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Mods, don't move this thread to how to get hot girls of any type thread. I think this is a stand alone thread and can help us understand the blonde obsession a lot better that guys have, similar to the one Eliot Rodger had.
Over the years, I've realized something about guys like Eliot Rodger for example who are obsessed with the hot blonde types. What I have learned about these guys, including some close friends in that time too, is that these guys aren't really attracted to good looking women with blonde hair, they're attracted to the higher status/cool/trendy blonde. The kind of girl that chase describes as the blonde bombshell but I have learned why so many guys are almost border obsessed with these women to where they desperately want one.
They're attempting to make up for lost time in a way.
Think about the stereotypical guy that gets into PUA and other things like it, chances are that he was not on the high school football team and he likely didn't spend time partying with good looking girls. Same with the guy who hardly had that much luck in college with the popular girls. In the United States, popular girl literally means blonde bombshell, mainstream American culture that is.
The guy is likely a late bloomer who always wanted to be a popular guy or run with the cool kids growing up but he never got that chance whether it was due to circumstances or just not hitting his prime. Now he wants to make up for lost time and go for the popular girls as a means of getting revenge on the past, a way to look back at people in the past that were more popular than him and rub it in their faces.
Some of them are not even that attracted to these women!
I have known guys who slept with a couple of hot blondes and later found that the brunette or latina gets them way harder than that hot blonde ever could. Some of these guys have found that they were not even that attracted to these women in the first place, they were doing it for arm candy and as a trophy sort of thing. I think this is what we should be taking into account when helping guys who come forth asking for help with hot blondes or ANY kind of higher status girl, they aren't chasing the pussy for attraction or fun, they're doing it to fill some sort of a hole left in their past.
They're attached to their lonelier days of the past and where they were not the cool kid and they're using certain women as ways to make up for that lost time.
Over the years, I've realized something about guys like Eliot Rodger for example who are obsessed with the hot blonde types. What I have learned about these guys, including some close friends in that time too, is that these guys aren't really attracted to good looking women with blonde hair, they're attracted to the higher status/cool/trendy blonde. The kind of girl that chase describes as the blonde bombshell but I have learned why so many guys are almost border obsessed with these women to where they desperately want one.
They're attempting to make up for lost time in a way.
Think about the stereotypical guy that gets into PUA and other things like it, chances are that he was not on the high school football team and he likely didn't spend time partying with good looking girls. Same with the guy who hardly had that much luck in college with the popular girls. In the United States, popular girl literally means blonde bombshell, mainstream American culture that is.
The guy is likely a late bloomer who always wanted to be a popular guy or run with the cool kids growing up but he never got that chance whether it was due to circumstances or just not hitting his prime. Now he wants to make up for lost time and go for the popular girls as a means of getting revenge on the past, a way to look back at people in the past that were more popular than him and rub it in their faces.
Some of them are not even that attracted to these women!
I have known guys who slept with a couple of hot blondes and later found that the brunette or latina gets them way harder than that hot blonde ever could. Some of these guys have found that they were not even that attracted to these women in the first place, they were doing it for arm candy and as a trophy sort of thing. I think this is what we should be taking into account when helping guys who come forth asking for help with hot blondes or ANY kind of higher status girl, they aren't chasing the pussy for attraction or fun, they're doing it to fill some sort of a hole left in their past.
They're attached to their lonelier days of the past and where they were not the cool kid and they're using certain women as ways to make up for that lost time.
