Sometimes girl will want commitment but either they will be passive aggressive with it or deny sex.
This happened with me yesterday, I am seeing a girl from last 2 months.
She said either we will just cuddle and sleep or If you can't control I will go home.
After trying to escalate few times she denied me again and again.
Even after saying lovey dovey shit like how can I control if your body is so hot etc. she did not gave in.
Then I started talked her a bit and understood she feels I am just having her as a FB or she is not feeling special enough.
Then I decided to be a bit disappointed and angry (actually my raw emotions) told her whatever you are you are not just a friend I can never see you as a friend.
This started to turn her on.
Then after talking a bit more she said you fuck me every time we meet.
Your actions tell me I am just a sex thing for you
Still my emotions were high and I told her that fucking you every time and a FB there is a big difference its passion.
This helped her to solve her dilemma.
She got horny and then script was flipped I made her do work to turn me on.
Background
www.skilledseducer.com
This is related to this girl.
In attachment type she is mostly secure/avoident, can't figure out exactly but avoident
Like her reason to lose her virginity to a stranger was not to be heart broken later.
Still keeping dating apps. Though I have not discussed.
I guess I want her to commit to me/fall for me just for the sport now.
This happened with me yesterday, I am seeing a girl from last 2 months.
She said either we will just cuddle and sleep or If you can't control I will go home.
After trying to escalate few times she denied me again and again.
Even after saying lovey dovey shit like how can I control if your body is so hot etc. she did not gave in.
Then I started talked her a bit and understood she feels I am just having her as a FB or she is not feeling special enough.
Then I decided to be a bit disappointed and angry (actually my raw emotions) told her whatever you are you are not just a friend I can never see you as a friend.
This started to turn her on.
Then after talking a bit more she said you fuck me every time we meet.
Your actions tell me I am just a sex thing for you
Still my emotions were high and I told her that fucking you every time and a FB there is a big difference its passion.
This helped her to solve her dilemma.
She got horny and then script was flipped I made her do work to turn me on.
Background
How to know if the girl is locked in or converted
When Is a Girl "Locked In"? The consensus is that after sleeping with a girl three times, she is locked in, and you can relax a bit and shift her into chase mode. But how do you know for sure that she’s locked in, especially if she’s a "normal" girl (not a nympho, etc.)? What I Want to...
www.skilledseducer.com
This is related to this girl.
In attachment type she is mostly secure/avoident, can't figure out exactly but avoident
Like her reason to lose her virginity to a stranger was not to be heart broken later.
Still keeping dating apps. Though I have not discussed.
I guess I want her to commit to me/fall for me just for the sport now.
