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I just read that a pick-up coach named Julien Blanc (who I didn't know until today) was banned from Australia and Brazil because his teachings were considered mysoginist.
What came under fire particularly were his remarks on asian girls, whereby it would be ok in many asian countries to just grab a girl's head and move her towards your leg because she would probably laugh.
Now, I have seen some videos from the guy and I must say I don't really like the man, but I also saw some interviews involving women who were actually attacking the whole concept of "teaching men how to be sexually successful" because they supposedly teach them how to "manipulate women". One commentator on British TV in particular, attacked the concept of "physical escalation" which she considered "forcing the girl to something she doesn't want to".
I was really disappointed by the answer the man representing the dating coaching community gave.
He should have pointed how in my opinion, how normal and accepted is for women to read magazines who teach them how to dress and make up in a more sex way, which has obviously the goal of generating desire in men, and how many magazines teach women all sort of techniques to "make a man hers and keeping her hers" and sometimes even having and keeping more lovers.
Here's the video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqlgKsMKqxk
Is this a dangerous precedent of the men's coaching community being politically attacked? Shouldn't we get a bit political too to defend ourselves?
What came under fire particularly were his remarks on asian girls, whereby it would be ok in many asian countries to just grab a girl's head and move her towards your leg because she would probably laugh.
Now, I have seen some videos from the guy and I must say I don't really like the man, but I also saw some interviews involving women who were actually attacking the whole concept of "teaching men how to be sexually successful" because they supposedly teach them how to "manipulate women". One commentator on British TV in particular, attacked the concept of "physical escalation" which she considered "forcing the girl to something she doesn't want to".
I was really disappointed by the answer the man representing the dating coaching community gave.
He should have pointed how in my opinion, how normal and accepted is for women to read magazines who teach them how to dress and make up in a more sex way, which has obviously the goal of generating desire in men, and how many magazines teach women all sort of techniques to "make a man hers and keeping her hers" and sometimes even having and keeping more lovers.
Here's the video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqlgKsMKqxk
Is this a dangerous precedent of the men's coaching community being politically attacked? Shouldn't we get a bit political too to defend ourselves?