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I'm wondering if there is a post somewhere about physically escalating from the moment you meet a new girl somewhere in public. I'm wondering about how to do it if you're in public the entire time, and can't get somewhere private, or if it's still technically public, but you're alone with her (an empty classroom for example).
I'm not sure if it's me, but I just don't know what is appropriate when it comes to touching a girl I don't know. I've been doing it a lot recently, but it just feels off, wrong, not appropriate. It feels "not me", perhaps because I usually never touch girls. To avoid this feeling, I'm going in for "barely touch" touch, with practically every girl I talk to, where I touch her shoulder, or her elbow, or wherever, but it's purpose is to break the barrier of touch, and push the boundary.
It still feels a bit off though, as if that's just an excuse, like I should just go in and start touching her way more, even though it feels awkward... I dono.
Any advice would be helpful.
I'm not sure if it's me, but I just don't know what is appropriate when it comes to touching a girl I don't know. I've been doing it a lot recently, but it just feels off, wrong, not appropriate. It feels "not me", perhaps because I usually never touch girls. To avoid this feeling, I'm going in for "barely touch" touch, with practically every girl I talk to, where I touch her shoulder, or her elbow, or wherever, but it's purpose is to break the barrier of touch, and push the boundary.
It still feels a bit off though, as if that's just an excuse, like I should just go in and start touching her way more, even though it feels awkward... I dono.
Any advice would be helpful.