Picking up girls at the gym.

[killerman]

So I've done day game for years, and that's been good for developing my skills, but I'm clueless with picking up girls at the gym. I get eye contact and smiles but not sure when to ask for the number. Should I do it when approaching a girl for the first time or should I just establish a bit of rapport over one or two times I bump into her and THEN ask for the number/date? I've always been once to move as fast as possible but I'm wondering if in the gym it would come across as needy and I should talk to her a couple of times before asking.

 

[Jan]

I think Chase has written a post about gym game. Search for it, there are some good tips there.

Also check this out:

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5zpzbx
To answer your question. Mind that you can socialize in two different scenarios at the gym. First, in the open venue when everyone else see you. Second, in a private location like a corridor, lift, parking, etc.

When it comes to the first scenario it's much better to split your interaction into few smaller chunks. 1. Intro, very short small talk. 2. Hey, how you doing? A bit longer conversation, 3. Hook point, where you find something in common and you have reason to arrange a date to talk about your commonality.

For the second scenario (private location), you can combine the three chunks into one. If you find a common ground during about 10-15 minutes, you should get a number and date quite easily. Done that.

Worst thing to do in the gym is be direct and sexual. It's day light, everyone can see and hear everything, so almost no level of game and sexiness is going to beat her anti-slut defence.