Pick-up days vs. Continuous pick-up?

[rickroll]

Hi,

Im 21 years old and i have been cold approaching little bit over a year now. First 10 months i didnt do any specific "approaching days", i just went to do my chores and if i spotted some cute girl i approached her and tried to get dates and that has been working pretty well. After those first 10 months i started to make pick-up days on my calendar, example. Every tuesday i go out and try to pick-up least 10 gals and i focus fully only on approaching. I did this change becouse, i stressed out every time i walked out of my home i was too stressed about pick ups, dont get me wrong its one of the best feels when u "seal the deal", but its also exhausting.(i dont have anymore anxiety, its just stressing to make moves).

So.. my question is:

Is it good to make "pick-up days" and then keep days off, like u were at work on pick up days, OR just keep approaching middle of daily activities no matter what, till i get used of my feelings and nerves and start to feel being in comfort zone all the time?


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[Thedoctor]

rickroll,

I think this one just chalks up to personal preference. When you're starting out, I think it can be important to devote time exclusively for approaching. As you get better, it just becomes something where you can choose either or. I think the one advantage of just doing it continuously is that you won't miss out on any great opportunities. Also, it comes off more naturally and less forced.

I've seen the same thing with salespeople. You get some that "turn it on" while they are at work. And you get others that just make it part of who they are. Both can be successful, but I always found that the ones who just make it part of their personality seem to look more natural and seem to do better.

-John