I haven't really ever been to a serious hardcore party. I've been to one at a rich guy's house, and it was boring as hell. So I don't have much partying experience.

Almost every girl my age parties and that's their whole being. They're definitely fun girls, and they range from girls that like partying but still have a head to girls that love starting shit, causing drama, and watching fights go down.


How can I relate to party girls? It seems like the most beautiful girls are party girls. The hottest girl I have ever met (she could literally be a super model, and she is 6 foot 2) was a real sweet girl, but she wasn't very smart and she'd just talk about how she gets high or gets drunk and goes out.

I just want to know how do I talk to these girls and how do I handle them.

 

[Richard]

With girls like that, its best to avoid girls who drink and smoke weed, as far as relationships go anyways. I was messing around with a girl who was a heavy party girl who's life was about fighting, and smoking weed.

From my experience, these girls only cause trouble long term, and eventually lose interest because you don't match their high octane drug based life.

However, girls who party but have a head on her shoulders, talk to them like you would any other girl. This type of girl will have a lot more going on, and will allow you to connect with her more on something other than partying. Connect with her the same as you would a regular girl.

Also, I make it a point with girls like this to express my reserved side openly, accept her want to party from time to time, but also express your feelings of not being such a hard partier as well. She'll likely accept you as you are, and you won't have to worry about it later on.

To touch basis on the heavy party girls, they live their lives in the moment, and generally don't plan too far ahead, and they are the easiest lays. Just show that you have excitement in your life, that you live close to the edge. Id you portray that style of image, these types of girls will be really easy lays.

-Regards,
Richard

 

[Tramp]

Exactly what I needed to know man.

I've never really gotten into party girls because I would have relationships with girls that had goals in life and were cute at the same time. Now I want to try with hot party girls, like the bleach blonde girls that are usually popular.


I'm glad to know that I can express my reserved side without being a downer too. I'll try being edgier around these girl and try this out, I noted in a FR that I was going to try being edgier anyways. Seems like the right road to travel, just like you said! Thank you so much for the replies Zphix!

 

[Richard]

I would only express your reserved side to party girls who have a head on their shoulders though. Girls who are all about smoking weed, and partying will be turned off at the fact that you don't like to party as hard as them. Just something to watch out for.

-Richard