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hi studs,
Last week I decided to try a Skype Japanese lesson, I chose the hottest teacher on italki who offers video chat (actually this was for an innocent reason because I am hearing impaired so I really do need the video), and I told her since I already study Japanese in a language school, I only want conversation, she doesn't have to teach. My intention was to deep dive her and get better at comprehension in Japanese since I can already talk okay.
This went pretty well for the first half hour, she was sharing, the only real critique of myself was probably my body language, I was unconsciously leaning forward towards the camera and straining to hear a bit, even though this makes no sense since I was wearing headphones. (It's something I struggle with in my approaches too). Since the conversation flowed pretty well I relaxed a bit and shared some stories about myself, probably too much since I was trying to deep dive and not talk so much.
Anyway, so I will address these things in the next talk (Friday week), but what I'm wondering is how to steer things towards phone sex, she really is amazingly cute and I led in with a compliment and I made things a little bit sexual (talk about boyfriends and so on), I will probably make things more sexual next time, some opportunities got away but I suppose it was important to build comfort as well instead of just burning it down from the outset.
What we teach here is basically isolate and escalate, but escalation via webcam is obviously a different kettle of fish, probably I have to be more persuasive and seek her cooperation, I guess I just have to be really flirtatious and look for an escalation window? So for example if we are talking about bra and panties... I can tease her with something like "nobura, nopan" which is Japanese (borrowed English) for no bra, no panties... if she denies it I can say something like okay then, show me...?
What do you think guys? Anyone who has done this... how did you do it? Was it with an established girlfriend, how to do it with someone you've only met online? Actually there's also a Chinese chick living in Japan who contacted me recently, I only met her once but we became friends by FB chat and I had similar designs on her too...??
cheers, Ray
PS. I was in an LTR with a Japanese chick for a year, with regular skype chat but was too timid to steer things onto skype sex, though I suggested it a few times when we were in person and things were going well... how could I have done this better? She would say things like "I can't imagine it"... so I should have been more decisive??
Last week I decided to try a Skype Japanese lesson, I chose the hottest teacher on italki who offers video chat (actually this was for an innocent reason because I am hearing impaired so I really do need the video), and I told her since I already study Japanese in a language school, I only want conversation, she doesn't have to teach. My intention was to deep dive her and get better at comprehension in Japanese since I can already talk okay.
This went pretty well for the first half hour, she was sharing, the only real critique of myself was probably my body language, I was unconsciously leaning forward towards the camera and straining to hear a bit, even though this makes no sense since I was wearing headphones. (It's something I struggle with in my approaches too). Since the conversation flowed pretty well I relaxed a bit and shared some stories about myself, probably too much since I was trying to deep dive and not talk so much.
Anyway, so I will address these things in the next talk (Friday week), but what I'm wondering is how to steer things towards phone sex, she really is amazingly cute and I led in with a compliment and I made things a little bit sexual (talk about boyfriends and so on), I will probably make things more sexual next time, some opportunities got away but I suppose it was important to build comfort as well instead of just burning it down from the outset.
What we teach here is basically isolate and escalate, but escalation via webcam is obviously a different kettle of fish, probably I have to be more persuasive and seek her cooperation, I guess I just have to be really flirtatious and look for an escalation window? So for example if we are talking about bra and panties... I can tease her with something like "nobura, nopan" which is Japanese (borrowed English) for no bra, no panties... if she denies it I can say something like okay then, show me...?
What do you think guys? Anyone who has done this... how did you do it? Was it with an established girlfriend, how to do it with someone you've only met online? Actually there's also a Chinese chick living in Japan who contacted me recently, I only met her once but we became friends by FB chat and I had similar designs on her too...??
cheers, Ray
PS. I was in an LTR with a Japanese chick for a year, with regular skype chat but was too timid to steer things onto skype sex, though I suggested it a few times when we were in person and things were going well... how could I have done this better? She would say things like "I can't imagine it"... so I should have been more decisive??
