FR Physical escalation gone wrong.

[Duke22]

Fuck

So, I tried to escalate on this girl I met through social circle.

She was attractive, I didn't had much time so didn't ask her about her name properly and about family. I usually don't ask these questions. Anyway, so we were sitting, so I used compliance, asked her to show me her ring, she did and caught her hands several times. Asked her to move with me, she did every time. Took her to more private place.

Keep the conversation going. Looking at her lustily, felt sexual tension. I was touching her here and there till now. Used little sex talk.

Then I knew that I had to make a bold move now. So I lean in and just give a quick kiss and lean back.

This is where it got fucked .

After kissing, she raised her hand like she was about to slap me, I didn't move a bit. She said do I slap you now, said it again. I didn't reply.

I took it lightly, and even chuckled a bit.

This is where I got SHOCK ATTACK :

It's when I found out that she knows my parents, not just that she even know my brother. I got confused and dig deeper, found out........ she's my COUSIN.

FUCK MAN.

I realised the seriousness of the situation and told her that this won't happen again and she shouldn't mentioned it to anyone.

She started creating drama again, I told the exact same thing again and said we shouldn't talk about it now cause someone might hear us. There was a shock in her face. Looks like nobody told her something like that.

I seriously didn't knew at all that she's my cousin, cause I don't visit my relatives.

Anyway, this made me scared as fuck. I don't know she'll mention it to my family members or not. Cause when we were talking, she mentioned things like she don't talk about someone's back and that she keep it to herself.

This even made me get scared. I'm gonna be really careful from now on.

Anything you guys wanna say? It'd be helpful.

 

[BMD]

Hey man, I genuinely feel for you, that sounds awkward af.

What baffles me most is why she didn't bring up the fact when sexual tension kicked off, or indeed at the start.

As for the family, should she bring it up, just be honest in my opinion, how you saw a cute girl and had no idea.

Hope it helps. BMD

 

[Sandman]

I know a girl who fucked her older cousin. She describes it as one of the most intense sexual acts she has ever experienced. She never told it to anyone, not even her best friend. Now they act like it it never happened at family gatherings.

If she is not a complete bitch she'll keep it to herself. Plus you're blameless why didn't she say you were her cousin right away? Maybe she wanted something and that reaction was just a test.

Don't treat it as a serious situation and it won't be

 

[Duke22]

Thanks guys for your humble replies.

The thing is, it made me scared for like 2 days. Scared like fuck. I wasn't comfortable looking at GIRLS. But, I'm all okay now. Didn't expected a reply though, and decided that I should handle it the same way I handle it last time. Haven't met her after that.

But as a man to man, I can say this : she was ready for sex, but it was because of the brother sister dynamic that things didn't work out.

And I'm not keen on having anything with her.

Thanks for saying "Don't treat it as a serious situation and it won't be "

And as for the unknown dynamic, it's little my fault too, cause I don't vist or go to my relatives. And she thought that I knew that I'm her brother. Cause I am the only one who don't know his complete family members.

But, this experience turned my focus towards being careful from now on.

-Duke